Childhood Apraxia of Speech: Signs and first steps (2–5 years)

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If you’ve found yourself wondering ‘Why can my child say a word one day, but not at all the next?’ it might be that your child has a motor speech difficulty. This means the challenge isn’t that your child doesn’t know what they want to say; it’s that their brain finds it harder to plan and coordinate the movements needed for clear speech. This speech difficulty is called Childhood Apraxia of Speech (CAS)

Sonja showing power words on a board

In this post, I’ll explain what CAS can look like in 2–5 year olds, what an assessment usually involves, and what you can start doing at home to support your child without turning life into ‘speech homework all day long’.

What is childhood apraxia of speech (CAS)?

Children with CAS often have lots to communicate about (and strong ideas!) but their speech may come out as:

  • Unclear
  • inconsistent
  • hard to ‘copy’ on demand
  • frustrating for them and for you

CAS is not caused by laziness and it is not a parenting issue. It is also not something children simply ‘grow out of’ without support. But with the right therapy approach, children can absolutely build clearer speech over time.

If you’d like to read more about verbal dyspraxia, you may also find this helpful: Supporting children and families living with verbal dyspraxia.

Why is CAS such a big topic right now?

Many families come to me after months (or years) of being told:

  • ‘She’ll talk when she is ready’
  • ‘He’s just shy’
  • ‘It’s probably a speech delay’
  • ‘It’s normal for toddlers’

And sometimes it is a general delay. But sometimes it’s something more specific, like CAS.

There’s also been a huge rise in parents seeking information online, and CAS is often mentioned alongside speech sound difficulties such as:

  • phonological delay (pattern-based speech errors)
  • articulation difficulties (one sound that won’t come out clearly)
  • inconsistent speech disorder

These can look similar at first glance, which is why a specialist assessment matters.

Signs of childhood apraxia of speech in 2–5 year olds

Children develop speech at different rates, and not every unclear speaker has CAS. But here are some common features that may raise a flag, especially when you notice several together.

1) Inconsistent speech errors

Your child might say the same word in different ways:

  • ‘banana’ → nana / baba / mana
  • ‘daddy’ → gaga / daddy / dadi

This inconsistency is one of the biggest clues.

2) Difficulty copying words on request

Some children speak more easily in natural play, but when asked ‘Say ___’, they freeze or the word becomes much harder.

3) Limited sound repertoire

They may use only a small set of consonants (like /M/, /N/, /B/, /D/) and avoid others.

4) Vowel distortions

Many children with typical delays mainly struggle with consonants. But in CAS, vowels can also sound ‘off’ or change between attempts.

5) Speech that sounds effortful

You might notice your child:

  • pauses between sounds
  • tries multiple times
  • looks like they’re ‘searching’ for the right mouth movement

6) Longer words are much harder

‘Car’ might be easier than ‘carry’, and ‘carry’ easier than ‘caterpillar’.

7) Prosody differences (rhythm and stress)

Some children with CAS sound a little unusual in their speech rhythm, stress, or intonation.

8) Frustration or reduced confidence

When a child is frequently misunderstood, they may:

  • talk less
  • use gestures more
  • become upset when asked to repeat themselves

Important note: none of these signs alone prove CAS but they are a strong reason to seek a speech assessment rather than waiting.

CAS vs phonological delay vs articulation difficulty (quick guide)

These are some of the most common questions I hear.

If it’s mainly an articulation difficulty…

A child may consistently say one sound incorrectly (for example, ‘thun’ for ‘sun’- lisp- but everything else is developing well.

If it’s mainly a phonological delay…

You might notice clear patterns, like:

  • leaving off the ends of words (‘ca’ for ‘cat’)
  • swapping back sounds for front sounds (‘tar’ for ‘car’)

Patterns are often consistent and respond well to phonology-based therapy.

If it might be CAS…

Speech often feels less predictable, harder to imitate, and more impacted by word length and complexity.

If you’re unsure, that’s completely normal, and exactly why assessment matters.

What happens in a CAS assessment?

A high-quality speech assessment for possible CAS usually includes:

1) Parent discussion and developmental history

We talk about:

  • pregnancy and birth history (where relevant)
  • feeding history
  • early sounds and babbling
  • first words and how speech has progressed
  • family history of speech/language needs

2) A speech sound assessment

Your child might be shown pictures or play-based prompts so we can hear:

  • what sounds they can say
  • what they simplify
  • whether errors are consistent or inconsistent

3) An oral-motor and movement check

This isn’t about ‘strength’. It’s about coordination and planning. We look at how your child manages speech movements and transitions.

4) Stimulability testing

This means: how easily can your child learn a new sound or word with support?

