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The power of babble: Why your baby’s ‘talk’ matters

ByLondon Speech and Feeding April 16, 2025April 15, 2025

That adorable string of ‘ba-ba-ga-ga-ma-ma’ might sound like baby gibberish, but it’s actually a crucial milestone in your little one’s language development. Babbling or babble, as we call it, is far more than just cute baby noises. It’s a sequence of sounds that lays the foundation for future communication.

What is babbling?

Babbling typically begins around six months of age, though the timing can vary slightly from baby to baby. It involves your baby experimenting with different sounds, stringing together consonants and vowels. You might hear them repeating sounds like:

‘Ba-ba’
‘Da-da’
‘Ma-ma’
‘Ga-ga’

As they progress, the babbling becomes more complex, with variations in pitch, rhythm, and intonation. It might even sound like they’re having a conversation with you!

Why is babbling so important?

Laying the groundwork for speech: Babbling is like a vocal workout for your baby. By practising these sounds, they’re strengthening the muscles in their mouth, tongue, and vocal cords that are essential for speech.
Developing phonological skills: Through babbling, babies begin to understand the sound patterns of their native language. They’re learning which sounds go together and how they’re used.
Enhancing social interaction: Babbling is a social activity. Babies often babble back and forth with their caregivers, which helps them learn about the give-and-take of communication.
Cognitive development: The act of babbling requires babies to use their brains in new ways. They’re learning to control their vocalisations, pay attention to the sounds they’re making, and connect those sounds to the responses they receive from others.

How can you encourage babbling?

Talk to your baby: Even though they can’t understand your words yet, talking to your baby exposes them to language and encourages them to respond with their own vocalisations.
Imitate their sounds: When your baby babbles, imitate them! This shows them that you’re paying attention and encourages them to keep ‘talking.’
Respond to their babbling: Treat your baby’s babbling as if it’s a real conversation. Respond with words, smiles, and gestures.
Play sound games: Make different sounds for your baby and encourage them to imitate you. This could include animal sounds, silly noises, or simple words.
Read to your baby: Even before they can understand the words, reading to your baby exposes them to the rhythm and sounds of language.
Sing songs: Singing is a fun and engaging way to introduce your baby to new sounds and words.
Use mirrors: Babies often enjoy watching themselves make sounds in a mirror.
Tactile stimulation: Gentle massage around the mouth and face can increase oral awareness and encourage vocalisations.
Vary textures: Offer different textured teethers.
Read books with sound effects: Choose books with animal sounds or other engaging noises.
Blow bubbles: The act of blowing and popping bubbles can encourage vocalisations.
Use visual aids: Show pictures of objects and say their names, emphasising the consonant sounds.
Use exaggerated facial expressions: When you make sounds, exaggerate your mouth movements to help your baby see how sounds are made.
Increase joint attention: Follow the child’s gaze and point to objects that they are looking at and say the name of the object.

When to seek help

If you notice that your baby is not babbling by eight months, it’s a good idea to talk to your speech and language therapist. You might also notice a lack of variation in tone when your child is making sounds, is your baby sounding a little ‘flat’ or monotonous? While every child develops at their own pace, a lack of babbling can sometimes indicate a developmental delay or hearing issue.

Remember, babbling is a gift. So, enjoy those precious moments of ‘baby talk’ and take comfort in knowing that your little one is on the path to becoming a chatterbox!

Do get in touch via my contact form if you are concerned about your child’s development or if you simply want some reassurance that your baby is developing well. We will be delighted to arrange a screening appointment for you and give you support and reassurance.

Sonja McGeachie

Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.

Royal College of Speech & Language Therapists Member

Find a speech and language therapist for your child in London. Are you concerned about your child’s speech, feeding or communication skills and don’t know where to turn? Please contact me and we can discuss how I can help you or visit my services page.

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Autism Therapy · Neurodiversity · Speech and Language Therapy

Explaining pronoun reversal: A window into gestalt language processing

ByLondon Speech and Feeding April 2, 2025April 2, 2025

Have you noticed your child referring to themselves as ‘you’, or calling you ‘me’? This seemingly confusing mix-up of pronouns, known as pronoun reversal, often raises concerns for parents. Below I outline why your child does this and want to reassure you that it is to do with his or her unique language learning style.

Gestalt language processing: Learning in chunks

Many children, particularly those on the autism spectrum, use a gestalt language processing approach. Unlike analytic language processors who learn individual words and build sentences, gestalt language processors learn language in whole ‘chunks’ or ‘gestalts’. Think of these gestalts as pre-packaged scripts they pick up from their environment — phrases, sentences, even snippets of songs or movie lines.

As Marge Blanc, author of Natural language acquisition on the autism spectrum, explains, ‘When a child picks up an entire gestalt (script), he’s got the pronoun of the original speaker. So ‘pronoun reversal’ is nothing more than that.’

So your child is simply repeating what they’ve heard, without yet understanding the individual word meanings or grammatical functions.

Imagine your child hearing ‘You want a rice cake?’ repeated frequently. They might then use this phrase to express their own desire for a rice cake, even though it doesn’t grammatically fit. So they are thinking and saying ‘You want a rice cake?’ and the meaning of this phrase is: ‘I want a rice cake’. This isn’t a sign of confusion, but a natural step in their language development. They’re working with the tools they have: the scripts they’ve acquired.

How can we support their natural language journey

Instead of trying to ‘correct’ pronoun usage, our role as caregivers and speech therapists is to support the child’s natural language progression. Here’s how we can do this:

Learn about their gestalt stage and run with it: In the early stages (1–3) of gestalt language development, correcting pronouns can be counterproductive. These children are still processing language as whole units, not individual words. Direct corrections can lead to frustration and hinder their natural language exploration.
Patience and trust: Gestalt language processing follows a predictable, albeit sometimes non-linear, path. By understanding their current stage, we can provide targeted support. Language sampling and scoring, guided by the Natural Language Acquisition framework, help us pinpoint their stage and tailor our approach.
Model language strategically: In the early stages, avoid using pronouns like ‘you’ and ‘you’re’. Instead, model language from the child’s perspective or use joint perspectives. For example, instead of ‘Are you thirsty?’, try ‘I’m thirsty!’ or ‘Let’s get some water’,

The big picture: Language unfolds naturally

Pronoun reversal is a stepping stone, not a stumbling block. As gestalt language processors progress, they begin to break down these gestalts into smaller units and develop their own self-generated language. This is when their understanding and use of pronouns naturally emerge.

