Strategies to support children with eating difficulties

ByLondon Speech and Feeding August 25, 2023July 28, 2023

where the cause is NOT a swallowing problem, but we are having a “fussy eater” in the family, seeming for no obvious reason

When parents have a child who find mealtimes or eating difficult, it can put pressure on the whole family dynamics. Once we have observed a child’s eating and drinking skills and found that they are not swallowing impaired, but are for want of a better word “fussy” or “picky”, we can then start to look at what might be underpinning the food aversions/picky eating/food avoidance. Two of the main questions parents have (of course) are:

‘is my child getting the right nutrition?’
‘how can I have less anxiety-provoking and stressful mealtimes?’

We all tend to have an image in our minds about the ‘perfect mealtime’, and how mealtimes ‘should’ be. Speech and Language Therapists with a Feeding Specialism are the perfect professionals to help you unpick feeding issues. We are trained to look at swallowing and oral skills and we also know a lot about feeding behaviours and sensory difficulties which could be causing your child’s eating avoidance.

Here are some strategies that can support children with their eating:

Create and maintain a mealtime culture that suits your home and lifestyle. Then stick to that. We all need some routine in our lives to thrive. Mealtimes are no different. It might be that you eat in the same place for every meal, with the same knives and forks, concentrating on maintaining good posture. Children learn by repetition so the more familiar it is, the easier they will find it. In the physical sense, our bodies also need preparing for food, regardless of whether we are eating with our mouths or we are tube-fed. We want every child to connect all the dots of the process. It starts with their eyes, noses, expectations, memories of past experiences, feelings and then finally their mouths….
Be an excellent role model. Children learn through watching others, so your child will be observing you without you knowing. Ensure that you are positive about the food you are all eating, and talk about how delicious, tasty, juicy, and yummy the foods are. Make the atmosphere around the dinner table light hearted. Even though you are secretly stressed about your child not eating, try and not show this. Instead pick a topic or put on some nice music, or talk about something your child might be interested in, and try and avoid coercing your child to eat. Leave small finger foods on their plates and have a range of foods available on the table so that your child can see that everyone is eating a range of foods and enjoying them.
Use positive reinforcement. Try and think of mealtimes as fun and motivating. Children who are happy will likely be more inclined to try foods and take part in family mealtimes. Reward all interactions around food, so if your child merely touches a new food then praise this behaviour. Or if your child licks a food just once, again make a nice comment and praise your child for touching and licking the food. The takeaway here is to try and keep all messages positive around food.
Keep offering all types of food. What often happens is that parents stop serving foods they know will not be eaten. This makes sense in a way; we don’t want wastage! However, try and keep the doors open and re-offer all types of foods, even the ones that your child has not wanted in the past. Try and give your child one food they will like and one food they have tasted before and liked before, even a little, and then one new food to try. So, your child always has something to fall back on and they can join in with eating. But they can also try (or at least look at and think about trying) other foods that you and perhaps the siblings are eating.

Take a look at this website, I find it very helpful in showing parents what types of foods and how big a portion to offer

Have a go and try and implement some of the ideas above, and should you get stuck please get in touch!

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Four struggles parents face when out and about with children with speech, language, and communication difficulties
ByLondon Speech and Feeding January 27, 2023February 10, 2023

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You (as parents) often describe yourselves as being under constant pressure and stress when looking after your children and young people with Special Educational Needs and Disabilities (SEND). You may find going out to do the simplest of tasks a challenge. And you will try to avoid social situations out of fear and anxiety. One of the most important factors to you is having like-minded people who understand your position as a parent with a young person with additional needs. Let’s look at some of the challenges you face and how I can support you and your family.

1. Challenging behaviour and going out to the shops

When your child displays challenging behaviour and won’t go into a shop without buying a toy that they insist on having, it can be tough on your family. You see people around you staring as you try to manage the situation. They do not understand the pressures you face, or that the simplest of tasks are a huge challenge.

I can support you by giving strategies to use when out and about. I know that using visuals is important for your child. They may not understand or take in language when they are in a heightened state of anxiety or feeling overwhelmed. You could print pictures of the places you’re going to and put them on an easily accessible chain. Then you could use that chain when out and about at the shops. You may want to introduce a visual timetable at home. That way your child or young person understands where they are going. This may lessen their anxiety and subsequent behaviour.