For CAS, we often explore how they respond to:

  • slowed-down speech
  • visual cues
  • rhythm/tapping
  • short, simple syllable shapes

5) Functional communication and confidence

We look at how speech impacts daily life:

  • being understood at nursery
  • joining in with peers
  • asking for help
  • managing emotions when misunderstood

At the end, you should leave with:

  • a clear explanation of what we think is going on
  • a therapy plan
  • practical home strategies
  • realistic next steps

What parents can do at home

Here are CAS-friendly strategies you can start right away.

1) Choose ‘power words’

Pick 1–2 words that matter most in your child’s daily life, such as:

  • more
  • help
  • mummy
  • again
  • stop
  • open

These words are motivating and functional.

2) Keep it short and successful

For many children with CAS, the goal is quality over quantity.

Try five minutes a day rather than 30 minutes of struggle.

3) Support speech with rhythm

Some children benefit from:

  • tapping a beat on the table
  • clapping syllables
  • using a gentle ‘marching’ rhythm

This can help the brain organise the sequence of movements.

4) Celebrate approximations

If your child says ‘moh’ for ‘more’, that’s communication!

We want them to feel:

  • safe
  • understood
  • proud to try again

Confidence is a key part of progress.

A short parent story (anonymised)

One mum said to me:

‘We kept being told to wait. But I could see my child understood everything; they just couldn’t get the words out. Once we had an assessment and a plan, it felt like we finally knew what to do. The biggest change was his confidence. He started trying more.’

When should you seek support?

You don’t need to wait until school.

It’s worth getting an assessment if your child is:

  • hard to understand compared with peers
  • becoming frustrated or withdrawing from talking
  • inconsistent with words they used to say
  • struggling to imitate speech sounds
  • showing signs that match CAS

Early support can reduce stress for the whole family and help your child feel successful in communication.

Here’s how I can help:

✅ A detailed speech assessment (including whether CAS is likely)

✅ A clear therapy plan with realistic goals

✅ Practical home strategies you can use immediately

✅ Support for nurseries and schools (where needed)

✅ In-person sessions in North-West London and online options

Book your consultation here.

Final gentle reminder

You are not overreacting. Trust your instincts.

Your child is communicating the best way they can, and with the right support, speech can become easier, clearer, and more confident.

Sonja McGeachie

Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.


Health Professions Council registered
Royal College of Speech & Language Therapists Member
Member of ASLTIP

Find a speech and language therapist for your child in London. Are you concerned about your child’s speech, feeding or communication skills and don’t know where to turn? Please contact me and we can discuss how I can help you or visit my services page.

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    I also keep the focus on success and flow, rather than correction.

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    And  importantly, we come back around again.

    Nothing is missed. It’s just sequenced in a way that supports success.

    A different way of thinking about progress

    One of the biggest mindset shifts with the Cycles Approach is this:

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    👉 We’re aiming for gradual system-wide change

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    • Progress builds across cycles
    • Speech becomes clearer over time, not overnight

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    Starting with syllables might seem unexpected but it’s one of the most powerful foundations we can give a child whose speech is hard to understand.

    By building rhythm, structure, and confidence first, we make everything that comes next more effective.

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    We’re not going backwards.

    We’re building from the ground up.

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    Parent FAQ section

    Why is my child practising words like ‘banana’ instead of sounds like /K/ or /S/?

    Because your child first needs to be able to hold and produce the full shape of a word. If they’re dropping syllables (e.g. ‘banana’ → ‘nana’), working on individual sounds won’t carry over into real speech. We build the structure first, then refine the sounds.

    What if my child can already say some long words?

    That’s great. But we’re looking for consistency and clarity across many words, not just a few familiar ones. This stage helps stabilise that skill so it becomes reliable in everyday talking.

    How long will we stay on syllables?

    Usually, this is a short but important phase within each cycle. We revisit it regularly, but we also move on to other patterns (like specific sounds or sound processes) within the same therapy block.

    Will this delay my child learning their sounds?

    No. In fact, it often speeds things up overall. Once the syllable structure is in place, children are much more able to use correct sounds in longer words and sentences.

    What can I do at home?

    Keep it simple and playful:

    • Clap out words together (e.g. ‘el-e-phant’)
    • Emphasise full words naturally in conversation
    • Repeat back what your child says with the full structure (without pressure)

    Consistency and exposure matter more than correction.

    My child gets frustrated. Will this help?

    Yes. Many children become frustrated when they’re not understood. Improving syllable structure often leads to quick wins in clarity, which can boost confidence and reduce that frustration.

    Building clearer speech: Why we practise syllables first

    What are syllables?

    Syllables are the ‘beats’ in words.