By shifting our perspective from ‘error correction’ to ‘developmental support’, we create a nurturing environment for these children to thrive. We empower them to navigate their unique language journey, ultimately leading to more meaningful and independent communication.

So, to summarise:

Pronoun reversal is a typical characteristic of early-stage gestalt language processing.
Focus on modelling language from the child’s perspective or a joint perspective.
Avoid correcting pronouns in the early stages.
Trust the process and support the child’s natural language development.

Let’s celebrate the diverse ways our children learn to communicate and empower them to find their unique voice!

If you have any questions or would like some help with understanding your little gestalt language learner, please get in touch with me via my contact form.

Sonja McGeachie

Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.

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Autism Therapy · Speech and Language Therapy · Top tips

Why pointing matters: Unpacking the power of this simple gesture

ByLondon Speech and Feeding March 26, 2025March 26, 2025

As a speech and language therapist, I’m often asked about the significance of seemingly simple gestures in child development. One question that comes up frequently is, ‘Why is pointing so important?’ It might seem like a trivial action, but pointing is a powerful communication tool and a critical milestone in a child’s development.

Why is pointing so important?

Let’s delve into the theory behind why pointing matters:

1. Pointing as pre verbal communication:

Before children can use words, they use gestures to communicate their needs and interests. Pointing is one of the earliest and most important gestures. It allows children to:

Request: ‘I want that!’
Protest: ‘No, not that!’
Direct attention: ‘Look at that!’
Share interest: ‘Wow, cool!’

2. Pointing and language development:

Pointing is not just about communicating in the here and now; it also plays a crucial role in language development. Research shows that:

Early pointing predicts later language skills: Children who point more often tend to have larger vocabularies and better grammar later on.
Pointing helps children learn new words: When children point at something, adults tend to label it, providing valuable language input.
Pointing supports joint attention: Joint attention, or the shared focus of two individuals on an object or event, is essential for language learning. Pointing helps establish joint attention, creating opportunities for communication and learning.

3. Pointing and social-emotional development:

Pointing is not just about language; it’s also about social interaction. It allows children to:

Engage with others: Pointing invites others to share their focus and participate in their world.
Express emotions: Pointing can convey excitement, curiosity, or concern.
Develop social understanding: By observing how others respond to their pointing, children learn about social cues and communication.

4. Pointing and cognitive development:

Pointing is linked to cognitive skills, such as:

Understanding object permanence: The ability to know that objects exist even when they are out of sight.
Categorisation: The ability to group similar objects together.
Problem-solving: Pointing can be used to ask for help or to indicate a problem.

5. Types of Pointing:

It’s important to note that there are different types of pointing, each with its own significance:

Imperative pointing: To request something.
Declarative pointing: To share interest or direct attention.
Informative pointing: To provide information.

If you have concerns about your child’s pointing or overall communication development, don’t hesitate to seek professional guidance from a speech-language therapist. Early intervention can make a significant difference in supporting your child’s communication journey.

How can we create opportunities for pointing?

‘Where’s the…?’ games:
- Play games like ‘Where’s the doggy?’ or ‘Where’s the ball?’ and encourage your toddler to point to the object.
- Start with familiar objects and gradually introduce new ones.
Reading together:
- When reading picture books, ask your toddler to point to specific objects or characters on the page.
- Use phrases like, ‘Can you point to the puppy?’
Everyday activities:
- During daily routines, ask your toddler to point to things they want or need.
- For example, ‘Do you want the apple or the banana?’
- When walking outside say ‘LOOK’ and encourage pointing.
Use of toys:
- Use toys that have buttons or points of interest that when pressed make a noise. Encourage your toddler to point to the area that makes the noise.
- Use toys that have many different parts, and ask the toddler to point to a specific part.

Model pointing:

Point yourself:
- When you see something interesting, point to it and say the name of the object.
- For example, ‘Look! A bird!’
Point to show choices:
- When offering choices, point to each item as you name it.
- For example, ‘Do you want the blue cup or the red cup?’ (Point to each cup).
Point to indicate direction:
- When giving directions, point in the direction you want your toddler to go.
- For example, ‘Let’s go that way!’ (Point).

Make it rewarding:

Respond to pointing:
- When your toddler points, immediately respond to their communication.
- Give them the object they want, or acknowledge what they are pointing at.
Use positive reinforcement:
- Praise and encourage your toddler when they point.
- Say things like, ‘Good pointing!’ or ‘You showed me the car!’
Show excitement:
- When they point to something, show excitement, this will encourage them to point again.

Use specific techniques:

Use gestures and verbal cues:
- Combine pointing with verbal cues and other gestures.
- For example, say ‘Look!’ while pointing and nodding your head.
Simplify the environment:
- Reduce distractions to help your toddler focus on the object you want them to point to.
Use exaggerated movements:
- Use large, exaggerated pointing movements to draw your toddler’s attention.

Consider developmental factors:

Age-appropriate expectations:
- Remember that pointing develops at different rates for different children.
- Be patient and supportive.
Underlying issues:
- If your toddler is not pointing by 18 months, or if you have any concerns about their development, consult with a speech and language therapist.
- There may be underlying sensory or motor issues.

Key points:

Consistency is key. Practise these strategies regularly.
Make it fun and engaging for your toddler.
Celebrate every success, no matter how small.
If you have any concerns about your child’s development, contact your local health services.

Great toys and items for pointing

1. Interactive books:

Touch-and-feel books: Books with different textures, flaps to lift, and sounds encourage interaction and pointing. ‘Where’s the…?’ questions prompt pointing to specific features.
Books with simple pictures: Clear, uncluttered pictures make it easier for toddlers to focus and point to objects or characters.

2. Cause-and-effect toys:

Activity cubes: These often have buttons, dials, and levers that produce sounds or actions when manipulated, prompting pointing and exploration.
Pop-up toys: Toys where figures pop up or things happen when a button is pressed encourage anticipation and pointing to the action.
Simple musical instruments: A toy piano, drum, or xylophone encourages pointing to the keys/surfaces to make sounds.

