Bilingualism – should I speak only English with my speech delayed child?

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Introduction

Bilingualism is a beautiful aspect of our diverse world. Growing up in a bi- or multi-lingual household is a wonderful gift, allowing children to communicate with a broader range of people and access many cultures.

My own two children grew up in a bilingual German-English speaking household. They have both been so enriched by this experience, not only language- and learning-wise but of course also culturally: their world has always been so open and colourful. Growing up in inner London and having their German family and mum’s friends as well, this has been a wonderful experience. Both my boys speak German well (not quite like native speakers but like very good second language speakers) and both have very easily learned 3rd and 4th languages additionally when in secondary school.

Whilst bilingualism has untold benefits, it’s not uncommon for bilingual children to take slightly longer to reach certain speech milestones. This should not be automatically mistaken for speech disorders but rather seen as a natural part of bilingual language development.

Bilingualism and speech delays

Sometimes, of course, we do see speech delays or disorders where a child’s speech development lags significantly behind their peers. We often see a delay in both languages equally, making it extra hard for to communicate effectively. BUT PLEASE KNOW the family speaking in multi-lingual languages never caused the delay/disorder!

If there is a delay or a disorder any number of other reasons could have caused it, such as:

  • hearing impairments,
  • reduced phonological awareness,
  • sensory processing issues,
  • reduced attention and reduced joint attention,
  • neuro-developmental delays or difficulties,
  • general or specific learning difficulties
  • or sometimes other genetic factors.

So, to say that the difficulty is due to a child being exposed to several languages is a red herring. (no offence to herrings!)

Speech therapy

Speech therapy can be powerful to help bilingual /multilingual children with speech delays unlock their full linguistic potential. By providing individualised assessments, targeted interventions, and involving families, speech therapy can bridge the gap between speech delays and bilingualism. It’s essential for the therapist and parents to work together to support the children in their unique linguistic journeys, helping them communicate effectively and thrive in both of their languages.

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Speak your home language at home

Many parents report that they worry about speaking their home language at home and instead they have been focusing on just speaking English at home. They now rarely use their home language with their child. They fear that speaking a language other than English with their child will cause further delay and hinder their progress. All parents want the best for their child and often parents fear that their child won’t fit in or will be seen as ‘different’. So we can understand why parents feel that the English language is the only one worth having.

But the opposite is the case: it is crucial to speak in both languages freely, both at home and outside the home! Both languages will benefit your child, no matter what the delay or difficulty is. Acquiring a ‘mother tongue’ or native language is absolutely vital for children to have a good, solid linguistic grounding on which to build other languages. Bilingual children may mix languages during speaking and parents may equally mix their languages. This does not hinder language development and is a natural part of linguistic development.

Speak freely and naturally

What is far more important than the question: ‘which language should I say this in?’ Instead think: ‘let me speak freely and naturally, let me respond naturally, in good intonation and let communication flow freely to the child.’

Speech therapy can be a crucial resource for bilingual or multilingual children and their families.

We work on targeted interventions to address speech and language difficulties, helping your child develop essential communication skills. For home practice between therapy sessions, we can recommend tailored treatment plans to help you help your child in daily life. Our input could be focusing on articulation, phonological awareness, attention and listening, vocabulary development and grammar.

Family support is crucial in speech therapy. We like to work closely with parents to provide guidance and strategies for fostering language development in both languages at home.

If you have any worries about your child being delayed in a bilingual or multilingual household do get in touch and we will be happy to support you in your journey.


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    • Texture Time: BLW exposes your baby to a variety of textures right from the start. Think soft, steamed broccoli florets or smooth, banana half-slices. This sensory exploration helps them develop an understanding of different textures in the world, which can translate to better oral motor skills needed for speech development.
    • Independence: BLW fosters a sense of self-feeding independence. Your toddler learns to control how much he/she eats and the pace of his/her meal. This can lead to better self-regulation later on, not just with food, but in other areas of his/her development too.
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    In our story, the /T/ and the /R/ are older brother best friends who want to play together. The ‘schwa’ sound is represented by a little sister who keeps trying to jump in the middle of their game! Because my student has a younger sister, this scenario was instantly familiar and helped him visualise why we needed to ‘close the gap’ between those two sounds.

