What is Total Communication, and why your child might need it more than just speech

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When a child’s speech is difficult to understand, it can feel overwhelming for everyone involved. As a parent, your instinct is often to focus on helping your child ‘talk properly’. And that makes complete sense. Speech is important. But here’s the key message I want to share with you:

Speech is just one way to communicate.

And when speech is not yet clear, not yet reliable, or not yet available, children need other ways to get their message across.

This is where Total Communication comes in.

What is Total Communication?

Total Communication is an approach that encourages the use of all available ways to communicate, not just speech.

This can include:

  • spoken words
  • gestures and pointing
  • facial expressions
  • signing (such as Makaton)
  • pictures or symbols
  • drawing
  • electronic AAC (Augmentative and Alternative Communication), such as apps like LAMP Words for Life

It’s not about replacing speech. It’s about supporting communication in every possible way.

Think of it like this: if speech is currently unclear or limited, why restrict a child to the hardest route? Why not give them more tools to succeed?

‘But won’t this stop my child from talking?’

This is one of the most common concerns I hear in clinic.

Parents often worry that if a child starts using signs or a communication device, they will become ‘dependent’ on it and stop trying to talk.

The research tells us something very different.

Studies consistently show that AAC does not prevent speech development. In fact, it often supports it.

  • A review by Millar, Light & Schlosser (2006) found that AAC interventions do not reduce speech production and may actually increase it.
  • Romski & Sevcik (2005) demonstrated that children given AAC often develop stronger overall communication skills, including spoken language.
  • More recent work continues to show that providing AAC early can accelerate language development, not delay it.

So rather than ‘giving up on speech’, using AAC is actually building the foundations that speech needs.

Why Total Communication matters, especially for unintelligible children

When a child is very difficult to understand, they are often experiencing a hidden frustration:

‘I know what I want to say, but no one understands me.’

Over time, this can lead to:

  • reduced confidence
  • behavioural frustration
  • withdrawal from communication
  • fewer opportunities to practise language

If a child cannot successfully communicate, they communicate less. And when they communicate less, their language development slows down.

Total Communication breaks this cycle.

By giving a child reliable ways to be understood, we:

  • reduce frustration
  • increase interaction
  • build confidence
  • create more opportunities for language learning

And importantly, we allow them to show us what they already know.

AAC is a bridge, not a barrier

Using AAC (whether that’s pointing to pictures, signing, or using a device) does something powerful:

It separates language from speech.

A child might have lots of ideas, vocabulary, and understanding but their speech system (especially in cases like phonological disorder or childhood apraxia of speech) cannot yet keep up.

AAC allows the child to:

  • express complex ideas now
  • practise sentence structure
  • develop vocabulary
  • take part in conversations

All while their speech is still developing.

In other words, AAC doesn’t replace speech. It keeps language moving forward while speech catches up.

What does this look like in real life?

In therapy, I often use a combination of approaches:

  • modelling simple signs alongside speech
  • pointing to symbols while talking
  • encouraging children to gesture or show
  • using drawings to support understanding
  • incorporating an AAC device such as LAMP Words for Life

You might see a child:

  • say part of a word
  • point to a symbol
  • use a gesture
  • and look at you expectantly

That is communication success.

And success builds motivation.

‘I just want them to talk’

Of course you do. And I do too!! That’s always the goal.

But here’s the important shift in thinking:

Children learn to talk by communicating, not by waiting until speech is perfect.

If we hold out for clear speech before allowing other communication methods, we risk:

  • limiting their ability to interact
  • reducing practice opportunities
  • increasing frustration

But if we support all communication, we give them:

  • more chances to express themselves
  • more positive communication experiences
  • more input and feedback

And that is what drives progress.

A balanced approach

Total Communication doesn’t mean ‘speech is no longer important’.

It means:

  • we continue targeted speech therapy
  • we work on sounds and clarity
  • and we support communication in the meantime

It’s not either/or.

It’s both/and.

Final thought

If your child’s speech is difficult to understand, the most important question is not:

‘Are they talking clearly yet?’

It’s:

‘Can they successfully communicate?’

Because communication is the foundation of:

  • relationships
  • learning
  • confidence
  • wellbeing

And every child deserves a voice, in whatever form that voice takes right now.