3. Toys with parts to manipulate:

Shape sorters: Encourage pointing to the shapes and the matching holes.
Stacking cups or rings: Nesting cups or stacking rings invite pointing to select the correct size or order.
Puzzles with knobs: Simple puzzles with large knobs are easier for toddlers to grasp and point to the pieces.

4. Toys that encourage joint attention:

Bubbles: Blowing bubbles and following them with your eyes and pointing encourages joint attention (shared focus).
Balls: Rolling a ball back and forth and pointing to where it’s going can promote joint attention and turn-taking.
Wind-Up Toys: Wind-up toys that move across the floor can be exciting to follow with pointing.

5. Pretend play toys:

Toy telephones: Encourage pointing to the buttons and pretending to dial.
Dolls and stuffed animals: Pointing to the doll’s eyes, nose, mouth, etc., or asking the child to point to these features on themselves.
Toy food and dishes: Pretend play with food and dishes can involve pointing to request items or indicate actions (e.g., ‘Can I have the apple?’).

Tips for using toys to encourage pointing:

Get involved: Play alongside your toddler, modelling pointing and using language to describe what you’re doing.
Follow their lead: Observe what your child is interested in and use that to encourage pointing.
Limit distractions: Reduce background noise and visual clutter to help your child focus.
Use gestures and words: Combine pointing with words and other gestures (e.g., ‘Look!’ while pointing).
Be patient and positive: Celebrate all attempts at pointing and provide lots of encouragement.

Remember, the most important factor is the interaction you have with your child while playing. Use these toys as tools to create opportunities for communication and joint attention, and your toddler will be well on their way to mastering pointing!

Get in touch with me via my contact form if you need support

Sonja McGeachie

Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

The London Speech and Feeding Practice

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Autism Therapy · Feeding · Speech and Language Therapy

The picky eater’s plate: Introducing solids to toddlers with ARFID

ByLondon Speech and Feeding March 17, 2025March 13, 2025

Mealtimes can be a battleground for parents of picky eaters, especially toddlers with Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder (ARFID). I see a great number of toddlers with Autism traits and many of my clients are picky eaters from mild to severe. Take a look at my blog for an outline of what the issues are and how to try and help.

ARFID goes beyond typical ‘picky eating’ and can significantly impact a child’s growth, nutrition, and social-emotional well-being. If your toddler is resistant to trying new foods or has a very limited diet, here are some strategies to navigate the introduction of solids:

1. Understand ARFID:

ARFID is a diagnosable eating disorder characterised by:

Limited food variety: Eating only a small range of foods, often with specific textures or colours.
Fear of new foods: Intense anxiety or aversion to trying unfamiliar foods.
Sensory sensitivities: Heightened sensitivity to taste, smell, texture, or appearance of food.
Lack of interest in eating: May show little interest in food or mealtimes.

2. Seek professional guidance:

Paediatrician and/or gastroenterologist: Rule out any underlying medical conditions.
Registered dietitian: Assess nutritional needs and create a balanced meal plan.
Speech and language therapist (SLT): If oral-motor skills or sensory sensitivities are contributing to feeding difficulties.
Occupational therapist (OT): If sensory processing challenges are affecting mealtime behaviours.
Child psychologist: If anxiety or emotional factors are contributing to ARFID.

3. Strategies for introducing solids:

Start small: Introduce one new food at a time, in small amounts, alongside familiar favourites.
Patience is key: It can take multiple exposures (up to 10–15 times!) for a child to accept a new food. Don’t give up!
Positive reinforcement: Praise and encouragement for any interaction with the new food, even just touching or smelling it.
No pressure: Avoid forcing or pressuring the child to eat. This can create negative associations with food.
Make it fun: Present food in playful ways, use cookie cutters for fun shapes, or involve the child in food preparation.
Sensory exploration: Encourage exploration of food through touch, smell, and sight before tasting.
Role modelling: Show the child that you enjoy eating a variety of foods.
Use fun utensils: your child might like characters from ‘Frozen’ or ‘Dinosaurs’ or ‘Diggers’ there are a host of character-based cutlery and cups/plates to be had. Also, I really rate these two items very highly they are so good so I want to share these with you. Both are available online. But warning: the cup is outrageously expensive as it comes from the United States and is sold by a small scale company. But I feel this is cup very worth trying, I have had good results with this.

Gradual desensitisation: Start with foods that are similar in texture or taste to accepted foods, then gradually introduce more challenging options.
Food chaining: Introduce new foods that are similar in taste, texture, or appearance to accepted foods.

4. Mealtime Environment:

Positive and relaxed: Create a calm and enjoyable mealtime atmosphere.
No distractions: Minimise distractions like TV or toys.
Consistent schedule: Offer meals and snacks at regular times.
Child-sized portions: Offer small, manageable portions to avoid overwhelming the child.
Involve the child: Let the child choose their utensils, plate, or cup.

5. Remember:

Every child is different: What works for one child may not work for another.
Progress takes time: Be patient and celebrate small victories.
Focus on the positive: Praise any positive interaction with food.
Seek support: Connect with other parents or support groups.

Introducing solids to toddlers with ARFID can be challenging, but with patience, persistence, and professional guidance, you can help your child develop a healthier relationship with food.

Get in touch with me via my contact form if you need support

Sonja McGeachie

Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

The London Speech and Feeding Practice

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Speech and Language Therapy

The tricky /R/: Mastering tongue placement for clear speech

ByLondon Speech and Feeding March 5, 2025March 3, 2025

The /R/ sound is notoriously challenging for many children (and even some adults!). It’s one of the most complex sounds in the English language, with various pronunciations depending on its position in a word. If your child is struggling with their /R/s, you’re not alone. As Speech and Language Therapists (SLTs), we frequently work on this sound, and a key component of our therapy is focusing on proper tongue placement.

Why is the /R/ so difficult?

The /R/ sound requires precise coordination of the tongue, jaw, and lips. Unlike sounds like /P/ or /B/ that involve simple lip movements, the /R/ involves intricate tongue movements and tension. There are also different ways to produce the /R/ sound, which adds to the complexity:

Retroflex /R/: The tongue tip curls up and back towards the roof of the mouth.
Bunched /R/: The body of the tongue bunches up towards the roof of the mouth, while the tongue tip remains down.

The importance of tongue placement

Regardless of which /R/ variation is being targeted, accurate tongue placement is crucial. Even a slight deviation can result in a distorted or inaccurate sound. That’s why SLTs dedicate significant time to teaching and practising tongue positioning.