    Alternative methods I often use:

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    • The rubber band: We stretch a rubber band as we speak. I tell my student that the word is one long, smooth stretch, rather than two separate ‘pops’.
    • Visual cues for ‘quiet’ sounds: I often put my finger to my lips or tap my throat to remind a child to keep the first sound voiceless. If the voice stays ‘off’ during the /T/, it’s much harder for that schwa vowel to creep in.

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    To give your child a cleaner blueprint, try modeling ‘pure’ sounds. Think of whispering rather than talking:

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    • The /P/ sound: Just a ‘pop’ of air from the lips. If your throat vibrates, the vowel has snuck in.
    • The /T/ sound: A tiny tap of the tongue behind the teeth.

    Why is this important?

    You might ask, ‘If I can still understand them, does it really matter if they say “ter-ain”?

    The goal of speech therapy isn’t just functional communication; it’s building phonological awareness. When a child adds extra vowels, it can eventually impact their literacy. If they hear ‘ter-ain,’ they are much more likely to eventually spell it as ‘terain’ or ‘traint’.

    By helping them master these clusters through co-articulation now, we are setting them up for success in reading and writing. And we are giving them the confidence to speak with ease.

    Feel free to contact me if your child needs help with clusters or other difficulties either aligned with Childhood Apraxia of Speech or other articulation difficulties.

    Sonja McGeachie

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    References

    • Hall, N. (2011). Vowel Epenthesis. In The Blackwell Companion to Phonology (eds M. Oostendorp, C.J. Ewen, E. Hume and K. Rice). In this work, epenthesis is defined as the insertion of a vowel to break up complex consonant clusters into simpler, more manageable syllables. This is often viewed as a ‘repair strategy’ used by the brain when a transition between sounds is too complex to execute quickly.
    • Aichert, I., & Ziegler, W. (2004) Brain and Language 88(1):148-59. Syllable frequency and syllable structure in apraxia of speech. This research highlights that children with Apraxia often struggle specifically with word-onset clusters, leading to distortions like the schwa.
    • Browman, C. P., & Goldstein, L. (1992) Phonetica 1992;49(3-4):155-80. Articulatory Phonology: An Overview. This paper explains that fluent speech requires ‘gestural overlap,’ where the movements for two different sounds happen simultaneously. This supports the ‘Best Friends’ method of keeping sounds close together.

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    Gestalt Language Processors are often also Gestalt Cognitive Processors. This is when experiences are retained as episodic events and memories. An event is remembered by specific parts of the same event. And, therefore, these specific parts should always be part of that event, when the event is repeated.

    Should any of the specifics be changed or are missing, then this can cause great upset to Gestalt Cognitive Processors. So, for example, if the last two times in speech therapy we had the train set out and this was played with happily, then this becomes a specific part of the whole session. If, I then don’t offer the train set the third time a child comes to see me, this could be very upsetting.

    This is why I tend to try this out and see what happens. Usually in the 3rd or 4th session: I might not bring out the car run that has hitherto been super successful to see if we are able to transition well to other toys. If yes, then we can have new experiences but if not then I will re-offer the car run/or whatever toy pretty quickly so as not to cause complete dysregulation.

    A few pointers below which help with child-led play:

    Introduce a few new toys and see what happens

    Parents are encouraged to bring some familiar toys their child likes to the session. We can then introduce a couple of different toys to see how we go. Try offering a new toy alongside the familiar one; try offering new toys without the familiar one present, but be prepared to re-offer the “old” toy should our child get upset.

    Rotate toys and don’t offer out too many toys

    I find that children can get overwhelmed and overstimulated by too many items out all at once. I always talk to parents about toy rotation at home and I encourage storage and ‘tidy up’ of toys so that we can increase attention focus, and also maintain freshness and new interest in older toys.