2. Your child is not able to communicate their needs to an unfamiliar communication partner

When your child has difficulty communicating to an unfamiliar person it can be hard to manage. You feel yourself explaining your situation repeatedly. I can provide your child with individualised strategies or communication aids which support your child to communicate with both familiar and unfamiliar communication partners. We’ll work together to find which communication methods work in different situations and how your child will use these to help their independence.

3. Being overwhelmed

Your child or young person may easily be overwhelmed which may contribute to behaviour changes. I’ll work with your family to understand what the behaviour means, looking at what happened before and what happened afterwards. We’ll not only look at the behaviour but at the environment as well. This can inform how you can support your child or young person in the future, to reduce sensory stimuli (if needed) and for them to feel emotionally regulated.

4. People avoid engaging with you

One of the hardest things as a parent is for others to avoid you. You see them crossing the street because they don’t know what to say to you. All you want is them to accept you, to maintain your identity as a person and not as a SEND parent. I can support you emotionally. I can give you advice on local support networks where you can find other parents in a similar situation.

We know the stresses that being a parent with a child with SEND comes with. Please know I am always here to support you, to find solutions so that when you’re next out and about. Your experience will be a little easier and you’ll feel less isolated.

Improve your child’s communication, confidence, reduce overwhelm and feel supported here.

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Chaining: A powerful tool for phonological development
ByLondon Speech and Feeding November 18, 2024November 13, 2024
Understanding chaining

Chaining is a therapeutic technique I like to use in my speech therapy work with children who have Childhood Apraxia of Speech (CAS) or phonological speech sound difficulties. It helps to break down a complex target behaviour into smaller, more manageable steps. By systematically teaching and reinforcing each step, I can help my students achieve their communication goals.

There are two types of chaining: Forward and backward chaining

Today I am going to show and talk about backward chaining. This technique involves starting with the last step and working backward to the first. This approach can be particularly effective for children with persistent speech sound difficulties where combining consonants into clusters, such as /BL/ or /FR/ or /SHR/ is very difficult.

Backward chaining allows my student to experience immediate success and build his confidence.

In my video I show you how I applied backward chaining to the words ‘Shriek’, ‘Shrub’, ‘Shrimp’ etc

My student struggles with both the /SH/ and the /R/ sounds and we have been working on both sounds for some weeks now. He has mild Childhood Apraxia of Speech and he has difficulties with coordinating his tongue movements, breathing and using his jaw effectively to make words. His sound repertoire has grown a lot since we started working together last year. Today in this session I show you how we pulled both the sound /SH/ together with /REEK/ to make ‘SHRIEK’. I love using the pictures and therapy materials from Adventures in Speech Pathology.

This is also part of the Complexity approach which I will explain in a separate blog post.
- Step 1 (not shown in the video): I explain what the word means; I find that when my student understands what a word means he is much better at saying it. It increases his confidence and motivation to say a word that he knows the meaning of. Often this student does not tell me that he does not know what a word means, so I always remind myself to check that out first.
- Step 2 (not shown in the video): We do a little rhyming game and think about what any one word rhymes with: ‘Shriek’ – ‘meek’, ‘weak’, ‘seek’.
- Step 3: I show my student that there are two parts to this word /reek/ and the sound /SH/.
- Step 3: We practise the easier part: /reek/ /reek/ /reek/.
- Step 4: We add the /SH/ sound and pull it together to make our target word ‘Shriek’.
/REEK/ /REEK/ /REEK/ + /SH/ = ‘SHRIEK’
/RUB/ /RUB/ /RUB/ + /SH/ = ‘SHRUB’
/RUG/ /RUG/ /RUG/ + /SH/ = ‘SHRUG’

By breaking down the word into smaller, manageable steps, my student can focus on each syllable individually, get that right and then gradually build up to the full word. This approach can help to reduce frustration and increase motivation.