Speech therapy techniques: Focusing on the tongue

Here’s a glimpse into how I address /R/ sound difficulties, with a focus on tongue placement:

Visual aids:
- Mirrors: I use a mirror to help children see their tongue movements and make adjustments.
- Tongue diagrams and models: These visual tools provide a clear representation of where the tongue should be positioned.
Tactile cues:
- Tongue depressors: These can be used to gently guide the tongue into the correct position.
- Food-grade tools: Sometimes, I use flavoured tongue depressors or other tools to provide tactile feedback and increase awareness of tongue placement.
Auditory discrimination:
- I help children distinguish between correct and incorrect /R/ sounds.
- I use auditory cues and verbal feedback to reinforce proper pronunciation.
Exercises and drills:
- Tongue strengthening exercises: Strengthening the tongue muscles can improve control and coordination.
- Tongue placement drills: We practise positioning the tongue in the desired location and holding it there.
- Sound approximation techniques: Sometimes we use other sounds to help approximate the /R/ sound. For example, I use the /L/ sound, to help achieve the correct tongue placement. Once my child has found the /L/ sound it is then a matter of pulling back just slightly to get a good /R/.
Contextual practice:
- Once the child can produce the /R/ sound in isolation, we gradually introduce it into syllables, words, phrases, and sentences.
- We also practise the /R/ sound in different contexts, such as at the beginning, middle, and end of words.

Tips for Parents:

Be patient and supportive: Learning the /R/ sound takes time and practice.
Practise regularly: Short, frequent practice sessions are more effective than long, infrequent ones.
Make it fun! Use games, stories, and other engaging activities to keep your child motivated.
Work with an SLT: A qualified SLT can provide personalised guidance and support.

In conclusion:

The /R/ sound can be challenging, but with targeted speech therapy and a focus on tongue placement, most children can achieve clear and accurate pronunciation.

I hope this blog post is helpful!

Get in touch with me via my contact form if you need support

Sonja McGeachie

Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

The London Speech and Feeding Practice

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Ages and Stages · Speech and Language Therapy · Top tips

Great toys and books for our toddlers (around 1–2 years old)

ByLondon Speech and Feeding February 24, 2025February 17, 2025

As a speech and language therapist, I often get asked by parents what toys and books they should buy for their toddlers. It can feel overwhelming with so many options available! So, I’ve put together a list based on my experience and what I’ve found works well.

Remember, every child is unique!

Observe your toddler’s interests and play style. Some toys that are popular might not be engaging for your child.

Here are a few ideas to get you started:

Sensory Toys:

Stacking cups: These are fantastic for developing hand-eye coordination, fine motor skills, and understanding size relationships. (Various brands available) Note: You can stack many things you have around the house, like bowls or measuring cups, for a similar experience!
Shape sorters: Help with shape recognition, hand-eye coordination, and problem-solving. (Melissa & Doug, Vtech)
Sensory balls: Balls with different textures (soft, bumpy, squishy) provide tactile stimulation. (Various brands)
Push and pull toys: Encourage gross motor development and exploration. (Vtech, Fisher-Price)

Communication-focused toys:

Picture books with flaps: Engage curiosity and encourage language development. (Various brands)
Talking toys: Introduce new vocabulary and encourage imitation. (Vtech, Fisher-Price)
Simple puzzles: Develop hand-eye coordination, problem-solving, and spatial awareness. (Melissa & Doug, Ravensburger)
Musical instruments: Encourage exploration of sounds and develop auditory skills. (Bright Starts, Fisher-Price)

Now, let’s talk about books:

The Very Hungry Caterpillar by Eric Carle: A classic with repetitive text and vibrant illustrations, great for introducing vocabulary and concepts like days of the week.
Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What Do You See? by Bill Martin Jr. and Eric Carle: Simple, repetitive text and engaging illustrations make this a favourite for many toddlers.
Goodnight Moon by Margaret Wise Brown: A soothing bedtime story with calming illustrations.
Pat the Bunny by Dorothy Kunhardt: An interactive book with textures and flaps to engage young children.
Corduroy by Don Freeman: A heartwarming story about a teddy bear who loses his button.

Remember:

Observe your child’s interests: Choose toys and books that capture their attention and encourage exploration.
Engage with your child: Play with the toys together and read books aloud with enthusiasm.
Keep it simple: Start with a few toys and books and gradually introduce new ones.
Rotate toys: Keep playtime fresh by rotating toys and books regularly.
Most importantly, have fun! Reading and playing with your child should be a joyful experience for both of you.

Also consider the power of open-ended play

In today’s world filled with electronic gadgets, it’s easy to overlook the value of open-ended play. Open-ended toys lack specific functions or prescribed outcomes, allowing children to use their imaginations to explore and create. Unlike toys with pre-determined ways to play, open-ended toys encourage:

Creative thinking: Children can use them in countless ways, developing their own rules and narratives. A block can become a car, a house, or a spaceship, depending on the child’s imagination.
Problem-solving skills: Children learn to figure out how to use the toys, experimenting and adapting as they go. Don’t immediately rush in and fix things for your little one, let them think for themselves and then communication incentive: let them come and find you!
Fine motor skills: Many open-ended toys, like blocks, encourage the development of fine motor skills like grasping, stacking, and building.
Cognitive development: Children learn about cause and effect, spatial relationships, and problem-solving as they play with open-ended toys.
Social-emotional development: Open-ended play can foster social interaction and cooperation as children play together and share ideas.

Simple toys with big impact

Some of the best toys for toddlers are often the simplest ones. Here are a few examples:

Wooden blocks: Building towers, bridges, and forts encourages creativity and problem-solving.
Balls: Throwing, kicking, and rolling balls promote gross motor skills and hand-eye coordination.
Fabric: Bits of fabric can be draped, draped, and used for imaginative play.
Empty boxes: From cardboard boxes to tissue boxes, these can be transformed into anything a child can imagine: a car, a house, a spaceship!
Natural materials: Sticks, leaves, pinecones, and rocks can be used for imaginative play and sensory exploration.

Remember, the key to open-ended play is to let children explore and discover

Step back and observe, allowing your child to use his or her imaginations without too much direction. You might be surprised at the creative ways he or she uses simple toys!

Happy play times with your little one!

Contact me via my contact form.