    Some children are not yet ready to play with toys

    Here I suggest people games: these are games where the adult becomes part of a more motor-based activity. Some call it ‘rough and tumble play’ but it can be nursery rhymes such as sleeping bunnies/row row the boat or peek-a-boo for the younger ones.

    Copy/Imitation is so important – try getting two identical or similar play items

    When we are copying our child, it is often not desirable to ‘take turns’ with their toys/blogs/cars etc as our child may not be ready to let us take a turn. Instead, if we have the exact same toy that our child is having then we can play alongside our child and copy them perfectly without interrupting their play.

    References:

    Murray, D., Lesser, M., & Lawson, W. (2005). Attention, monotropism and the diagnostic criteria for autism. Autism9(2), 139-156.

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    Could mouth breathing be affecting your child's speech, sleep and development?

    Understanding Orofacial Myofunctional Disorders (OMDs)

    Many parents contact me at London Speech and Feeding because they are worried about their child’s speech. Perhaps their child is difficult to understand, has a persistent lisp, struggles with feeding, snores at night, or always seems to have their mouth open.

    What many families don’t realise is that these concerns may all be connected.

    Increasingly, research and clinical experience are highlighting the important role of Orofacial Myofunctional Health, the way the muscles of the face, mouth, tongue and airway work together to support breathing, eating, sleeping and communication.

    When these muscles are not functioning optimally, children may develop what are known as Orofacial Myofunctional Disorders (OMDs).

    What Is Orofacial Myofunctional Health?

    Orofacial Myofunctional Health refers to the healthy function and coordination of the:

    • lips
    • tongue
    • jaw
    • cheeks
    • facial muscles
    • airway.

    These structures play a vital role in:

    • breathing
    • swallowing
    • chewing
    • speaking
    • facial growth
    • dental development
    • sleep quality.

    When everything is working well, the lips remain gently closed at rest, breathing occurs through the nose, and the tongue rests against the roof of the mouth.

    This seemingly simple posture has a profound influence on how a child’s face, teeth and airway develop.

    What is an Orofacial Myofunctional Disorder?

    An Orofacial Myofunctional Disorder occurs when there is an abnormal pattern of muscle function involving the face, mouth, tongue or airway.

    Children with OMDs may experience difficulties with:

    • speech
    • feeding
    • swallowing
    • sleep
    • breathing
    • dental development
    • facial growth.

    In many cases, these difficulties are linked to chronic mouth breathing.

    Signs your child may have an Orofacial Myofunctional Disorder

    Breathing and sleep signs

    • mouth open at rest
    • mouth breathing during the day
    • snoring
    • noisy breathing
    • restless sleep
    • frequent waking
    • dark circles under the eyes
    • chronic congestion
    • fatigue despite a full night’s sleep.

    Speech signs

    • lisping
    • unclear speech
    • distorted speech sounds
    • difficulty producing certain sounds
    • persistent articulation difficulties
    • reduced speech intelligibility.

    Feeding and swallowing signs

    • picky eating
    • messy eating
    • food remaining in the cheeks
    • gagging easily
    • difficulty chewing
    • long mealtimes
    • tongue thrust swallowing.

    Facial and dental signs

    • narrow palate
    • crowded teeth
    • open bite
    • overbite
    • underbite
    • long face appearance
    • receding chin
    • poor lip seal.

    If several of these signs sound familiar, a comprehensive assessment may be worthwhile.

    Why does mouth breathing matter?

    Many parents assume mouth breathing is simply a habit.

    In reality, mouth breathing is often a symptom that something is preventing efficient nasal breathing.

    Common causes include:

    • enlarged tonsils
    • enlarged adenoids
    • allergies
    • chronic nasal congestion
    • recurrent infections
    • structural airway differences
    • tongue tie
    • prolonged dummy use
    • thumb sucking
    • poor oral posture.

    When nasal breathing becomes difficult, children naturally begin breathing through their mouths.

    Over time, this can affect how the face, jaws and airway develop.

    What does healthy oral posture look like?

    Healthy oral posture is surprisingly simple:

    • lips
      • gently closed
    • tongue
      • resting against the roof of the mouth
    • teeth
      • slightly apart
    • breathing
      • through the nose.