Forward chaining

Forward chaining is the same process but in reverse: we start with the front sound or syllable and work forward towards the next/last part of the word:

/SH/ + /REEK/ = ‘SHRIEK’
/SH/ + /RUB/ = ‘SHRUB’
/SH/ + /RUG/ = ‘SHRUG’

Benefits of chaining
- Increased motivation: By starting with the last step, my student experiences success, which boosts his motivation to continue trying to say the word and trying other words.
- Reduced frustration: Breaking down the target behaviour into smaller steps can make the task less overwhelming, reducing frustration and anxiety.
- Improved confidence: As the little learner masters each of the step, his confidence and self-esteem increases. Again, this leads to increased motivation.
- Faster learning: By focusing on the final step first, and practising lots of chaining (forward and backward), a student can quickly learn to generalise to other words.
Backward chaining (and forward chaining) is a really great tool for teaching complex speech sounds and words to children with phonological disorders.

Watch out for my next blog which is all about the complexity approach in Phonology.

Do get in touch if your child has a speech sound disorder, I would love to help.

Any questions or need help with supporting your little one’s language please contact me via my contact form, or you could also check out www.hanen.org for advice and lots of inspiration.

Sonja McGeachie

Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

The London Speech and Feeding Practice

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Tongue training: Why tongue placement matters for clear speech
ByLondon Speech and Feeding February 12, 2025February 3, 2025
As speech and Language therapists (SLTs), we know that where your tongue goes, so goes your sound. This blog post will explore why tongue placement is so vital for speech correction and how we use tools and techniques to help our clients find their ‘sweet spot’ for sound production.

Let me show you here a little video clip where I am using my dentist’s mouth/teeth model to help my clients navigate their tongue movements.

The tongue: A tiny muscle with a big job

The tongue is a small but mighty muscle. It’s incredibly versatile, playing a key role in eating, swallowing, and, of course, speaking. For each speech sound, the tongue, along with the lips and jaw, needs to move to a very specific spot. Think of it like a dance: every part of your mouth has a choreographed movement to produce the correct sound. If the tongue is out of sync, the sound comes out muffled, distorted, or just plain wrong.

The trouble with our tongue movements is that most of us never think about how the tongue has to move and what it does to: swallow, chew, drink, suck and speak. Most parents when asked to think about their own tongue placement for say the /S/ sound are completely lost as to what their tongue is doing. Yet, of course, they produce a perfect /S/ and perfect speech in general. The same goes for swallowing. When did you last think about what happens in your mouth when you swallow? I bet you have not thought about it. We ‘just do it’, right?

Why is tongue placement so important?

Accurate tongue placement is the foundation of clear articulation. When a child struggles with a particular sound, it’s often because his or her tongue isn’t quite reaching the right spot or moving in the correct way. For example, the /S/ sound requires the tongue to be slightly raised and positioned behind the top teeth, creating a narrow channel for air to flow through. If the tongue is too far forward, you might get a /TH/ sound instead. If it’s too far back, the /S/ can sound muffled.

Visual aids: Our secret weapon

We SLTs love our visual aids! They’re incredibly helpful for showing clients exactly where their tongue needs to be. Here are some of our favourite tools:
- Mirrors: Mirrors provide instant feedback. Clients can see their tongue’s position and make adjustments in real-time. We often use hand mirrors or even the mirror on a compact for quick checks.
- Tongue depressors: These simple tools can gently guide the tongue to the correct position. We might use them to show where the tongue tip should rest for the /L/ sound or how the sides of the tongue should touch the molars for the /K/ and /G/ sounds.
- Diagrams and models: Pictures and models of the mouth can help clients visualise the tongue’s movements. We might use a cross-section diagram of the mouth to show how the tongue forms different sounds.
Beyond the tongue: The jaw’s role

While the tongue takes centre stage, the jaw plays a supporting role. It provides a stable base for the tongue and helps control the opening and closing of the mouth. Sometimes, jaw stability is an issue, and we might use techniques to help clients find a comfortable and stable jaw position.

Making it fun and engaging

Learning correct tongue placement can be challenging, but we make it fun! We use games, stories, and playful activities to keep clients motivated. For younger children, we might use silly voices or pretend to be animals. For older children, we might incorporate their interests, like using a car analogy for tongue movements.