Sonja McGeachie

Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

The London Speech and Feeding Practice

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Lisp · Speech and Language Therapy

Tongue training: Why tongue placement matters for clear speech

ByLondon Speech and Feeding February 12, 2025February 3, 2025

As speech and Language therapists (SLTs), we know that where your tongue goes, so goes your sound. This blog post will explore why tongue placement is so vital for speech correction and how we use tools and techniques to help our clients find their ‘sweet spot’ for sound production.

Let me show you here a little video clip where I am using my dentist’s mouth/teeth model to help my clients navigate their tongue movements.

The tongue: A tiny muscle with a big job

The tongue is a small but mighty muscle. It’s incredibly versatile, playing a key role in eating, swallowing, and, of course, speaking. For each speech sound, the tongue, along with the lips and jaw, needs to move to a very specific spot. Think of it like a dance: every part of your mouth has a choreographed movement to produce the correct sound. If the tongue is out of sync, the sound comes out muffled, distorted, or just plain wrong.

The trouble with our tongue movements is that most of us never think about how the tongue has to move and what it does to: swallow, chew, drink, suck and speak. Most parents when asked to think about their own tongue placement for say the /S/ sound are completely lost as to what their tongue is doing. Yet, of course, they produce a perfect /S/ and perfect speech in general. The same goes for swallowing. When did you last think about what happens in your mouth when you swallow? I bet you have not thought about it. We ‘just do it’, right?

Why is tongue placement so important?

Accurate tongue placement is the foundation of clear articulation. When a child struggles with a particular sound, it’s often because his or her tongue isn’t quite reaching the right spot or moving in the correct way. For example, the /S/ sound requires the tongue to be slightly raised and positioned behind the top teeth, creating a narrow channel for air to flow through. If the tongue is too far forward, you might get a /TH/ sound instead. If it’s too far back, the /S/ can sound muffled.

Visual aids: Our secret weapon

We SLTs love our visual aids! They’re incredibly helpful for showing clients exactly where their tongue needs to be. Here are some of our favourite tools:

Mirrors: Mirrors provide instant feedback. Clients can see their tongue’s position and make adjustments in real-time. We often use hand mirrors or even the mirror on a compact for quick checks.
Tongue depressors: These simple tools can gently guide the tongue to the correct position. We might use them to show where the tongue tip should rest for the /L/ sound or how the sides of the tongue should touch the molars for the /K/ and /G/ sounds.
Diagrams and models: Pictures and models of the mouth can help clients visualise the tongue’s movements. We might use a cross-section diagram of the mouth to show how the tongue forms different sounds.

Beyond the tongue: The jaw’s role

While the tongue takes centre stage, the jaw plays a supporting role. It provides a stable base for the tongue and helps control the opening and closing of the mouth. Sometimes, jaw stability is an issue, and we might use techniques to help clients find a comfortable and stable jaw position.

Making it fun and engaging

Learning correct tongue placement can be challenging, but we make it fun! We use games, stories, and playful activities to keep clients motivated. For younger children, we might use silly voices or pretend to be animals. For older children, we might incorporate their interests, like using a car analogy for tongue movements.

The takeaway

Correct tongue placement is essential for clear speech. By using visual aids, interactive techniques, and a bit of creativity, we can help our clients master their speech sounds and communicate with confidence.

If you have any concerns about your child’s speech, don’t hesitate to reach out to a qualified speech and language therapist, we are here to help! Contact me via my contact form.

Sonja McGeachie

Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

The London Speech and Feeding Practice

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Ages and Stages · Speech and Language Therapy · Top tips

Navigating the exciting 9–18 months journey: Your baby’s communication milestones

ByLondon Speech and Feeding February 3, 2025January 31, 2025

Between 9 and 18 months, your little one undergoes a remarkable transformation, blossoming from a curious explorer into a budding communicator. This period is filled with exciting milestones in speech, language, and social development. Let’s delve into what you can expect.

9–12 months: The world opens up

Communication takes flight

Babbling becomes more complex with a wider range of sounds. By babbling we mean syllables like: pa ga ka ma da and then ‘baba’ gohgoh’. First we hear one and two syllables together and then longer and longer strings! This is so exciting!
First words! One day around the 12 months–14 months mark we hear a first word! My older son’s first word was ‘Licht’ which is the German word for ‘light’ as literally every time I carried him along the corridors in our home, I pointed out the light switches to him and turned them off and on a few times. And each time I said ‘Licht!’ and it stuck! PS: sadly I cannot remember what my younger son’s first word was… poor second and third babies they just have to muddle along and call loudly to get noticed!
Understanding grows! Baby now understands simple instructions like ‘where is your ball’ and responds by looking to the ball across the room!

Social butterflies

Your baby now starts to show interest in other children, and may try to copy their actions. Now we are getting proper traction with simple social games like peek-a-boo and patty-cake. Whilst your baby is generally interested in other people and children he or she may show separation anxiety when mum or dad or other familiar person suddenly leaves the room and they feel alone with strangers.

Fine motor skills

Pincer grasp develops. This is where your child puts an index finger to the thumb in order to pick up of small objects, hold them and transfer them to either a box, back on the floor or into the other hand.
Your baby may start to explore objects by banging, shaking, and mouthing.

12–15 months: Words are taking shape

Language explosion: From our early words we now suddenly see baby’s vocabulary expanding, with new words added each week. I would highly recommend parents keep a little journal of all the words they hear. If nothing else this is a wonderful aide-memoire for years down the road when you might like to reminisce about the first ten words. I promise you otherwise you won’t recall! (especially for second and third babies; I would do this now, had I the time again).
Understanding grows:
- By about 15 months our baby can follow simple two-step instructions like ‘Go get your shoes and bring them here.’
- Begins to understand the concept of ‘no.’ and that’s a very useful thing. Though before you breathe a sigh of relief… your toddler may well show you that he is understanding a ‘no’ though he may not stop doing what he is doing or come down off the table!
Playtime gets interactive:
- Now we engage in more complex play, such as stacking blocks, pretending to eat with a spoon, and imitating actions.
- Many toddlers now start showing an interest in picture books.

