The tricky /R/: Mastering tongue placement for clear speech

The /R/ sound is notoriously challenging for many children (and even some adults!). It’s one of the most complex sounds in the English language, with various pronunciations depending on its position in a word. If your child is struggling with their /R/s, you’re not alone. As Speech and Language Therapists (SLTs), we frequently work on this sound, and a key component of our therapy is focusing on proper tongue placement.

Why is the /R/ so difficult?

The /R/ sound requires precise coordination of the tongue, jaw, and lips. Unlike sounds like /P/ or /B/ that involve simple lip movements, the /R/ involves intricate tongue movements and tension. There are also different ways to produce the /R/ sound, which adds to the complexity:

  • Retroflex /R/: The tongue tip curls up and back towards the roof of the mouth.
  • Bunched /R/: The body of the tongue bunches up towards the roof of the mouth, while the tongue tip remains down.

The importance of tongue placement

Regardless of which /R/ variation is being targeted, accurate tongue placement is crucial. Even a slight deviation can result in a distorted or inaccurate sound. That’s why SLTs dedicate significant time to teaching and practising tongue positioning.

Speech therapy techniques: Focusing on the tongue

Here’s a glimpse into how I address /R/ sound difficulties, with a focus on tongue placement:

  • Visual aids:
    • Mirrors: I use a mirror to help children see their tongue movements and make adjustments.
    • Tongue diagrams and models: These visual tools provide a clear representation of where the tongue should be positioned.
  • Tactile cues:
    • Tongue depressors: These can be used to gently guide the tongue into the correct position.
    • Food-grade tools: Sometimes, I use flavoured tongue depressors or other tools to provide tactile feedback and increase awareness of tongue placement.
  • Auditory discrimination:
    • I help children distinguish between correct and incorrect /R/ sounds.
    • I use auditory cues and verbal feedback to reinforce proper pronunciation.
  • Exercises and drills:
    • Tongue strengthening exercises: Strengthening the tongue muscles can improve control and coordination.
    • Tongue placement drills: We practise positioning the tongue in the desired location and holding it there.
    • Sound approximation techniques: Sometimes we use other sounds to help approximate the /R/ sound. For example, I use the /L/ sound, to help achieve the correct tongue placement. Once my child has found the /L/ sound it is then a matter of pulling back just slightly to get a good /R/.
  • Contextual practice:
    • Once the child can produce the /R/ sound in isolation, we gradually introduce it into syllables, words, phrases, and sentences.
    • We also practise the /R/ sound in different contexts, such as at the beginning, middle, and end of words.

Tips for Parents:

  • Be patient and supportive: Learning the /R/ sound takes time and practice.
  • Practise regularly: Short, frequent practice sessions are more effective than long, infrequent ones.
  • Make it fun! Use games, stories, and other engaging activities to keep your child motivated.
  • Work with an SLT: A qualified SLT can provide personalised guidance and support.

In conclusion:

The /R/ sound can be challenging, but with targeted speech therapy and a focus on tongue placement, most children can achieve clear and accurate pronunciation.

I hope this blog post is helpful!

Get in touch with me via my contact form if you need support

Sonja McGeachie

Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

The London Speech and Feeding Practice


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    Three-syllable words made fun: How I use play to build speech skills

    Why spend time on syllables?

    Sounds have to be organised into syllables, words and phrases. A child needs to coordinate these parts to produce longer words successfully.

    This can be particularly relevant for children who:

    • leave out parts of longer words
    • simplify multisyllabic words
    • have reduced speech intelligibility
    • have phonological difficulties
    • have difficulty remembering or organising the sound sequence in a word
    • have suspected or diagnosed Childhood Apraxia of Speech (CAS)
    • find longer or more complex words particularly difficult.

    For children with speech sound disorders, phonological awareness is important because speech sound development and awareness of the sound structure of words are connected areas of development.

    When creating new habits, new motor plans,new anything repetition is important!

    But the way we get to that repetition can be playful and creative.

    Today I give you a little window into one of my recent speech therapy sessions. I was working on three-syllable words, words such as ladybird, butterfly and other longer words that contain three ‘beats’.

