Great toys and books for our toddlers (around 1–2 years old)

ByLondon Speech and Feeding February 24, 2025February 17, 2025

As a speech and language therapist, I often get asked by parents what toys and books they should buy for their toddlers. It can feel overwhelming with so many options available! So, I’ve put together a list based on my experience and what I’ve found works well.

Remember, every child is unique!

Observe your toddler’s interests and play style. Some toys that are popular might not be engaging for your child.

Here are a few ideas to get you started:

Sensory Toys:

Stacking cups: These are fantastic for developing hand-eye coordination, fine motor skills, and understanding size relationships. (Various brands available) Note: You can stack many things you have around the house, like bowls or measuring cups, for a similar experience!
Shape sorters: Help with shape recognition, hand-eye coordination, and problem-solving. (Melissa & Doug, Vtech)
Sensory balls: Balls with different textures (soft, bumpy, squishy) provide tactile stimulation. (Various brands)
Push and pull toys: Encourage gross motor development and exploration. (Vtech, Fisher-Price)

Communication-focused toys:

Picture books with flaps: Engage curiosity and encourage language development. (Various brands)
Talking toys: Introduce new vocabulary and encourage imitation. (Vtech, Fisher-Price)
Simple puzzles: Develop hand-eye coordination, problem-solving, and spatial awareness. (Melissa & Doug, Ravensburger)
Musical instruments: Encourage exploration of sounds and develop auditory skills. (Bright Starts, Fisher-Price)

Now, let’s talk about books:

The Very Hungry Caterpillar by Eric Carle: A classic with repetitive text and vibrant illustrations, great for introducing vocabulary and concepts like days of the week.
Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What Do You See? by Bill Martin Jr. and Eric Carle: Simple, repetitive text and engaging illustrations make this a favourite for many toddlers.
Goodnight Moon by Margaret Wise Brown: A soothing bedtime story with calming illustrations.
Pat the Bunny by Dorothy Kunhardt: An interactive book with textures and flaps to engage young children.
Corduroy by Don Freeman: A heartwarming story about a teddy bear who loses his button.

Remember:

Observe your child’s interests: Choose toys and books that capture their attention and encourage exploration.
Engage with your child: Play with the toys together and read books aloud with enthusiasm.
Keep it simple: Start with a few toys and books and gradually introduce new ones.
Rotate toys: Keep playtime fresh by rotating toys and books regularly.
Most importantly, have fun! Reading and playing with your child should be a joyful experience for both of you.

Also consider the power of open-ended play

In today’s world filled with electronic gadgets, it’s easy to overlook the value of open-ended play. Open-ended toys lack specific functions or prescribed outcomes, allowing children to use their imaginations to explore and create. Unlike toys with pre-determined ways to play, open-ended toys encourage:

Creative thinking: Children can use them in countless ways, developing their own rules and narratives. A block can become a car, a house, or a spaceship, depending on the child’s imagination.
Problem-solving skills: Children learn to figure out how to use the toys, experimenting and adapting as they go. Don’t immediately rush in and fix things for your little one, let them think for themselves and then communication incentive: let them come and find you!
Fine motor skills: Many open-ended toys, like blocks, encourage the development of fine motor skills like grasping, stacking, and building.
Cognitive development: Children learn about cause and effect, spatial relationships, and problem-solving as they play with open-ended toys.
Social-emotional development: Open-ended play can foster social interaction and cooperation as children play together and share ideas.

Simple toys with big impact

Some of the best toys for toddlers are often the simplest ones. Here are a few examples:

Wooden blocks: Building towers, bridges, and forts encourages creativity and problem-solving.
Balls: Throwing, kicking, and rolling balls promote gross motor skills and hand-eye coordination.
Fabric: Bits of fabric can be draped, draped, and used for imaginative play.
Empty boxes: From cardboard boxes to tissue boxes, these can be transformed into anything a child can imagine: a car, a house, a spaceship!
Natural materials: Sticks, leaves, pinecones, and rocks can be used for imaginative play and sensory exploration.

Remember, the key to open-ended play is to let children explore and discover

Step back and observe, allowing your child to use his or her imaginations without too much direction. You might be surprised at the creative ways he or she uses simple toys!

Happy play times with your little one!

Contact me via my contact form.