15–18 months: Communication blossoms

Words combine: Towards 18 months or around about then your toddler may start to put two words together, such as ‘more milk’ or ‘bye-bye dada.’
Gestures and sounds: Now we also use gestures to communicate, such as pointing, shaking head ‘no,’ and waving ‘bye-bye.’
Exploration and curiosity:
- Your toddler is now EVERYWHERE! Turn your back and he or she is gone! Your toddler now shows a strong sense of curiosity and explores their environment with enthusiasm.
Copying
Look out for actions and gestures your toddler will copy such as clapping hands or patting a cushion or banging a spoon on the table .

Remember

Every child develops at his or her own pace.
These are just general guidelines, and some children may reach certain milestones earlier or later than others.
If you have any concerns about your child’s development, please consult with your speech and language therapist. We are always keen to hear from parents and happy to help promote all those lovely early skills.

General tips to encourage communication if you feel your child needs a little more help

Talk, talk, talk! Engage in frequent chatting with your child.
Listen to your child: Allow for periods of silence when playing with your child to allow them to say something or make sounds which you can then copy and respond to.
Read aloud regularly. Use books with simple words and pictures.
Play interactive games: Hickory Dickory Dock, Row Row the boat, Old McDonalds, 5 little monkeys jumping on the bed, chasing and catching, tickling games.
Respond to your child’s babbling and gestures. You can copy them or if your toddler says long strings of babbling you cannot understand you could just say: ‘Oh ok!? ‘yes that’s great!’ ‘who knew!’ ‘wow you’ve got much to say!’ as if you understood.
Limit screen time or if your child is very passionate about watching clips then sit and watch with your child so that you can see what is the best bit, which songs they like the best and what sort of phrases they love hearing.

This exciting period of rapid growth and development is a precious time for both you and your child.

By providing a loving, stimulating, and responsive environment, you will naturally nurture their communication skills! Any more questions, please get in touch!

Sonja McGeachie

Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

The London Speech and Feeding Practice

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Ages and Stages · Speech and Language Therapy · Top tips

Milestones matter: What to expect in your baby’s first year of communication

ByLondon Speech and Feeding January 22, 2025January 22, 2025

The first year of your baby’s life is a whirlwind of growth and development. While watching them learn to crawl, walk, and grasp objects is exciting, it’s equally important to pay attention to their developing communication skills. Here are some key speech, language, attention, play, and communication milestones you can expect to see between 6 and 9 months.

Sounds:

Babbling becomes more complex, with strings of sounds like ‘bababa’ or ‘dadada.’
Your baby may start imitating some sounds.
When you call your baby he or she will respond to his or her own name.

What you can do to help your baby

First, please don’t panic. Every baby is different and it does not mean your baby is delayed if he or she is not quite ready.

Make sure you spend time babbling, singing and talking to your baby in a tuneful, happy, sometimes silly! way, pulling faces, smiling, laughing and tickling your baby, all the while sing sing sing and chat!

Try to imitate your baby’s sounds and actions. You will see that your baby likes this a lot and will reward you with smiles, giggles and after a while your baby will want you to continue copying him or her. At that time you will see that he or she will start to copy you more and more.

Try and call your baby’s name lots of times. When you re-enter a room having been out for even a short time, say ‘Hello (baby’s name) I’m back’. Your baby will soon learn to look when you say their name.

Attention:

Can follow simple directions (e.g., ‘Come here!’).
Shows interest in books and pictures.
Begins to understand the word ‘no.’

What you can do to help attention skills develop

Get down to your baby’s eye level or make it easy for your baby to look at you, even briefly.

Try and gain your baby’s attention when he or she is not busy with something else.

Try and become irresistibly funny and interesting to look at! Think of ‘Mr Tumble’! Wear a silly hat, silly glasses, blow some bubbles, blow a funny horn, stand on your head (joking)… make it impossible for your baby to ignore you!

Play:

Explores objects by banging, shaking, and mouthing them.
Shows interest in cause-and-effect toys (e.g., dropping objects and watching them fall).
Engages in simple social games like peek-a-boo.

What you can do to help play skills to develop

Offer suitable objects that are attractive to look at and easy to hold and shake. Show your baby repeatedly what to do with these objects, bang them together and sing a little song, bang bang bang shake shake shake…

Offer containers and drop items into them. Shape sorters, metal bowls make a terrific clangy noise when you drop items into them. Blow feathers or tissues and watch them fall. Blow bubbles and watch them pop.

Sing a range of nursery songs repeatedly and make suitable actions along them. Try and involve your baby by sitting him or her on your lap so he or she can hear and feel you bopping him or her up and down, swinging him or her gently from side to side or row row rowing his or her boat gently down the stream

Communication:

Uses gestures like waving ‘bye-bye’ and reaching for desired objects.
May begin to use babbling to express needs and wants (e.g., babbling while reaching for a toy).

What you can do to help communication progress

Practise waving ‘bye-bye’ to people coming and going all day long.

When your baby babbles whilst reaching for a toy, you can copy him or her and then name that toy, for example.

Baby: ‘gagabbagaga’ – whilst reaching for a shaker – Adult: ‘gagagag I want my shakey! Aargh I am reaching for it but I can’t get it, help me help me… ah there is my lovely shakey shakey!’

If your baby is not responding to any of your efforts above then please do get in touch with a Speech and Language Therapist near you, or contact me via my contact form. Sometimes one consultation is all you need to get going with helping your baby and before you know it a lots of progress has been made and your baby is on the way to speaking!

Sonja McGeachie

Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

The London Speech and Feeding Practice

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Autism Therapy · Neurodiversity · Speech and Language Therapy · Top tips

The joy of container play: Exploring play development and understanding of how things work

ByLondon Speech and Feeding January 15, 2025January 8, 2025

Have you heard the term ‘Container play’? I use this very often with children in my sessions as it is so versatile and an enjoyable activity that can be done in parallel with a child or together. Container play is a powerful tool for fostering development in young children, especially those with developmental delays. This seemingly mundane activity provides a rich environment for sensory exploration, motor skill development, and cognitive growth.

What is container play?

Container play involves children interacting with various containers—boxes, buckets, bowls, cups, various bags, etc.—and filling, emptying, and transferring objects within and between them. Objects can include literally anything: small beads, bead chains, table tennis balls, wooden pegs, dinosaurs or any other little person toy, blocks of varying sizes, sand, water, or any other safe material. Larger containers obviously take larger items: socks, stuffed animals, bigger balls, bigger blocks etc really the choices are endless.