    I used five very simple activities:

    • playdough
    • two different versions of Snap
    • an online activity
    • stickers.

    None of these activities are complicated or expensive. What matters is how the activity is being used and what the child is practising within it.

    Video examples

    Here are five little clips from the session so you can see what I mean.

    Squashing the syllables with playdough

    In my first clip, you can see me using three blobs of playdough with picture cards.

    The child places or squashes one blob onto each part of the word.

    For example:

    LA – DY – BIRD

    Three blobs. Three beats.

    This gives the child something very concrete to see and feel while they are listening to the word.

    We can squash:

    • 🟢 LA
    • 🟢 DY
    • 🟢 BIRD

    And then say the whole word: LADYBIRD.

    Next came Snap.

    I used cards containing the target words and played two different versions of the game.

    This is where something very simple becomes surprisingly useful.

    The child isn’t just practising ‘ladybird, ladybird, ladybird…’

    Instead, they are playing a game.

    They have to look. They have to listen. They have to wait. They take a turn.

    And, importantly, they have a reason to say the word.

    When a card appears, we can practise the three syllables: LA – DY – BIRD

    Then we might say it again naturally: ‘I got ladybird!’

    This gives us repeated opportunities to practise the target word while keeping the activity meaningful.

    Taking the practice online

    The fourth clip shows an online activity.

    Here, the online pictures provide another opportunity to look at a picture, identify the word and break it into its three syllables.

    My child taps each syllable.

    Thun-der-storm

    👏 👏 👏

    The visual presentation can be particularly helpful for children who benefit from seeing exactly what we are talking about.

    And we can move between levels of difficulty.

    First:

    How many beats can you hear?

    Then:

    Can you say the word with me?

    Then:

    Can you say it by yourself?

    That progression is important. We build the steps.

    This time, I used a sticker sheet

    We practise:

    TAKE – IT – OFF

    👏 👏 👏

    Three syllables.

    And then we can reverse the action:

    PUT – IT – ON

    👏 👏 👏

    Three syllables again.

    This is a lovely example of why I like to work on speech within real actions and little phrases, rather than only isolated words.

    The child has an actual reason to communicate.

    They want the sticker. They want to take it off. They want to put it somewhere.

    And suddenly our three-syllable practice is also helping with:

    • verbs
    • little phrases
    • following an action
    • understanding language
    • turn-taking
    • functional communication.

    So although my clinical focus might be syllable structure and speech production, I am still thinking about the whole child and the whole communication experience.

    And eventually we want those words to become part of everyday communication rather than something that only happens during therapy.

    That is the real goal.

    A little bit of research

    A useful recent article by Brosseau-Lapré and Roepke (2024) looked at phonological awareness skills in preschool children with speech sound disorders. Through three case studies, the authors highlighted that children with speech sound disorders can have very different profiles of phonological and pre-literacy skills, and that children with more atypical and omission-type speech errors were more likely to show phonological awareness difficulties.

    It is another reminder that speech development is wonderfully complex, and that sometimes a seemingly simple activity, such as putting three blobs of playdough onto a picture, can have a very specific clinical purpose behind it.

    If you are concerned about your child’s speech, a speech and language therapist can help identify whether the difficulty is primarily related to speech sounds, phonological patterns, syllable structure, motor planning, language development, or a combination of factors.

    Any questions please contact me via my contact form.

    Sonja McGeachie

    Sonja McGeachie

    Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

    Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.


    Health Professions Council registered
    Royal College of Speech & Language Therapists Member
    Member of ASLTIP

    Find a speech and language therapist for your child in London. Are you concerned about your child’s speech, feeding or communication skills and don’t know where to turn? Please contact me and we can discuss how I can help you or visit my services page.

    Reference

    Brosseau-Lapré, Françoise & Roepke, Elizabeth. (2024). Beyond Sounds: Decoding Speech Errors and Phonological Awareness in Preschoolers. Perspectives of the ASHA Special Interest Groups. 9. 922-934. 10.1044/2024_PERSP-24-00001.