    • ‘Table’ = 2 beats (ta-ble)
    • ‘Banana’ = 3 beats (ba-na-na)

    Why is my child working on this?

    If your child:

    • Drops parts of words (‘banana’ → ‘nana’)
    • Mumbles longer words
    • Is hard to understand

    …then we need to build the structure of words first.

    This helps your child:

    ✔ Say longer words clearly

    ✔ Be easier to understand

    ✔ Feel more confident speaking

    What does this look like in therapy?

    We practise:

    • Clapping or tapping out beats 👏
    • Saying full words with rhythm
    • Repeating target words through play
    • Using visuals or actions to support learning

    How you can help at home

    Keep it light and playful, little and often!

    Try this:

    • Clap words together أثناء play (e.g. toys, food, animals)
    • Model full words naturally (‘Yes, ba-na-na!’)
    • Repeat and expand what your child says

    Example:

    Child: ‘nana’

    You: ‘Yes! Ba-na-na‘

    Important to know

    • This is a key first step in speech therapy
    • We will move on to sounds—but this helps them stick
    • Small changes here can make a big difference in clarity
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    • Guiding intervention planning: The assessment provides the crucial information I need to develop an individualised intervention plan. The findings directly inform the selection of therapy goals, strategies, and techniques. Without a thorough assessment, therapy would be a shot in the dark.

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    • Instead, I use non-standardised assessments: These are more flexible and allow to probe specific areas of concern in more detail. This might include language samples (analysing spontaneous speech), dynamic assessment (testing and teaching to identify learning potential), and informal observation of play or interaction.
    • Immediate feedback and report writing: During and thenfollowing the assessment, I will bring all the gathered information together and I will discuss with the parents what my findings are and what my recommendations in the short term are. Parents always go home with a good handful of useful strategies that they can implement at home right away. In addition, I provide a comprehensive report outlining the findings, diagnosis (if applicable), severity, strengths and weaknesses, and recommendations for intervention.

    In conclusion, a speech and language therapy assessment is a dynamic and essential process. It is a journey of discovery, aiming to understand a child and the child’s family and his or her unique communication or feeding profile. The assessment is usually the start of our wonderful learning journey together.

    Below is a short video clip of an assessment where you see me in action explaining a particular therapy approach to a set of parents. It perhaps shows a tiny bit of how relaxed we are in our sessions and that assessment is not at all daunting, but a hugely informative event overall which will leave you feeling empowered and hopeful.

    What happens after an assessment?

    Please feel free to get in touch with me via my contact form if you wish to have an assessment for your child’s communication difficulties or feeding difficulties.

    An assessment is always a stand-alone event and does not mean you need to automatically book follow up sessions at all. It will give a lot of information and based on this you can decide if you would like more therapy or follow up for you and your child. Many times ongoing therapy is not needed! I only recommend a course of therapy if it is really needed and where it would be immediately beneficial for your child.

    Sonja McGeachie

    Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

    Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.


    Health Professions Council registered
    Royal College of Speech & Language Therapists Member
    Member of ASLTIP

    Find a speech and language therapist for your child in London. Are you concerned about your child’s speech, feeding or communication skills and don’t know where to turn? Please contact me and we can discuss how I can help you or visit my services page.

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    Managing mealtime sensory overload at holiday gatherings: Supporting children with allergies and feeding differences

    Managing mealtime sensory overload at holiday gatherings: Supporting children with allergies and feeding differences

    Holiday meals are meant to be joyful and something we all look forward to. But for many children and their families, these occasions can be overwhelming and be the cause of dread and worry. The combination of new smells, unfamiliar foods, loud environments, social expectations, and allergy anxieties can quickly turn what should be a festive time into a stressful one.

    For parents of children with sensory processing differences, selective eating challenges, or food allergies, holiday gatherings often require careful planning and a big dose of tolerance and compassion. The good news is that with awareness and a few gentle strategies, you can support your child to feel safe, regulated, and included during festive meals without pressure, tears, or discomfort.

    Let’s explore how to make holiday mealtimes calmer, safer, and more connected this season.

    🎄 Why holiday meals feel so overwhelming

    Holiday gatherings usually combine several sensory triggers all at once:

    • Noisy, chaotic rooms
    • Strong smells from a mix of foods we don’t normally cook
    • Multiple conversations happening at once
    • Bright lights, Christmas décor, flickering candles
    • Unfamiliar foods with unexpected textures
    • Expectations to ‘try everything’ or ‘enjoy it’s sooo good!’
    • New environments, seating arrangements, or routines

    For children with sensory sensitivities, this can feel like a tidal wave of input. Research shows that children who are sensory-sensitive often have heightened responses to smell, taste, and texture, which may lead to avoidance or distress at mealtimes (Cermak, Curtin, & Bandini, 2010).