The takeaway

Correct tongue placement is essential for clear speech. By using visual aids, interactive techniques, and a bit of creativity, we can help our clients master their speech sounds and communicate with confidence.

If you have any concerns about your child’s speech, don’t hesitate to reach out to a qualified speech and language therapist, we are here to help! Contact me via my contact form.

Sonja McGeachie

Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

The London Speech and Feeding Practice

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The importance of child-led therapy
ByLondon Speech and Feeding June 30, 2023May 31, 2023
Child-led therapy is essentially what it says, therapy sessions that are directed by your child. You may think how can my child’s Speech and Language Therapist focus on goals if sessions are led by my child.

Let us explain…

Your child will be more receptive and motivated to take part in therapy if they have some form of input. E.g., they can choose what toys they want to play with, or how they want to play with the resources available. If sessions are child-centred then they are much more likely to engage and reach their goals, making intervention valuable. They will also be able to regulate their emotions, and use movement to support their need for regulation. E.g., some children like to jump whilst others like to run. As Speech and Language Therapists we need to use what is meaningful to your child to get the most out of intervention. By focusing on child-led therapy, we can build trust, which will allow us, in time, to use new techniques and activities that your child may enjoy. We want children to be themselves, to show their true personality. Therapy is about enhancing their skills in their own individualised way and child-led therapy allows for this.

This way of working may seem daunting to some, but it doesn’t have to feel this way. Parents often feel if they are prepared then activities may go smoother. It might be the case, but perhaps it doesn’t give your child the opportunity for spontaneity. We’d like to suggest something that may lead to some surprises. Put out an activity that is your child’s favourite and then a completely new activity. Remember these activities don’t have to be complicated. Often, the simpler the better!

So, no need to plan, just place two activities out and see what happens! Look out for anything which surprises you, which activity did they prefer? Do they have any sensory preferences? The freedom of choice is a wonderful thing to explore. So, just go with the flow!

The kind of activities that are useful for child-led play can include:
- Hide and seek
- Cooking or baking
- An Exercise ball
- Small world play
- Pretend play
- Musical instruments (you could even have a go at making your own)
Child-led therapy is a very useful resource. We have it at our fingertips. We don’t need special resources. You just need yourselves and your child! Sometimes, child-led therapy can be tricky to put in place. It sounds easy but is much harder in reality. So, make sure you give it time and reflect on your experiences. Ask yourselves ‘what went well’, and ‘what could be improved’. E.g., perhaps you gave your child time to lead to begin with, but you didn’t give them enough time to think about their options during the activity.

How can parents become more child-led in the home environment?
- Pause and use silence. This gives your child the opportunity to lead.
- It’s perfectly natural to want to talk. Afterall, this is how adults maintain conversations. If you find yourself talking too much, count to ten! This will allow your child time to respond or initiate in the conversation or interaction.
- Move down to your child’s level. It’s much easier to see what’s going on if you’re at the same height.
- Videoing you and your child can really help you to see where your strengths lie. You’ll also be able to make minor tweaks to improve your communication during child-led play.
Contact Sonja for more advice on speech, language and communication during child-led play.

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Could mouth breathing be affecting your child’s speech, sleep and development?
ByLondon Speech and Feeding June 15, 2026June 11, 2026
Understanding Orofacial Myofunctional Disorders (OMDs)

Many parents contact me at London Speech and Feeding because they are worried about their child’s speech. Perhaps their child is difficult to understand, has a persistent lisp, struggles with feeding, snores at night, or always seems to have their mouth open.

What many families don’t realise is that these concerns may all be connected.

Increasingly, research and clinical experience are highlighting the important role of Orofacial Myofunctional Health, the way the muscles of the face, mouth, tongue and airway work together to support breathing, eating, sleeping and communication.

When these muscles are not functioning optimally, children may develop what are known as Orofacial Myofunctional Disorders (OMDs).

What Is Orofacial Myofunctional Health?

Orofacial Myofunctional Health refers to the healthy function and coordination of the:
- lips
- tongue
- jaw
- cheeks
- facial muscles
- airway.
These structures play a vital role in:
breathing

swallowing

chewing

speaking

facial growth

dental development

sleep quality.
When everything is working well, the lips remain gently closed at rest, breathing occurs through the nose, and the tongue rests against the roof of the mouth.