Sonja McGeachie

Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

The London Speech and Feeding Practice

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Autism Therapy · Echolalia · Neurodiversity · Speech and Language Therapy

How parent coaching turns story time into a communication success
ByLondon Speech and Feeding October 6, 2025October 2, 2025
We often hear from parents who are trying their best to connect with their child, especially when reading books, but are met with frustration. They’ll say, ‘I read the book exactly as it’s written, but my child can’t focus for very long and just runs off!’ or ‘my child just flicks through the pages then turns it upside down and runs off with it’ or similar.

It’s a common story. Traditional reading—going through the text from cover-to-cover—has its place of course, but for little ones with a language delay or autism it can move too quickly and place all the focus on the book’s words, not on the interaction.

But what if I told you that story time could become one of the most fun and productive times for your child’s communication development?

Watch the fantastic little video clip above! You can see the pure joy and connection between this dad and his son. This is the same family who, just a few weeks ago, felt defeated when trying to read a book, with their child quickly losing interest and leaving the reading/book corner.

What changed?

The power of parent coaching and Hanen principles

The difference you see in the video is the direct result of parent interaction therapy, or parent coaching, based on the internationally recognised Hanen principles.

I didn’t ‘fix’ the child. Instead, I coached the parents in a few simple, powerful strategies that completely changed the dynamic of their interaction. Instead of being a time for teaching and instruction, story time became a back-and-forth conversation.

Here are the four major transformations that coaching helped this family achieve:

1. From reader to play partner

Before coaching, the parents felt their job was to read the text and to teach the words in it to their child. Now, their job is to follow their child’s lead. They learned to Observe, Wait, and Listen (OWL). If the child points to the tree or the badger on the page, the parent talks about the tree or the badger.

The result

The child is now initiating and leading the conversation! He is sharing what he finds interesting, which makes him feel powerful and keeps him deeply engaged.

2. Building connection and attention

When parents focus solely on reading, they often forget to make frequent eye contact and use animated facial expressions. The principles taught them to put the text aside and prioritise connection.

The result

Our little boy is looking at his dad more frequently, making great eye contact, and clearly having fun! When the interaction is fun, the child’s attention span naturally lengthens, allowing him to attend to the book and the interaction for a much longer time.

3. Creating opportunities for communication

The parents learned simple ways to prompt communication without pressure. They stopped asking knowledge-based questions (‘What colour is that? Or point to the pig!’), which can feel like a test.

Instead, they learned to use techniques like ‘Saying less and pausing’ or ‘copying their little one’s echolalia ‘, signalling that they are very interested in what he is saying and that his communication matters!

The result

The child is now spontaneously using strings of sounds and gestures to communicate his needs and interests, knowing and enjoying his parents’ enthusiastic responses.

This video is a testament to the fact that you are your child’s best therapist. With the right tools and coaching, you can transform everyday routines, like reading a book, into the most joyful and effective communication sessions.

4. Acknowledging and interpreting echolalia

In the video, you may hear the little boy repeat a phrase from the book or from what his dad just said. This is called echolalia, and for a long time, it was often dismissed or discouraged.

However, a core principle of our parent coaching is that echolalia is communication. For children who are ‘Gestalt Language Processors,’ these memorised phrases (or ‘gestalts’) are their building blocks of language.

The key is not to stop the repetition, but to become a ‘language detective’ and ‘interpreter’!

By modelling the correct, first-person phrase right after the echo, parents/caregivers are teaching a child how to break down the ‘chunk’ and use the individual words functionally. They are showing their child: ‘I heard you. Your communication makes sense to me.’

This strategy is a game-changer because it:
1. Validates the child’s communication: It honours the child’s natural way of learning language, which boosts their confidence and willingness to communicate.
2. Facilitates language development: It provides the child with the next step—a meaningful, functional phrase—to move them from repeating language to generating their own spontaneous sentences.
Look at the child’s face again in the video. When his dad acknowledges and interprets his communication, you see that spark of joy and connection—that’s the moment when true, functional language learning happens!

Ready to unlock the potential in your family’s story time? Contact me to learn more about our parent coaching programs.

Sonja McGeachie

Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.

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Explore activities for Gestalt Language Processors to aid communication
ByLondon Speech and Feeding September 16, 2022January 3, 2024

When you have a child who uses Gestalts it is often difficult to think and adapt clinic activities into those to use at home. More importantly, you find that individualising your activities for your child who uses Gestalt are time-consuming. But you value its importance for their communication development.