Benefits for children with developmental delays:

Sensory exploration:

Touch: Children explore different textures and temperatures of containers and objects.
Sight: They observe how objects look inside and outside the containers, how light reflects off them, and how colours change.
Sound: They listen to the sounds of objects clinking, rattling, and splashing.
Proprioception: Filling and emptying containers helps develop body awareness and spatial awareness.

For neurodivergent children who might have sensory regulation difficulties, consider the following adaptions to accommodate your child’s sensory needs:

Over-stimulation: For children who are easily overstimulated, start with simple setups using a limited number of containers and objects. Gradually increase the complexity as they tolerate it.
Under-stimulation: For children who seek sensory input, provide a variety of textures and materials, such as sand, water, slime, or beans.
Temperature: Offer a variety of temperature options. Some children may enjoy warm water or cool sand.
Lighting: Adjust the lighting to create a calming or stimulating environment.
Focus on one sense at a time: Initially, focus on one sensory aspect, such as the feel of sand or the sound of water.
Weighted containers: Use heavy containers filled with rice or beans to provide deep pressure input.
Fidget toys: Incorporate fidget toys into the activity to provide sensory input and help with self-regulation.
Tactile exploration: Encourage exploration of different textures using objects with varying surfaces.

Fine motor skill development:

Hand-eye coordination: Scooping, pouring, and transferring objects require precise hand-eye coordination.
Pincer grasp: Picking up small objects helps develop fine motor skills like the pincer grasp.
Strength and dexterity: Manipulating containers and objects strengthens hand muscles and improves dexterity. Opening and closing containers can be a huge area of interest; how does the top screw back on, or off?

Cognitive development:

Cause and effect: Children learn that their actions (e.g., pouring water or sand) have consequences (e.g., the water spills).
Spatial awareness: They develop an understanding of concepts like inside, outside, full, empty, and over/under; also how big is the vessel and how much goes in before it’s full or spills over. How small is the vessel opening and what do I need to do to get the beads into the container.
Problem-solving: Children learn to solve problems, such as how to get an object out of a narrow container or how to transfer water without spilling.

Social and emotional development:

Communication: Container play can encourage communication as children interact with others, sharing toys and commenting on their actions. Asking for help to open and close a container is often a great opportunity to practise ‘help me’ or ‘open it’
Turn-taking: Sharing containers and materials helps children learn to take turns and cooperate.
Sensory regulation: For children with sensory sensitivities, container play can be a calming and self-regulating activity.

Tips for engaging children in container play:

Create a safe and inviting environment. A shower curtain on the floor makes things easier for tidy up afterwards. And it allows for spillages.
Provide a variety of containers: Use different sizes, shapes, and materials. Use containers that are visually interesting and pleasing, perhaps a festive biscuit tin, or a tin that looks like train engine. Use see-through containers at first which make the filling and emptying more obvious. This is important for children who have no previous experience with this type of play and need to ‘warm up’ to it. Once a child loves and is used to container play you can go wild with all types of containers.
Offer a variety of objects: Include balls, blocks, sand, water, and other age-appropriate materials.
Join in the fun! Start off the process, show your child what the joy of the activity is for yourself, how fun it is to fill and empty containers, provide enough containers for your child to start playing alongside you, and comment on their actions.
Follow your child’s lead: Allow them to explore and experiment at their own pace.
Adapt activities: Adjust the level of challenge based on your child’s abilities and interests.

Container play is a simple yet powerful tool that can support the overall development of young children, especially those with developmental delays. By providing a rich and engaging sensory experience, container play can help children build essential skills in motor, cognitive, social, and emotional domains.

If you have any questions or would like to have more in-depths demonstration of this or other play styles for your child please contact me.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Sonja McGeachie

Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

The London Speech and Feeding Practice

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Ages and Stages · Speech and Language Therapy · Top tips

Your baby’s communication journey: 3–6 months

ByLondon Speech and Feeding January 6, 2025January 3, 2025

This is an exciting time for both you and your baby! Between 3 and 6 months, communication literally explodes. While your little one may not be saying words yet, he or she is actively learning to understand and express themselves. Here’s a glimpse into what you can expect:

Understanding:

Recognises familiar voices:

Your baby will likely turn his or her head towards the sound of your or other familiar adults’ voices.

Tips for supporting and expanding: Talk, sing and chant! Your baby will love and smile at hearing your talking voice, and he or she will not be judging your singing talent! You can sing to your hearts content, perhaps some lovely nursery rhymes you remember from your childhood, or festive songs like Jingle bells !. Or you can simply make up your own little songs and chants alongside all the daily activities you do with or for your baby. You could have a ‘nappy’ song, a ‘let’s get you ready for the park’ song, a ‘I’m hungry’ song or a ‘mummy’s cooking soup’ chant. It does not have to be beautiful but what does help is having little rhymes and rhythms to your singing. Your baby will love it and soak it all up.

Begins to understand ‘no’:

Your baby may pause or stop an action when you say ‘no’ and shake your head at the same time.

Tips for supporting and expanding: I don’t think that at this stage you will have much cause to say ‘no’ to be fair but you could do it playfully and bring it into a ‘no more’ situation so that your baby can make the connection between ‘no’ and ‘finished’ or ‘stop’ or ‘done’. Feeding might be a good opportunity for this one. You could also ask ‘who is it’ when someone is ringing the bell or coming down the stairs, e.g. ‘oh I hear footsteps! Is this daddy??…. no it’s not daddy no it’s grandma! daddy’s gone out!’

Responds to his or her name:

Your baby will start to show a reaction when you call his or her name.

Tips for supporting and expanding: Try calling your baby’s name a lot, and get different family members or visitors calling your baby by his or her name and calling his or her name before saying ‘look’ or ‘peek-a boo’ etc.

Use Baby Signing: You can introduce simple gestures and signs such as ‘milk’ ‘nappy’ ‘sleep’ ‘dog’ ‘cat’ etc to help your baby make the connection between what you are saying and what he or she is seeing.

Expressing:

Cooing, gurgling and babbling:

These sounds are more than just adorable! They are your baby’s way of experimenting with his or her voice and learning to control his or her vocal cords.

You might hear sounds like ‘ba-ba-ba’ or ‘ga-ga-ga’. This is a huge milestone!