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  • The art of selective care: My journey as a semi-retired private therapist

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    This realisation led to a significant change in my practice. I am now at a point in my career where my time is both valuable and precious. It is no longer a commodity to be filled, but a resource to be invested wisely. This doesn’t just apply to my personal life, but to my professional life as well. I’ve chosen to be more selective about the clients I see, and this selectivity is rooted in a single, powerful question: ‘Who can I truly, profoundly help?’

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    My fees reflect this deep investment. You will find that my rates are higher than those of many other therapists, and I want to be transparent about why. It’s a reflection of the extensive experience I bring to the table. I have spent years honing my skills, navigating complex cases, and developing a unique, effective approach to speech, language and feeding challenges. This is not just a job for me. It is my life’s work, and I honour the value of that expertise and the time I dedicate to each family.

    I want to ensure that every minute you spend with me is productive, focused, and truly transformative. Therefore, I provide a ‘boutique style’ of care. Think of it as an exclusive, personalised experience where every detail is considered and your needs are at the forefront. You won’t feel like you’re just another appointment on a long list. You will feel that you have my full, undivided attention, as if you were my only client.

    This means less time spent on administrative tasks and more time dedicated to preparing for your sessions, reflecting on our progress, and providing you with the most thoughtful, tailored support possible. It means an environment of calm and focused expertise, where we can truly dive deep into the specific challenges and build a clear, effective path forward.

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    For parents reading this, I hope this provides a new perspective. Choosing a therapist for your child is one of the most important decisions you can make. It’s about finding not just a professional, but a partner. I want you to feel that, if we choose to work together, you are entering into a unique partnership where your child’s growth is my singular focus.

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    One of the most common pieces of advice parents hear when their child starts using AAC is: ‘Just model the words naturally.’

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    But there is something we don’t always talk about: How on earth is a parent supposed to model a word naturally when they are still trying to work out where the word is themselves?

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    • FARM ANIMALS: finding the animal category
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    • ON: putting the sticker onto the book

    At first, I am quite explicit about what I am doing.

    I might draw attention to the relevant button, help the child navigate to it, talk through what we are looking for and practise finding the word several times.

    This is more didactic and structured than the idealised picture some people have of AAC modelling.

    And I am completely comfortable with that at the beginning.

    Why start so explicitly?

    Imagine that you are given a brand-new device containing hundreds or thousands of words.

    Someone tells you: ‘Don’t worry. Just use it naturally.’

    You might manage to find a few obvious words.

    But when you are suddenly standing in the kitchen taking your child’s coat off and want to say ‘OFFS, you may have absolutely no idea where to look.

    That is exactly why I think parents sometimes need permission to learn the system in a supported way.

    The structured activity creates a safe environment where we can stop and think:

    • Where is that word?
    • How do I get there?
    • What does this word do?
    • What happens when I press it?

    We can practise it more than once.

    We can repeat it.

    And gradually, the route to that word becomes familiar.

    AAC systems are not simply devices that children need to learn. Communication partners need to learn them too. All the AAC research highlights partner training as an important part of AAC intervention and notes that intervention initially includes helping the individual and their family or carers develop operational competence with the system.

    From structured practice to everyday life

    And this is where the useful transfer can happen.

    Take the word OFF.

    In our sticker activity, we may practise:

    ‘OFFS

    ‘OFFS

    ‘OFF’

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    We use the word again.

    After several opportunities, the parent has not only seen their child use the word, the parent now knows where the word lives too.

    Then later that day, they are taking their child’s coat off.

    Suddenly:

    ‘OFF!’

    And they know exactly where to find it.

    The same thing might happen with ON.

    Once the parent has practised finding ON several times during play, it becomes much easier to spot opportunities for it during the day:

    ‘Shoes ON.’

    ‘Lights ON.’

    ‘Music ON.’

    ‘Hat ON.’

    ‘Tap ON.’

    This is one of the reasons I like structured AAC activities. They are not necessarily the final goal.

    They can be the rehearsal space that gives parents and children enough confidence to use AAC in real life.

    Natural modelling is still the goal

    This doesn’t mean that I want parents spending their whole day sitting beside their child and directing them towards buttons.

    Quite the opposite.