You feel so busy, you are taking them to other appointments, or trying to get through your daily activities, all whilst still ensuring your child’s emotional needs are met. You know life should not get in the way of your child’s therapy activities at home, but it does. We know your spare time is precious and limited, so let us achieve your child’s or young person’s goals in the allotted time you have which meets their way of learning (using Gestalts).

We wanted to support you by exploring items which you may have at home, and we will give you some key phrases which you can start to model with your child. Whereas our last blog introduced the idea of gestalt language processors, we are now developing ideas to give you the tools to implement activities at home. We recognise how overwhelming it may feel, and this is one of the reasons to make activities as straight forward as possible. Therapy does not need to be complicated; it just needs to be carried out on a regular basis.

Explore the samples I’ve created to give you an idea of how this might look but please consult with a Speech and Language Therapist who knows about Gestalt Language Processing so that you can work together to develop great home activities for your child.

Want to learn more about gestalt language processing?

Please contact me for help.

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Why I love ‘Colourful Semantics’ in speech therapy
ByLondon Speech and Feeding May 28, 2026May 28, 2026
One of the most common concerns parents bring to speech and language therapy is:
‘My child understands so much… but they struggle to put sentences together’.

Some children use only single words.
Others miss out key parts of sentences.
Some mix up word order.
Others find it difficult to answer questions or explain their ideas clearly.

This is where one of my favourite therapy approaches can be incredibly powerful: Colourful Semantics.

Colourful Semantics is a highly effective and evidence-informed way of supporting children to build stronger sentence structure, grammar, understanding, and expressive language skills.

It is a visual approach to language development originally created by a UK Speech and Language Therapist, Alyson Bryan in 1997 to help children understand how sentences are organised.

Different parts of a sentence are represented by different colours.

For example:
- Who? is orange.
- What doing? is yellow.
- What? is green.
- Where? is blue.
As children progress more colours are added:
- To Whom? Is pink.
- Adjectives (what like) is purple.
- Time Phrase is brown.
Using colours gives children a visual framework for building sentences in a way that feels structured, predictable, and achievable.

Instead of language feeling abstract and overwhelming, children can see how sentences fit together.

For many children, this is massively helpful as it gives structure and predictability.

Why some children struggle with sentences

Language development is incredibly complex.

To build a sentence, we need to:
- think of vocabulary
- organise grammar
- sequence words
- understand meaning
- remember sentence structure
- physically say the words clearly enough to communicate
That is a huge amount happening all at once.

Some children may:
- leave out verbs
- miss pronouns
- use immature grammar
- struggle with word order
- rely on very short phrases
- find it difficult to expand beyond single words.
For example:
- ‘Boy jump’
- ‘Him eating’
- ‘Dog there’
- ‘Want juice’.
These children often know more than they can express.

Colourful Semantics helps bridge that gap.

Why visual supports matter

Many children—especially those with language delays, developmental language disorder (DLD), autism, or social communication difficulties—benefit enormously from visual support.

Visual systems reduce the processing load.

Instead of relying only on spoken language, children are given an additional way to organise information.

The colours act almost like ‘anchors’ for language.

A child may begin to understand:
- orange = who
- yellow = action
- green = object
- blue = place.
This makes sentence building more concrete and less overwhelming.

It also supports children who struggle with:
- attention
- auditory memory
- processing spoken language
- sequencing
- confidence using language independently.
Supporting sentence expansion naturally

One of the things I love most about Colourful Semantics is how flexible it is.

It can be used:
- in play
- with books
- during conversation
- with picture scenes
- in storytelling
- during movement activities
- within everyday routines.
Therapy does not need to feel rigid or worksheet-heavy.

Many children who usually avoid talking become much more willing to attempt longer sentences when they feel successful.

Children often begin to use:
- verbs more accurately
- pronouns more consistently
- better word order
- improved sentence organisation
- and more complete ideas.
For example, instead of:
- ‘Him running’
A child may gradually move toward:
- ‘He is running.’
The colours help children understand the ‘jobs’ words have within a sentence.

This is particularly useful for children who need explicit teaching of language structure rather than simply learning through exposure alone.

Supporting children with speech difficulties too

One thing I particularly value in therapy is approaches that support multiple communication areas at once.