This seemingly simple posture has a profound influence on how a child’s face, teeth and airway develop.

What is an Orofacial Myofunctional Disorder?

An Orofacial Myofunctional Disorder occurs when there is an abnormal pattern of muscle function involving the face, mouth, tongue or airway.

Children with OMDs may experience difficulties with:
- speech
- feeding
- swallowing
- sleep
- breathing
- dental development
- facial growth.
In many cases, these difficulties are linked to chronic mouth breathing.

Signs your child may have an Orofacial Myofunctional Disorder

Breathing and sleep signs
- mouth open at rest
- mouth breathing during the day
- snoring
- noisy breathing
- restless sleep
- frequent waking
- dark circles under the eyes
- chronic congestion
- fatigue despite a full night’s sleep.
Speech signs
- lisping
- unclear speech
- distorted speech sounds
- difficulty producing certain sounds
- persistent articulation difficulties
- reduced speech intelligibility.
Feeding and swallowing signs
- picky eating
- messy eating
- food remaining in the cheeks
- gagging easily
- difficulty chewing
- long mealtimes
- tongue thrust swallowing.
Facial and dental signs
- narrow palate
- crowded teeth
- open bite
- overbite
- underbite
- long face appearance
- receding chin
- poor lip seal.
If several of these signs sound familiar, a comprehensive assessment may be worthwhile.

Why does mouth breathing matter?

Many parents assume mouth breathing is simply a habit.

In reality, mouth breathing is often a symptom that something is preventing efficient nasal breathing.

Common causes include:
- enlarged tonsils
- enlarged adenoids
- allergies
- chronic nasal congestion
- recurrent infections
- structural airway differences
- tongue tie
- prolonged dummy use
- thumb sucking
- poor oral posture.
When nasal breathing becomes difficult, children naturally begin breathing through their mouths.

Over time, this can affect how the face, jaws and airway develop.

What does healthy oral posture look like?

Healthy oral posture is surprisingly simple:
- lips
  
  gently closed
- tongue
  
  resting against the roof of the mouth
- teeth
  
  slightly apart
- breathing
  
  through the nose.
This posture helps guide healthy jaw growth, facial development and airway formation.

Think of the tongue as a natural orthodontic support system. When it rests in the correct position, it helps shape the upper jaw and supports healthy facial growth.

The consequences of chronic mouth breathing

1. Speech difficulties

Children who breathe through their mouths often have altered tongue posture and reduced oral stability.

This can contribute to:
- lisping
- distorted sounds
- reduced speech clarity
- difficulty learning new speech sounds.
2. Feeding and swallowing difficulties

A low tongue posture may affect:
- chewing efficiency
- swallowing patterns
- food management
- oral motor coordination.
Many children develop a tongue thrust swallow, where the tongue pushes forward instead of moving efficiently during swallowing.

3. Poor sleep quality

Mouth breathing can contribute to:
- snoring
- restless sleep
- frequent waking
- daytime fatigue
- reduced concentration.
Poor sleep can have a significant impact on learning, behaviour and emotional regulation.

4. Changes to facial growth

Over time, chronic mouth breathing may influence:
- jaw development
- facial proportions
- dental alignment
- airway size.
This can result in:
- narrow palates
- crowded teeth
- long facial appearance
- increased orthodontic needs.
5. Oral health concerns

The nose acts as a natural filter and humidifier.

When children breathe through their mouths:
- The mouth becomes dry.
- Saliva protection is reduced.
- Risk of tooth decay increases.
- Gum health may be affected.
Why this matters for speech therapy

Speech does not develop in isolation.

The tongue, lips, jaw and airway work together to support clear communication.

At London Speech and Feeding, we look beyond speech sounds alone.

A child who presents with:
- persistent speech difficulties
- lisping
- feeding challenges
- open mouth posture
- snoring
- poor sleep
may benefit from an assessment that explores underlying orofacial myofunctional factors.

Addressing these foundations can often support more effective progress in speech and feeding therapy.