Feel free to contact me if your child needs help with speech and communication.

Sonja McGeachie

Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.

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    As Speech and Language Therapists (SLTs), we are taught from day one that developmental milestones follow a predictable, linear path: first comes functional play, then symbolic and imaginative play (like pretending to feed a teddy bear or talking on a toy phone), and then comes conversational speech.

    But when working with language delayed children, I have seen something that completely contradicts those textbook charts.

    Many of my students have absolutely no interest in doll play, tea parties, or imaginary scenarios. Yet, as they mature, they still manage to develop robust, meaningful, and conversational language.

    How is this possible? And what does it mean for how we approach therapy?

    Redefining the ‘rules’ of play and language

    The idea that imaginative play is a strict prerequisite for language was built entirely on neurotypical developmental data. But neurodivergent brains don’t follow neurotypical roadmaps. That is not a deficit; it’s simply a different processing style.

    When Gestalt Language Processors bypass traditional imaginative play, they aren’t ‘missing’ a step. They are often using entirely different cognitive vehicles to build their language skills.

    The power of monotropic deep interests

    Video clip 2 lining up dinosaurs

    Many autistic individuals have a monotropic cognitive style, meaning they process the world through deep, single-focused passions (think trains, space, dinosaurs or ocean creatures).

    While a neurotypical child might practise social roles by pretending a doll is going to school, a neuro-diverse child practises language by categorising, analysing, and sharing facts about their deep interest. Their language is anchored in the concrete, fascinating reality of their passion, rather than fictional symbolic play.

    Gestalt Language Processing (GLP)

    A significant number of neuro-diverse children learn language in large ‘chunks’ or ‘gestalts’ (such as movie scripts, songs, or favourite phrases) rather than building sentences word-by-word.

    When a child scripts or uses echolalia, they are storing and mapping vast amounts of conversational data. They don’t need to pretend-feed a teddy bear to practise dialogue; they are actively processing the rhythm, intonation, and structural rules of speech through the media and phrases they love. As they grow, they learn to break these scripts apart to form original sentences.

    Structural play is learning play

    Just because a child is lining up dinosaurs or cars, stacking blocks, or spinning wheels instead of making them ‘talk’ doesn’t mean they aren’t learning. This functional and structural play builds crucial foundational skills like pattern recognition, cause-and-effect, and spatial awareness, all of which directly support cognitive and language development.

    Shifting Our Goals

    Meeting our children on their home turf: if that’s dinosaurs, let’s be creative with dinosaurs!

    If imaginative play isn’t the engine driving language, forcing it in the therapy room can quickly turn into an exercise in compliance rather than connection. Instead of trying to pull a child out of their world and into a neurotypical play model, we can meet them exactly where they are!

    Here are three affirming ways to turn deep interests into conversations:

    • Swap questions for comments (declarative language): Instead of interrogating a child about their play (‘What colour is that train? Where is it going?’) make pressure-free observations (‘Wow, that train is moving fast. Look at those wheels spin.’). This lowers conversational anxiety and models natural communication.
    • Bridge and expand: Use their favourite topic to introduce new ideas and concepts. If we love dinosaurs let’s see if dinos can climb up a ladder, slide down a half pipe into some water, then need drying before making footprints across a piece of paper…
    • Validate any scripts or echolalia and find out the EMOTION underlying it: If your child uses a quote from a favourite cartoon clip, let’s try and figure out in what context this phrase was said in the movie; what is the emotion in the movie when the character says this line? Is it upset? Is it joyful? Is it big surprise or a shock? Don’t dismiss it as meaningless. Acknowledge the emotion behind the script ‘You feel worried right now.’ This way we are showing our child that their unique way of communicating is heard and valued.

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    Imaginative play is just one way to learn language, not the only way.

    Let’s stop viewing a lack of pretend play as a barrier to communication, and free ourselves to see our children’s true strengths. By embracing their deep passions, we don’t just help them find their voice. We build a real connection that makes communication possible.