Colourful Semantics is excellent for this.

While building sentences, we can also naturally target:
- speech sounds
- intelligibility
- vocabulary
- social communication
- turn-taking
- attention and listening
- confidence speaking.
For example, if a child is working on the /K/ sound, we might intentionally build sentences containing target words:
- ‘The cat is coming.’
- ‘The boy is kicking.’
- ‘The duck is in the box.’
This allows speech and language goals to work together rather than separately.

Therapy becomes more functional, meaningful, and engaging.

Building confidence through success

One of the biggest barriers many children experience is not simply language difficulty. It is the emotional impact of struggling to communicate.

Some children become frustrated.
Others withdraw.
Some stop attempting longer sentences altogether because communication feels too hard.

Colourful Semantics can help rebuild confidence because it gives children a clear structure for success. That feeling matters enormously.

When children feel successful, they participate more.
They attempt more.
They communicate more.

And communication grows through communication.

Why I use colourful semantics

There is no single ‘magic’ therapy approach for every child.

But Colourful Semantics remains one of the most versatile and effective tools I use because it can be adapted so beautifully to individual children.

It supports:
- early language
- grammar
- sentence structure
- comprehension
- expressive language
- storytelling
- confidence
- functional communication.
Most importantly, it helps children organise language in a way that finally starts to make sense to them.

And when language starts to make sense, communication can truly begin to flourish.

Contact me via my contact form if you would like me to work with your child.

Sonja McGeachie

Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.

Reference

Bryan A (1997) Colourful semantics. In: Chiat S, Law J, and Marshall J (eds) Language disorders in children and adults: psycholinguistic approaches to therapy. London: Whurr, 143–61.

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Understanding phonological processes in 3–7-year-olds: What’s typical and when to seek help
ByLondon Speech and Feeding February 18, 2026February 13, 2026
As a speech and language therapist, one of the most common questions I hear from parents is:

‘They can talk, but their speech still sounds immature. Is this normal?’

Many children between the ages of three and seven use speech patterns that make their words sound different from adult speech. These patterns are known as phonological processes, and for younger children, they are a normal part of speech development.

However, when these processes persist beyond the expected age, they can start to affect clarity, confidence and learning, especially once children enter school.

This blog will help you understand:
- what phonological processes are
- which patterns are typical at different ages
- and when it might be time to seek speech therapy support
What are phonological processes?

Phonological processes are patterns of sound simplification that children use while their speech system is developing.

Instead of learning each sound one by one, children initially organise sounds into patterns that make speech easier to produce. This is a normal and efficient strategy for a developing brain.

For example:
- saying ‘tar’ instead of ‘car’
- saying ‘poon’ instead of ‘spoon’
- saying ‘bud’ instead of ‘bus’
These are not ‘bad habits’. They are part of how speech develops.

The key question is how long these patterns last.

Common phonological processes (and when they usually disappear)

Below are some of the most common processes parents notice in 3–7-year-olds.

1. Final consonant deletion

Leaving off the last sound in a word
- ‘ca’ for cat, ‘da’ for dog
- Typically resolved by 3–3½ years
2. Fronting

Replacing back sounds (k, g) with front sounds (t, d)
- ‘tar’ for car, ‘do’ for go
- Typically resolved by 3½–4 years
3. Cluster reduction

Omitting one sound in a consonant cluster
- ‘poon’ for spoon, ‘top’ for stop
- Typically resolves by 4–5 years (some clusters slightly later)
4. Gliding

Replacing /R/ or /L/ with /W/ or /Y/
- ‘wabbit’ for rabbit, ‘yion’ for lion
- Can be typical up to 5–6 years
5. Weak syllable deletion

Leaving out unstressed syllables
- ‘nana’ for banana
- Usually resolved by 4 years
If these patterns continue past the expected age, speech can remain difficult to understand particularly for unfamiliar listeners such as teachers, peers, and also Auntie Karen or grandparents who visit once in a while.

Why phonological processes matter in school-age children

By the time children reach reception and Year 1, speech clarity becomes increasingly important.

Persistent phonological difficulties can affect:
- being understood by teachers and peers
- phonics and early reading
- spelling
- confidence in speaking
- willingness to participate in class
Some children become aware that they ‘sound different’ and may speak less, avoid longer words, or become frustrated when misunderstood.