How London Speech and Feeding can help

A comprehensive assessment may include observation of:
- breathing patterns
- lip posture
- tongue posture
- swallowing function
- feeding skills
- speech sound development
- sleep concerns
- oral structures.
Where appropriate, recommendations may include:
- orofacial myofunctional therapy
- speech therapy
- feeding therapy
- home programmes
- ENT referral
- orthodontic referral
- collaborative multidisciplinary support.
The good news

Orofacial Myofunctional Disorders are often highly treatable when identified early.

Supporting healthy breathing, tongue posture and oral muscle function can positively influence:

If your child regularly breathes through their mouth, snores, struggles with speech clarity or has feeding difficulties, a specialist assessment may help identify the underlying cause.
speech clarity

feeding skills

sleep quality

facial growth

dental development

overall wellbeing.
At London Speech and Feeding, we are passionate about looking beyond symptoms and understanding the whole child. Contact me!

Sometimes the key to clearer speech starts with a simple question:

‘Is my child breathing through their nose?’

Sonja McGeachie

Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can mouth breathing cause speech problems?

Yes. Mouth breathing can alter tongue posture, lip strength and oral stability, which may contribute to articulation difficulties and lisps.

Should I be worried if my child snores?

Regular snoring is not considered normal in children and may indicate airway obstruction or sleep-disordered breathing.

Can enlarged tonsils affect speech?

Yes. Enlarged tonsils may affect resonance, tongue positioning, swallowing and breathing patterns.

What age can children be assessed?

Children of all ages can be assessed if parents have concerns about speech, feeding, breathing or oral development.

What is Orofacial Myofunctional Therapy?

Orofacial Myofunctional Therapy focuses on improving breathing patterns, tongue posture, lip seal and oral muscle function to support overall health and development.

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Why Imitation is so Important
ByLondon Speech and Feeding December 1, 2021February 10, 2023

Why imitation is so important and how can speech and language therapy help children who struggle to imitate?

Imitation or copying starts in early infancy. When we observe a young baby and his parent or familiar adult we can see clearly and frequently that the baby will be intently looking at adult’s face and try to copy their facial expressions, smiles and all those funny baby sounds we often make with young babies.

These sounds are called “motherese” and are the beginnings of a little conversation between the parent and the baby. The “conversation can go back and forth for a long time and include sounds, as well as facial expressions.

A little later on, once the baby can crawl and sit up unaided the copying then goes on to include toys and objects. Mum or Dad will show their toddler how to use a drum or how to put a little train on the wooden tracks and the toddler will try and copy this. They may not succeed and be a little clumsy perhaps but the act of copying anything and everything their favourite adult does is typically seen throughout the day.

We all know and have laughed at mums or dads saying; ssshhh don’t say that in front of the baby he/she will copy you, watch your mouth! (as dad is swearing at the broken radiator….)

This imitation goes on for years and includes eventually of course little words, more words, putting words together and then creating sentences, all the while our toddler is listening to how their adults speak, not only what they say but how they say it. This is how dialects and accents can be transmitted easily from parent /family to child.

Copying in Children with Autism

We know that children with autism often struggle to imitate. We see children on the spectrum typically having great difficulty to copy adults or children; this can be seen in very reduced play with their peers in nursery for example.

Children with autism tend to have reduced joint attention and engagement with others and need to develop the ability and awareness to copy others in order to then engage more jointly with others.

Speech and Language Therapy can help with Parent Child Interaction work and Coaching, here is how:

During my coaching work with parents I teach step by step how to help a child who struggles to imitate:

We look at all the researched skills and actions that adults can take to help their little one to copy, starting with close observation of their child’s interests, then following and including their child’s play and copying/imitating their child in how they play. I teach steps in a graduated way so that it is easy to see the progress and joyful to have the results at the end.

The results are clear to see over time: our children on the spectrum learn to imitate actions, with objects and gestures, then sounds and words. Alongside this increased imitation skill the child can then develop more joint attention and engagement.

I would always recommend Parent Child Interaction Training as a first port of call as we learn so many great techniques which are well researched by the Hanen Programme, www.hanen.org. Do drop me a line if you would like to find out more.

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