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    Managing mealtime sensory overload at holiday gatherings: Supporting children with allergies and feeding differences

    Managing mealtime sensory overload at holiday gatherings: Supporting children with allergies and feeding differences

    Holiday meals are meant to be joyful and something we all look forward to. But for many children and their families, these occasions can be overwhelming and be the cause of dread and worry. The combination of new smells, unfamiliar foods, loud environments, social expectations, and allergy anxieties can quickly turn what should be a festive time into a stressful one.

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    Let’s explore how to make holiday mealtimes calmer, safer, and more connected this season.

    🎄 Why holiday meals feel so overwhelming

    Holiday gatherings usually combine several sensory triggers all at once:

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    • Strong smells from a mix of foods we don’t normally cook
    • Multiple conversations happening at once
    • Bright lights, Christmas décor, flickering candles
    • Unfamiliar foods with unexpected textures
    • Expectations to ‘try everything’ or ‘enjoy it’s sooo good!’
    • New environments, seating arrangements, or routines

    For children with sensory sensitivities, this can feel like a tidal wave of input. Research shows that children who are sensory-sensitive often have heightened responses to smell, taste, and texture, which may lead to avoidance or distress at mealtimes (Cermak, Curtin, & Bandini, 2010).

    Add food allergies into the picture and anxiety increases even further for both children and parents. A 2020 study by DunnGalvin et al. found that children with food allergies experience significantly higher stress in shared eating environments, especially when food preparation or contamination risk is hard to control.

    So, if your child becomes tearful, shuts down, or refuses to sit at the festive table, it isn’t ‘bad behaviour.’ It’s sensory overload, heightened vigilance, or discomfort communicating through their body.

    🌟 Preparing your child for a calmer festive meal

    Preparation is especially important for sensory-sensitive or allergy-aware children. Here’s how to set them up for success:

    1. Offer predictability through previewing

    Before the event, show your child pictures of:

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    • who will be there
    • the types of foods that might be served
    • where they might sit

    A visual schedule or social story can help reduce anxiety and give your child a sense of control.

    2. Pack safe foods without apology

    If your child has allergies or selective eating, bring:

    • ‘Safe foods’ you know they will eat
    • Backup snacks
    • A separate (their own) plate, if needed
    • Emergency medication

    Announce clear, firm boundaries such as:

    ‘Ok people, these are Jamie’s safe foods — we’ll stick with these today.’ This will help relatives understand without pressure or judgement.

    3. Choose seating that supports sensory regulation

    If possible, seat your child:

    • at the end of the table
    • near a familiar adult
    • away from the kitchen (strong smells)
    • away from noise clusters
    • give them their favourite toy or fidget whilst waiting

    Let them take breaks when needed. This isn’t ‘rude,’ it’s self-regulation.

    🍽️ Supporting children during the meal

    1. Focus on connection, not consumption

    The holidays are not the time to expand your child’s food range. Keeping mealtimes low-pressure actually supports long-term progress.

    In fact, the research is clear: pressuring children to eat decreases acceptance and increases refusal (Galloway et al., 2006).

    So instead of ‘Just try it!’ try:

    • ‘You don’t have to eat it, you can look at it.’
    • ‘You’re in charge of what goes in your mouth.’
    • ‘You can keep your safe foods on your plate.’

    2. Protect your child’s allergy safety

    Holiday meals often include:

    • cross-contamination risks
    • shared utensils
    • buffets
    • homemade dishes without ingredient lists

    Use gentle but firm scripts:

    • ‘Because of Ellie’s allergies, we’ll keep her plate separate.’
    • ‘We’ll serve her food ourselves to make sure she stays safe.’

    Confidence in your boundary helps others respect it.

    3. Manage sensory load in real time

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    • headphones
    • a small chew or fidget toy
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    • time outside for fresh air
    • a predictable signal for breaks (e.g., a hand squeeze or card)

    Remember, sensory regulation is healthcare, not ‘giving in.’

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    💛 What to say to well-meaning relatives

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    Sonja McGeachie

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    📚Research References

    Cermak, S. A., Curtin, C., & Bandini, L. G. (2010). Food selectivity and sensory sensitivity in children with autism spectrum disorders. Journal of the American Dietetic Association, 110(2), 238–246.