What’s the difference between a delay and a disorder?

This is an important distinction.
- A phonological delay means a child is following the normal pattern of development, just more slowly.
- A phonological disorder means the child is using atypical patterns, or continuing age-expected patterns well beyond when they should have resolved.
A speech and language assessment helps identify:
- which processes are present
- how many are affecting speech
- how consistent the errors are
- and whether intervention is needed
Signs it may be time to seek speech therapy

You may want to seek professional advice if your child:
- is 3½ years or older and still hard to understand
- is understood well by family but not by others
- becomes frustrated or avoids talking
- has difficulty with phonics or spelling
- uses several phonological processes at once
- has not made progress despite time and encouragement
Early support does not mean something is ‘wrong’. It simply helps speech development move forward more efficiently.Research consistently shows that unresolved phonological processes beyond the expected age can impact intelligibility, literacy and confidence (Dodd, 2014; Bowen, 2015).

How speech therapy helps phonological development

Phonological therapy is not about drilling individual sounds endlessly.

Instead, therapy focuses on:
- helping children recognise sound patterns
- building awareness of contrasts (e.g. ‘tar’ vs ‘car’)
- practising speech in meaningful, playful ways
- supporting generalisation so progress carries into everyday speech
For school-aged children, therapy is usually structured, motivating and highly targeted and progress can be very encouraging.

A final reassurance

Many children with phonological difficulties go on to develop clear, confident speech with the right support.

If you’re unsure whether your child’s speech is ‘just a phase’ or something that needs attention, a professional assessment can give clarity and peace of mind.

If you’d like support or advice, please contact me and I can help guide the next steps.

Sonja McGeachie

Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.

Research references
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Discover speech and language regression in autistic children and how you can support your child
ByLondon Speech and Feeding February 17, 2023January 3, 2024
There’s often this idea that autistic children have extensive vocabulary and knowledge, but this is not always the case. In fact, 30% of autistic children have language regression.

Goldberg (2003) suggested that speech and language regression refers to the decline in a young child’s speech and communication abilities. We know that regression in speech, language and communication skills often occur before the age of two years. 25% of autistic children develop language at word level between 12 and 18 months of age before losing this language they have learned. As you’re probably aware this regression in communication is a diagnostic indicator of Autism.

We understand that you want your child to progress, and you struggle to watch as their frustration grows as you feel helpless. I want to provide you with tips so that you can feel empowered to support your autistic child and reduce the impact their communication skills have on the family.
1. Reduce frustration by providing visuals to support their communication
2. Model gestalts. We know that autistic children are often gestalt language processors. Learn more about gestalt language processors in one of my previous posts.
3. Praise the ability to communicate. Focus on what they say not how they say it. E.g., good listening, nice talking.
4. Provide your child with choices (using real objects to represent your choices). E.g., do you want an apple or banana?
5. Your child must be motivated and have a purpose to communicate. So, ensure you use highly motivating objects for conversations
6. Provide them with opportunities to communicate. We need to teach children that if they want something, there’s a process that you need to have the opportunity to ask for it. We find that if parents understand what their child wants (without them asking), the object is given to them, and so there’s no reason for your child to ask.
7. There’s this idea that we need to teach children eye contact. This is not always the case. Your child is unique, we do not want to take their unique skills away.
8. Model words which are concrete. E.g., words such as ‘finished’, ‘more’. You can model these several times within the day. You can use a gesture to make the word more visual (see the images below). We know that autistic children are often visual learners.
Makaton for “more”

Makaton for “finished”

Credit: Little Dots Makaton, Polkadot World

Remember that if your child has speech, language and communication regression, it doesn’t mean your child will stay static.

It’s vital that you seek support from a qualified Speech and Language Therapist. We can tell you at what point in the communication development that your child is at. And we can support you through the process. We can provide you with an individualised plan specifically for your child to ensure you maximise their potential.

Contact me for help.

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The joy of container play: Exploring play development and understanding of how things work
ByLondon Speech and Feeding January 15, 2025January 8, 2025
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Have you heard the term ‘Container play’? I use this very often with children in my sessions as it is so versatile and an enjoyable activity that can be done in parallel with a child or together. Container play is a powerful tool for fostering development in young children, especially those with developmental delays. This seemingly mundane activity provides a rich environment for sensory exploration, motor skill development, and cognitive growth.