    Add food allergies into the picture and anxiety increases even further for both children and parents. A 2020 study by DunnGalvin et al. found that children with food allergies experience significantly higher stress in shared eating environments, especially when food preparation or contamination risk is hard to control.

    So, if your child becomes tearful, shuts down, or refuses to sit at the festive table, it isn’t ‘bad behaviour.’ It’s sensory overload, heightened vigilance, or discomfort communicating through their body.

    🌟 Preparing your child for a calmer festive meal

    Preparation is especially important for sensory-sensitive or allergy-aware children. Here’s how to set them up for success:

    1. Offer predictability through previewing

    Before the event, show your child pictures of:

    • where you’re going
    • who will be there
    • the types of foods that might be served
    • where they might sit

    A visual schedule or social story can help reduce anxiety and give your child a sense of control.

    2. Pack safe foods without apology

    If your child has allergies or selective eating, bring:

    • ‘Safe foods’ you know they will eat
    • Backup snacks
    • A separate (their own) plate, if needed
    • Emergency medication

    Announce clear, firm boundaries such as:

    ‘Ok people, these are Jamie’s safe foods — we’ll stick with these today.’ This will help relatives understand without pressure or judgement.

    3. Choose seating that supports sensory regulation

    If possible, seat your child:

    • at the end of the table
    • near a familiar adult
    • away from the kitchen (strong smells)
    • away from noise clusters
    • give them their favourite toy or fidget whilst waiting

    Let them take breaks when needed. This isn’t ‘rude,’ it’s self-regulation.

    🍽️ Supporting children during the meal

    1. Focus on connection, not consumption

    The holidays are not the time to expand your child’s food range. Keeping mealtimes low-pressure actually supports long-term progress.

    In fact, the research is clear: pressuring children to eat decreases acceptance and increases refusal (Galloway et al., 2006).

    So instead of ‘Just try it!’ try:

    • ‘You don’t have to eat it, you can look at it.’
    • ‘You’re in charge of what goes in your mouth.’
    • ‘You can keep your safe foods on your plate.’

    2. Protect your child’s allergy safety

    Holiday meals often include:

    • cross-contamination risks
    • shared utensils
    • buffets
    • homemade dishes without ingredient lists

    Use gentle but firm scripts:

    • ‘Because of Ellie’s allergies, we’ll keep her plate separate.’
    • ‘We’ll serve her food ourselves to make sure she stays safe.’

    Confidence in your boundary helps others respect it.

    3. Manage sensory load in real time

    Offer:

    • headphones
    • a small chew or fidget toy
    • a designated ‘calm corner’
    • time outside for fresh air
    • a predictable signal for breaks (e.g., a hand squeeze or card)

    Remember, sensory regulation is healthcare, not ‘giving in.’

    4. Model calm eating

    Children learn most from watching.

    Slow, happy bites and relaxed facial expressions tell the nervous system: ‘This environment is safe’.

    💛 What to say to well-meaning relatives

    Families often have big feelings about food. You can prepare nice phrases like:

    • ‘We’re focusing on helping him feel safe around food today.’
    • ‘She has allergies, so we’re sticking to our plan.’
    • ‘We’re avoiding pressure because it helps him eat better long term.’
    • ‘We’re celebrating together, eating is not the goal today.’

    Setting expectations ahead of time can reduce awkward moments later.

    🎁 The bigger picture: It’s about safety, not ‘picky eating’

    Children with allergies, sensory differences, or feeding challenges aren’t trying to be difficult. They are trying to stay safe, regulated, and comfortable.

    Your calm presence, gentle boundaries, and preparation create the conditions for a holiday that feels peaceful, not pressured.

    Sonja McGeachie

    Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

    Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.


    Health Professions Council registered
    Royal College of Speech & Language Therapists Member
    Member of ASLTIP

    Find a speech and language therapist for your child in London. Are you concerned about your child’s speech, feeding or communication skills and don’t know where to turn? Please contact me and we can discuss how I can help you or visit my services page.

    📚Research References

    Cermak, S. A., Curtin, C., & Bandini, L. G. (2010). Food selectivity and sensory sensitivity in children with autism spectrum disorders. Journal of the American Dietetic Association, 110(2), 238–246.

    DunnGalvin, A. et al. (2020). APPEAL-2: A pan-European qualitative study to explore the burden of peanut-allergic children, teenagers and their caregivers. Clinical & Experimental Allergy, 50(11), 1238–1248.

    Galloway, A. T., Fiorito, L. M., Francis, L. A., & Birch, L. L. (2006). ‘Finish your soup!’ Counterproductive effects of pressuring children to eat on intake and affect. Appetite, 46(3), 318–323.

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