    DunnGalvin, A. et al. (2020). APPEAL-2: A pan-European qualitative study to explore the burden of peanut-allergic children, teenagers and their caregivers. Clinical & Experimental Allergy, 50(11), 1238–1248.

    Galloway, A. T., Fiorito, L. M., Francis, L. A., & Birch, L. L. (2006). ‘Finish your soup!’ Counterproductive effects of pressuring children to eat on intake and affect. Appetite, 46(3), 318–323.

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    There is more than one way to model communication: Using speech prompts, signs, and AAC together in therapy

    One of the most important things I have learned as a paediatric speech and language therapist is this:

    Children do not all learn communication in the same way.

    Some children learn best through listening.
    Some need visual support.
    Some need movement and gesture.
    Some benefit from symbols or technology.
    And many children need multiple supports together before communication truly starts to develop.

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    One of the biggest misconceptions about speech therapy is the idea that communication only ‘counts’ if a child says the word verbally.

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    Research and clinical experience consistently show that signs often support spoken language development rather than hinder it.

    Research suggests that learning signs alongside spoken language does not hinder speech development and may support overall language acquisition, communication confidence, and vocabulary growth in many children.

    For many children, signs actually help speech emerge because they:

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    In the clip, I also model language using an electronic AAC system: LAMP Words for Life.

    AAC stands for Augmentative and Alternative Communication.

    AAC includes any tool that supports communication beyond speech alone, including:

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    • speech-generating devices.

    LAMP Words for Life is one of my favourite AAC systems because it focuses on consistent motor patterns and meaningful language development. Because communication is not about achieving perfection. It is about connection.

    And when children are given multiple ways to express themselves, they often become more confident, more engaged, and more willing to interact with the world around them.

    That is the true power of total communication therapy.

    Contact me via my contact form if you would like me to work with your child.

    Sonja McGeachie

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    Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.

    Reference

    Pontecorvo, Elana & Higgins, Michael & Mora, Joshua & Lieberman, Amy & Pyers, Jennie & Caselli, Naomi. (2023). Learning a Sign Language Does Not Hinder Acquisition of a Spoken Language. Journal of Speech, Language, and Hearing Research. 66. 1291-1308. DOI 10.1044/2022_JSLHR-22-00505.


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    Unlocking connection: Why the Hanen ‘More Than Words®’ approach works (BEST online!!)

    As a Speech and Language Therapist, one of the most rewarding parts of my job isn’t just working on speech sounds or vocabulary lists. It’s helping parents truly connect with their autistic children.

    Recently, I had a 1-hour initial online session with the parent of a 7-year-old boy. In just 75 minutes, we achieved a massive breakthrough in perspective, all without parents setting foot into my traditional clinic setting or me visiting them at home.

    I had been sent some video footage of their child along with detailed parent questionnaire and both gave me so much information from which I then worked online with the parent.

    Here is a glimpse into what the Hanen More Than Words® approach is, how I structure my initial sessions, and why doing this work online with parents is often far more powerful than traditional therapy.

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    The Hanen More Than Words® programme is an evidence-based framework designed specifically for parents of autistic children or children with social communication difficulties. Rather than treating communication as a clinical ‘lesson’ taught by a therapist, Hanen empowers parents to become their child’s primary communication partner. It focuses on turning everyday interactions, routines, and play into natural opportunities for a child to build connection, express themselves, and initiate communication at their own pace.

    How I structure the first session: Reframing expectations

    When parents first come to speech therapy, they often arrive with understandable anxiety and big, sometimes overwhelming, expectations. My primary goal in session one is to take those expectations, reframe them into realistic, hopeful goals, and establish a clear baseline of where we are right now.

    To do this, I use the Hanen Social Communication Checklist.

    In my session with any parent this tool is always a game-changer. Today, for example, it allowed us to celebrate every single achievement our child has already made, while highlighting the specific micro-skills we want to consolidate next. Instead of focusing on ‘fixing’ speech, our baseline focused on three functional social goals:

    • Responding to comments from others.
    • Initiating his own comments, requests, or questions (in whatever way he can).
    • Taking a single, natural conversational turn, even if that turn takes time to come.

    Why online therapy for Hanen works so well

    People often ask me: ‘Can speech therapy really be effective over Zoom?’