    The aim is to gradually move towards a much more natural style of AAC use.

    Once parents know their way around the system, they can begin to model words spontaneously as they occur in everyday interactions.

    Research into aided AAC modelling describes adults using AAC alongside speech within meaningful activities, and evidence supports the use of aided input as part of AAC intervention.

    But getting there may take teaching, repetition, practice and coaching.

    And that’s okay.

    It is not about making the child press the button

    There is another important distinction here.

    When I say that I may initially be more explicit or ‘direct’ during an activity, I do not mean that I am trying to make a child perform the correct response.

    I am not interested in turning AAC into a test.

    I am not continually asking:

    ‘Where’s HORSE?’

    ‘Find SHEEP.’

    ‘Show me CHICK.’

    Instead, I am helping the child and parent become familiar with the system.

    I might point, gesture, navigate, model the word and repeat it within a meaningful activity.

    As confidence grows, the support can be reduced so that the child has increasing opportunity to locate and use the language themselves.

    My second video clip shows a child using their own LAMP Words for Life system at home, accessing a category they have chosen which is FOOD.

    This is what I love about AAC.

    The device isn’t just being used in the therapy room.

    It becomes part of the child’s own life.

    And the child is using it around their own interests and choices.

    That is the direction I want families to move towards:

    From ‘I don’t know where anything is!’ to ‘I know where some useful words are.’

    Then ‘I can use those words during our everyday routines.’

    And eventually: ‘This is my communication system, and I can use it to tell you what I think, want, notice, enjoy, reject and choose.’

    Parents don’t have to get it perfect

    This is perhaps the biggest message I would like parents to take away.

    You do not have to become an AAC expert overnight.

    You are learning too.

    It is completely reasonable for a parent to need time to become familiar with the layout, vocabulary and navigation of their child’s system.

    Learn it. Practise it. Model it. Then take it into real life.

    Any questions please contact me via my contact form.

    Sonja McGeachie

    Sonja McGeachie

    Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

    Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.


    Health Professions Council registered
    Royal College of Speech & Language Therapists Member
    Member of ASLTIP

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    Correcting a lisp

    Correcting A Lisp

    This is a surprisingly common speech error and it can be corrected really well in my experience. I have helped lots of children of all ages learn how to control their tongue movements and produce clear, sharp /S/ sounds and good /SH/ sounds.

    Initial consideration

    There are some factors which need to be considered before we can dive into therapy proper and these are they, in a nutshell:

    1. The student is not currently displaying negative oral habits such as thumb sucking or excessive sucking on clothing. This is because thumb sucking exerts pressure on the teeth and therefore can, over time, push teeth out of their natural order/position.
    2. The student does not have a restricted lingual frenulum or tongue tie which can cause at times restricted movements of the tongue (pending on how tight the frenulum is attaching the tongue to the base of the oral cavity); equally a labial frenulum or lip-tie can restrict lip movement and therefore physically restrict good speech sound production.
    3. The student does not have enlarged tonsils as they can sometimes push a tongue forward and also cause open mouth posture and open mouth breathing.
    4. The student’s motivation to change their speech pattern is high. (this is an important factor though with younger students I can get round this with a lot of fun games and good parental involvement!)

    When I do an Oral Assessment of my student these are the first factors I want to look at and consider. Often I will refer to other agencies such as Orthodontists, dentists or ENT specialists to advise and help with some of these factors before we can get going. However, there are strategies that we can work on almost straight away.

    Most of my Lisp students present with an open mouth posture: that is where the student has their mouth always slightly open for breathing. Over time the tongue starts to fall forward and rests on the front teeth or the bottom lip instead of finding a comfortable resting place either at the alveolar ridge (the bumpy spot behind the upper front teeth) or, alternatively, resting at the bottom of the mouth behind the lower front teeth.

    Another common problem is that the tongue is not moving independently from the jaw and so is reluctant to pull back or lift up inside the mouth as the tongue is guided in movement by the jaw.