    This posture helps guide healthy jaw growth, facial development and airway formation.

    Think of the tongue as a natural orthodontic support system. When it rests in the correct position, it helps shape the upper jaw and supports healthy facial growth.

    The consequences of chronic mouth breathing

    1. Speech difficulties

    Children who breathe through their mouths often have altered tongue posture and reduced oral stability.

    This can contribute to:

    • lisping
    • distorted sounds
    • reduced speech clarity
    • difficulty learning new speech sounds.

    2. Feeding and swallowing difficulties

    A low tongue posture may affect:

    • chewing efficiency
    • swallowing patterns
    • food management
    • oral motor coordination.

    Many children develop a tongue thrust swallow, where the tongue pushes forward instead of moving efficiently during swallowing.

    3. Poor sleep quality

    Mouth breathing can contribute to:

    • snoring
    • restless sleep
    • frequent waking
    • daytime fatigue
    • reduced concentration.

    Poor sleep can have a significant impact on learning, behaviour and emotional regulation.

    4. Changes to facial growth

    Over time, chronic mouth breathing may influence:

    • jaw development
    • facial proportions
    • dental alignment
    • airway size.

    This can result in:

    • narrow palates
    • crowded teeth
    • long facial appearance
    • increased orthodontic needs.

    5. Oral health concerns

    The nose acts as a natural filter and humidifier.

    When children breathe through their mouths:

    • The mouth becomes dry.
    • Saliva protection is reduced.
    • Risk of tooth decay increases.
    • Gum health may be affected.

    Why this matters for speech therapy

    Speech does not develop in isolation.

    The tongue, lips, jaw and airway work together to support clear communication.

    At London Speech and Feeding, we look beyond speech sounds alone.

    A child who presents with:

    • persistent speech difficulties
    • lisping
    • feeding challenges
    • open mouth posture
    • snoring
    • poor sleep

    may benefit from an assessment that explores underlying orofacial myofunctional factors.

    Addressing these foundations can often support more effective progress in speech and feeding therapy.

    How London Speech and Feeding can help

    A comprehensive assessment may include observation of:

    • breathing patterns
    • lip posture
    • tongue posture
    • swallowing function
    • feeding skills
    • speech sound development
    • sleep concerns
    • oral structures.

    Where appropriate, recommendations may include:

    • orofacial myofunctional therapy
    • speech therapy
    • feeding therapy
    • home programmes
    • ENT referral
    • orthodontic referral
    • collaborative multidisciplinary support.

    The good news

    Orofacial Myofunctional Disorders are often highly treatable when identified early.

    Supporting healthy breathing, tongue posture and oral muscle function can positively influence:

    If your child regularly breathes through their mouth, snores, struggles with speech clarity or has feeding difficulties, a specialist assessment may help identify the underlying cause.

    • speech clarity
    • feeding skills
    • sleep quality
    • facial growth
    • dental development
    • overall wellbeing.

    At London Speech and Feeding, we are passionate about looking beyond symptoms and understanding the whole child. Contact me!

    Sometimes the key to clearer speech starts with a simple question:

    ‘Is my child breathing through their nose?’

    Sonja McGeachie

    Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

    Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.

    Frequently Asked Questions

    Can mouth breathing cause speech problems?

    Yes. Mouth breathing can alter tongue posture, lip strength and oral stability, which may contribute to articulation difficulties and lisps.

    Should I be worried if my child snores?

    Regular snoring is not considered normal in children and may indicate airway obstruction or sleep-disordered breathing.

    Can enlarged tonsils affect speech?

    Yes. Enlarged tonsils may affect resonance, tongue positioning, swallowing and breathing patterns.

    What age can children be assessed?

    Children of all ages can be assessed if parents have concerns about speech, feeding, breathing or oral development.

    What is Orofacial Myofunctional Therapy?

    Orofacial Myofunctional Therapy focuses on improving breathing patterns, tongue posture, lip seal and oral muscle function to support overall health and development.


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