    My answer is an emphatic yes. And for Hanen, online is often superior to a clinic.

    In a clinic, a child is in an unfamiliar environment with a new adult, which can feel demanding or artificial. Online, the child stays in their safe, natural home environment. I get to coach the parent directly in real time, giving them immediate tools they can use every single day. In just one hour online today with one parent, for example, we got a massive amount of foundational work done without causing a single moment of stress for the child.

    Key takeaways: The power of silence, OWL, and agenda-free fun

    If you are looking to support an autistic child’s social communication at home, here are the core principles we put into home practice after our first session:

    1. Embrace the power of O.W.L. (Observe, Wait, Listen)

    We live in a fast-paced world where adults feel compelled to fill every quiet moment with questions (‘What’s that?’, ‘What colour is the car?’). Hanen flips this script.

    • Observe: Step back and see what truly captures your child’s interest.
    • Wait: Be comfortable with silence. Give your child the extra time they need to process their thoughts and formulate a response.
    • Listen: Pay attention to every sound, gesture, or attempt at communication.

    2. Become a buddy, not a teacher

    Try to play alongside your child the way another 5-to-7-year-old peer would. A peer doesn’t quiz, direct, or lecture; they do their own thing nearby, make occasional fun comments, and signal that they simply enjoy being together. Shift your role from communication director to play buddy.

    3. Comment naturally. Don’t ‘state the obvious’

    Once you master silence, narration should feel natural, spontaneous, and genuine.

    • Avoid: Pointing out things they already know just to test them (e.g., ‘That’s a blue car!’).
    • Try: Generic, enthusiastic reactions that invite connection without demanding a answer (e.g., ‘Whoa, look at that!’, ‘Goodness!’, ‘Hey, that’s cool!’).

    4. Have fun with no agenda

    School and daily routines carry a lot of demands for a 7-year-old. Take time every day to simply join your child’s world and have fun with zero clinical agenda. Laughter and genuine connection are the ultimate foundations for all communication.

    Interested in learning how the Hanen programme can support your family? Get in touch today to learn more about our online parent coaching sessions.

    Sonja McGeachie

    Sonja McGeachie

    Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

    Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.


    Health Professions Council registered
    Royal College of Speech & Language Therapists Member
    Member of ASLTIP

    Find a speech and language therapist for your child in London. Are you concerned about your child’s speech, feeding or communication skills and don’t know where to turn? Please contact me and we can discuss how I can help you or visit my services page.

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    Target Activities and Games For Kids

    Target Activities and Games

    AMAZINGLY EASY Activities that we can do at home and in the clinic to help our children practise those targets!

    I bet you have wondered what amazing things are done by a therapist in the clinic that you could not possibly do at home…? Well, if so I am here to tell you that you will be absolutely fine with just a few select toys and games and you will be able to get those targets done in a jiffy!

    What we clinicians do very well and what you probably can’t do yourself is formulate and design the targets that are important for your child to practice. Once we have assessed or reviewed your child’s progress and needs we can then design the perfect next step of targets for you.

    So for example, we have decided your little one needs to be practicing their ‘r’ sounds at the beginning of short words. We decided that based on our clinical expertise and our assessment and we have already worked with your child and managed to get this tricky ‘r’ sound just about right on its own. Now we are ready for short word practice.

    It has been researched that in order for the brain pathways to re-shape or reform we need to get about 100 words in per day of our target sound. That sounds like quite a lot, right? But actually….. it’s not that bad. After all you only need to say 5-7 words about 20 times and hey presto that’s about 80-100 words.

    So here are some simple games I use in my clinic all the time and these games are easily available online or in your local toy shops and this is how to do them:

    Pop the Pirate

    Pop the Pirate, sooo good and popular:

    Lay out your target words which you will have been given by your speech therapist and put a few swords on each word.

    Each time your child picks up a sword they will need to say the target word 5 x, like:

    rip rip rip rip rip or run run run run run just like that in a row, bish bash bosh.

    Then they can stick the sword into the barrel. Onto the next sword which they can pick and then again

    race race race race race and stick in another sword

    So with this little lot I put out 5 target words and 3 swords on each.

    You will therefore get…… 15 words per picture, and that makes….75 words , there that is nearly all you need to do.