What is container play?

Container play involves children interacting with various containers—boxes, buckets, bowls, cups, various bags, etc.—and filling, emptying, and transferring objects within and between them. Objects can include literally anything: small beads, bead chains, table tennis balls, wooden pegs, dinosaurs or any other little person toy, blocks of varying sizes, sand, water, or any other safe material. Larger containers obviously take larger items: socks, stuffed animals, bigger balls, bigger blocks etc really the choices are endless.

Benefits for children with developmental delays:

Sensory exploration:
- Touch: Children explore different textures and temperatures of containers and objects.
- Sight: They observe how objects look inside and outside the containers, how light reflects off them, and how colours change.
- Sound: They listen to the sounds of objects clinking, rattling, and splashing.
- Proprioception: Filling and emptying containers helps develop body awareness and spatial awareness.
For neurodivergent children who might have sensory regulation difficulties, consider the following adaptions to accommodate your child’s sensory needs:
- Over-stimulation: For children who are easily overstimulated, start with simple setups using a limited number of containers and objects. Gradually increase the complexity as they tolerate it.
- Under-stimulation: For children who seek sensory input, provide a variety of textures and materials, such as sand, water, slime, or beans.
- Temperature: Offer a variety of temperature options. Some children may enjoy warm water or cool sand.
- Lighting: Adjust the lighting to create a calming or stimulating environment.
- Focus on one sense at a time: Initially, focus on one sensory aspect, such as the feel of sand or the sound of water.
- Weighted containers: Use heavy containers filled with rice or beans to provide deep pressure input.
- Fidget toys: Incorporate fidget toys into the activity to provide sensory input and help with self-regulation.
- Tactile exploration: Encourage exploration of different textures using objects with varying surfaces.
Fine motor skill development:
- Hand-eye coordination: Scooping, pouring, and transferring objects require precise hand-eye coordination.
- Pincer grasp: Picking up small objects helps develop fine motor skills like the pincer grasp.
- Strength and dexterity: Manipulating containers and objects strengthens hand muscles and improves dexterity. Opening and closing containers can be a huge area of interest; how does the top screw back on, or off?
Cognitive development:
- Cause and effect: Children learn that their actions (e.g., pouring water or sand) have consequences (e.g., the water spills).
- Spatial awareness: They develop an understanding of concepts like inside, outside, full, empty, and over/under; also how big is the vessel and how much goes in before it’s full or spills over. How small is the vessel opening and what do I need to do to get the beads into the container.
- Problem-solving: Children learn to solve problems, such as how to get an object out of a narrow container or how to transfer water without spilling.
Social and emotional development:
- Communication: Container play can encourage communication as children interact with others, sharing toys and commenting on their actions. Asking for help to open and close a container is often a great opportunity to practise ‘help me’ or ‘open it’
- Turn-taking: Sharing containers and materials helps children learn to take turns and cooperate.
- Sensory regulation: For children with sensory sensitivities, container play can be a calming and self-regulating activity.
Tips for engaging children in container play:
- Create a safe and inviting environment. A shower curtain on the floor makes things easier for tidy up afterwards. And it allows for spillages.
- Provide a variety of containers: Use different sizes, shapes, and materials. Use containers that are visually interesting and pleasing, perhaps a festive biscuit tin, or a tin that looks like train engine. Use see-through containers at first which make the filling and emptying more obvious. This is important for children who have no previous experience with this type of play and need to ‘warm up’ to it. Once a child loves and is used to container play you can go wild with all types of containers.
- Offer a variety of objects: Include balls, blocks, sand, water, and other age-appropriate materials.
- Join in the fun! Start off the process, show your child what the joy of the activity is for yourself, how fun it is to fill and empty containers, provide enough containers for your child to start playing alongside you, and comment on their actions.
- Follow your child’s lead: Allow them to explore and experiment at their own pace.
- Adapt activities: Adjust the level of challenge based on your child’s abilities and interests.
Container play is a simple yet powerful tool that can support the overall development of young children, especially those with developmental delays. By providing a rich and engaging sensory experience, container play can help children build essential skills in motor, cognitive, social, and emotional domains.

If you have any questions or would like to have more in-depths demonstration of this or other play styles for your child please contact me.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Sonja McGeachie

Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

The London Speech and Feeding Practice

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