Tips for Supporting and expanding: This is a wonderful time to copy your baby’s sounds, celebrate them and show your baby that you are listening to his or her sounds and you are understanding everything he or she is saying! This is also a brilliant time to start reading to your baby. You can read any children’s books you fancy. Again your baby will adore the sound of your voice but increasingly he or she will also look at the pages of a book and try and understand and make connections between the words you say and the pictures he or she sees.

When you hear your child babbling you can try and give it meaning where possible, for example your baby says: ‘ba ba ba’ you could fall into ‘Baa Baa black sheep have you any wool’ song or you could say ‘mmmh banana!’ And show a banana that’s lying on the table. Or you could just say: ‘baba baaaaah you are saying ba! That’s so great!’ Anything goes really at this stage!

Facial expressions:

Your baby uses smiles, frowns, and other facial expressions to communicate his or her emotions (happy, sad, angry).

Tips for supporting and expanding: Try and make interesting and exaggerated facial expressions yourself when you are talking to your baby! Try and be a little bit clowney and really practise showing ‘surprise’ ‘boo’ or a big grin, smile, purse your lips, blow raspberries, open and close your mouth and make funny faces. Copy your baby when you see his or her facial expression change. When your baby looks confused, say ’oh we don’t know what’s happening we are confused!’. When your baby looks happy, say ‘you look soo happy! What a lovely smile!’

Eye contact:

Your baby will start making more and more eye contact with you during interactions.

Tips for supporting and expanding: Try and get ‘face to face’ a lot with your baby. When cuddling your baby look at his or her face and often make sure that it is easy for your baby to see and look at you. If you can lower your position so that your face is in line with your baby that will make things easier for you both.

Good games to play: ‘People-Games’ these are games where you do not need any toys to have a good time. All you need is the other person: Peek-a-boo, bumping your baby up and down on your lap with a song, Row Row Row your boat, tickling games, catch you games etc.

Now we are at 6 months another very exciting stage has arrived: feeding SOLIDS to our baby! More of this in my next post!

When to Seek Guidance:

If you have any concerns about your baby’s communication development, please don’t hesitate to consult with me. Early intervention can make a significant difference and really help your baby making progress.

Remember: Every baby develops at his or her own pace. These are general guidelines, and some babies may reach certain milestones earlier or later than others.

I look forward to seeing you! Get in touch with me via my contact form.

Sonja McGeachie

Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

The London Speech and Feeding Practice

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Ages and Stages · Speech and Language Therapy · Top tips

Ages and Stages: 0–3 months

ByLondon Speech and Feeding December 18, 2024December 11, 2024

What do we offer our babies from 0–3 months old? What toys? What are the best early activities for our baby to develop? I get asked this a lot so here are my suggestions.

You are the best toy

You the parent or the caregiver are the BEST toy a baby could have in the first three months. The most important thing is to talk and sing to your baby, to look and hold your baby and offer your face and voice! Use sing song intonation as much as you can, and as often as possible. We know that babies respond really well to interesting voices, singing or funny sounds. Use your facial expressions!

It is important to encourage early turn taking: leave pauses in between what you say or sing to allow your baby to respond to you. Once you see any signs of your baby responding you continue as if you are having a conversation.

Visual Stimulation

We know that baby’s eyesight still needs to develop in those first months and that a newborn can only distinguish light, shapes and faces. And their distance vision is blurry in the first month. A baby can see up to 15 cm away and this is roughly the distance between the feeders’ face when bottle or breastfeeding the baby.

Black and white

Your baby can see black and white and some shades of grey. So, in the first month you really will need no toys at all other than your face and your voice, your smile, giggle and your hands! Of course, there are a range of black and white visual toys available these days like the ones below. But if you are on a budget, I would say you don’t need those.

From the second to third month a baby can begin to follow objects with their eyes. They recognise a familiar face and now they start reaching for things. Their colour vision is also gradually improving.

Baby gym

One of the best early toys is a ‘baby gym’ where bright and colourful toys dangle off foam padded arches. You can sometimes get ones with a mirror hanging off one of the arches or a mirror sewn into the mat. This is useful as baby likes to look at his/her face at around three months old and this can also be great for tummy time. If you are on a budget this would be the one toy, I would recommend you to get.

If there is no mirror on your baby gym you could get a mirror toy. There are lots out there, this one is a good example. I would probably get a mirror toy that has other sensory components attached so you get more value for money, i.e., three toys in one.

O-ball

Another great toy to get around 2–3 month is an O-ball for easy grasping, bright colours, very lightweight.

Sounds

Lovely early toys are sound makers, bells or rain makers. Some very light weight bells can be attached to your baby’s ankles and they ring every time your baby moves his/her legs. This is a nice and easy introduction to early cause and effect understanding.

Peek-a-boo

A great early game is Peek-a Boo and you could complement your hands hiding your eyes with some nice lightweight pieces of material like a piece of organza veil fabric for example. An added benefit is that later on baby can try and grasp the materials and pull them out of the container.

Music

Music is very important. Turn on the radio to classical or any easy listening station you like. If nothing else you could sing of course! And do not worry about not hitting the right notes your baby won’t judge you (until they are about three years old!)

After three months

At the end of three months your baby is likely to show you the following:

makes cooing and early babbling sounds
seems to know your face
smiles at you socially
cries for different needs: hungry, bored, needing attention, looking for you
opens and closes hands to try and grasp items
takes swipes at dangling
kicks his/her legs
looks at faces and toys, lights
turns his/her head towards sounds
starts to understand the world around him/her.

Don’t panic!

But don’t panic at all if you feel your baby has not quite mastered any of those stages. Chances are they are doing so very soon. If you are worried, please do come and bring your baby to our clinic for a screen and we will give you plenty of assurance and ideas on how to help your baby move forward.

On a final note, Early Intervention is key and bringing your baby for a one-off consultation to a speech and language specialist is always a great idea, just to get ideas, to see that baby is on track and to help baby develop.

The earlier you bring your baby the better. Chances are one consultation is all you need and perhaps a six-monthly review to just stay nicely on track.

Look out for my next Ages and Stages from three to six months old!

I look forward to seeing you! Get in touch with me via my contact form.

Sonja McGeachie

Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

The London Speech and Feeding Practice

Find a speech and language therapist for your child in London. Are you concerned about your child’s speech, feeding or communication skills and don’t know where to turn? Please contact me and we can discuss how I can help you or visit my services page.

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