    If you then do another little game like this one:

    Magnetic board game

    This is a Magnetic Board game, and they are suddenly EVERYWHERE. But you could also just take a baking sheet and some fridge magnet you might have kicking about.

    Same principle as before, but now since this is your SECOND game of the day and you have already got 75 targets under your belt you only need to do one more round of 5 target words each:

    Each time your child picks up a magnet piece they will say the target word 5 more times:

    Ray ray ray ray ray and DONE you will now at the end of this short round have 105!! target words done with just two little fun games.

    How good is this? Your child won’t hardly notice that they are in fact doing their speech therapy homework.

    You’re welcome 🙂

    Get in touch if you would like me to help finding good targets for your child to work on. They can be speech and/or language targets with this game method.


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    Tongue training: Why tongue placement matters for clear speech

    As speech and Language therapists (SLTs), we know that where your tongue goes, so goes your sound. This blog post will explore why tongue placement is so vital for speech correction and how we use tools and techniques to help our clients find their ‘sweet spot’ for sound production.

    Let me show you here a little video clip where I am using my dentist’s mouth/teeth model to help my clients navigate their tongue movements.

    The tongue: A tiny muscle with a big job

    The tongue is a small but mighty muscle. It’s incredibly versatile, playing a key role in eating, swallowing, and, of course, speaking. For each speech sound, the tongue, along with the lips and jaw, needs to move to a very specific spot. Think of it like a dance: every part of your mouth has a choreographed movement to produce the correct sound. If the tongue is out of sync, the sound comes out muffled, distorted, or just plain wrong.

    The trouble with our tongue movements is that most of us never think about how the tongue has to move and what it does to: swallow, chew, drink, suck and speak. Most parents when asked to think about their own tongue placement for say the /S/ sound are completely lost as to what their tongue is doing. Yet, of course, they produce a perfect /S/ and perfect speech in general. The same goes for swallowing. When did you last think about what happens in your mouth when you swallow? I bet you have not thought about it. We ‘just do it’, right?

    Why is tongue placement so important?

    Accurate tongue placement is the foundation of clear articulation. When a child struggles with a particular sound, it’s often because his or her tongue isn’t quite reaching the right spot or moving in the correct way. For example, the /S/ sound requires the tongue to be slightly raised and positioned behind the top teeth, creating a narrow channel for air to flow through. If the tongue is too far forward, you might get a /TH/ sound instead. If it’s too far back, the /S/ can sound muffled.

    Visual aids: Our secret weapon

    We SLTs love our visual aids! They’re incredibly helpful for showing clients exactly where their tongue needs to be. Here are some of our favourite tools:

    • Mirrors: Mirrors provide instant feedback. Clients can see their tongue’s position and make adjustments in real-time. We often use hand mirrors or even the mirror on a compact for quick checks.
    • Tongue depressors: These simple tools can gently guide the tongue to the correct position. We might use them to show where the tongue tip should rest for the /L/ sound or how the sides of the tongue should touch the molars for the /K/ and /G/ sounds.
    • Diagrams and models: Pictures and models of the mouth can help clients visualise the tongue’s movements. We might use a cross-section diagram of the mouth to show how the tongue forms different sounds.

    Beyond the tongue: The jaw’s role

    While the tongue takes centre stage, the jaw plays a supporting role. It provides a stable base for the tongue and helps control the opening and closing of the mouth. Sometimes, jaw stability is an issue, and we might use techniques to help clients find a comfortable and stable jaw position.

    Making it fun and engaging

    Learning correct tongue placement can be challenging, but we make it fun! We use games, stories, and playful activities to keep clients motivated. For younger children, we might use silly voices or pretend to be animals. For older children, we might incorporate their interests, like using a car analogy for tongue movements.

    The takeaway

    Correct tongue placement is essential for clear speech. By using visual aids, interactive techniques, and a bit of creativity, we can help our clients master their speech sounds and communicate with confidence.

    If you have any concerns about your child’s speech, don’t hesitate to reach out to a qualified speech and language therapist, we are here to help! Contact me via my contact form.

    Sonja McGeachie

    Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

    Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

    The London Speech and Feeding Practice


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