    Combine those two factors and your tongue is not pulling back, or lifting up or doing very much at all without the jaw moving as well. This makes for unclear speech sounds, especially all the sounds we make at the front with our tongue or with our lips: /B/ /P/ /L/ /N/ and of course /S/ and /SH/ are particularly hard to make. We often also struggle with the /Y/ sound so ‘LELLOW’ instead of ‘yellow’.

    Do not fear!

    But no fear, these problems can be treated over time for sure! We often start with lip, tongue, and jaw exercises that help to move the tongue independently from the Jaw, our student learns that the tongue is a muscle and can be trained to do amazing acrobatic things in the mouth! WOW! It can actually pull back, lift up, and come down again all on its own!

    We work on breathing, holding our breath for a bit then pushing it out and then holding it again.

    And when it comes to the actual /S/ sound I often try and go a NEW route bypassing the Snake-Sound route if that is what had previously been tried and failed so that we can create completely new sound patterns in our brain and think about our sounds in a completely new way.

    We then work on producing the sound /S/ on its own for a bit, at the end of words, then on either side of complimentary sounds, for instance : ‘EASY” – the sound patterns here are EEE-S–EE : the /EEE/ sound is complimentary to the /S/ sound as the tongue is at the right hight for the /S/ already once you have it in place for /EEE/ -……see?! EASY!

    And gradually we work towards saying the /S/ sound clearly at the front of short words, then phrases and then sentences.

    The process takes some time and it depends on how ready the student is. This varies of course hugely so I can never promise the exact number of sessions we will take to get that Lisp fixed. A lot depends on home practice in between sessions, and this is of course crucial to all therapy! Every day 15-20 mins practice is a good average time to aim for and when this is done it shortens the therapy block drastically.

    I always give plenty of home work so there is never a chance of it getting boring or there being “nothing to do”!

    Do contact me. I really enjoy working with this type of student and get a great kick out of FIXING THAT LISP!


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    Unlocking language and thinking skills: The power of sequencing

    Sonja demonstrates the power of sequencing

    As speech and language therapists, we often use a variety of techniques to help children develop their communication and cognitive skills. One incredibly valuable tool in our toolkit is the use of sequencing activities. But what exactly is sequencing, and why is it so beneficial?

    What is sequencing?

    Sequencing, at its core, involves arranging items, events, or actions in a specific order. This could involve putting pictures in the correct order to tell a story, following the steps in a recipe, or understanding the order of daily routines like brushing teeth or getting dressed.

    The link between sequencing and language

    Sequencing is fundamental to language development and is quintessential to executive functioning skills in several ways:

    • Narrative skills: Storytelling, whether oral or written, relies heavily on sequencing. A child needs to understand the order of events (beginning, middle, end) to construct a coherent narrative.
    • Explanations and instructions: Providing clear explanations or instructions requires the ability to sequence information logically. For example, explaining how to play a game or how to get from one place to another. In the video clip below we are working on ‘how do make a sandwich’.
    • Vocabulary development: Sequencing helps children understand temporal words and phrases like ‘first,’ ‘then,’ ‘next,’ ‘before,’ and ‘after’.
    • Sentence structure: Constructing grammatically correct sentences often involves sequencing words in a specific order (e.g., subject-verb-object).

    Beyond language, sequencing plays a crucial role in developing executive functioning skills. These are higher-level cognitive skills that help us plan, organise, and manage our time and actions.

    Sequencing activities can help children improve in the following areas:

    • Planning and organisation: Sequencing tasks require children to think ahead, plan the steps involved, and organise them in a logical order.
    • Problem-solving: When they are faced with a problem, sequencing helps children break it down into smaller, more manageable steps.
    • Working memory: Holding information in mind and manipulating it, such as remembering the steps in a multi-step direction, is supported by sequencing skills.
    • Cognitive flexibility: Being able to adjust to changes in a sequence or think of alternative sequences promotes cognitive flexibility.

    Examples of sequencing activities

    Here are some practical examples of sequencing activities you can do with your child:

    • Picture sequencing: Use a set of picture cards to tell a short story or illustrate a process (e.g., making a sandwich, going to the park). Ask your child to arrange the cards in the correct order.
    • Story retelling: After reading a story, have your child retell it, focusing on the order of events.
    • Following instructions: Give your child multi-step instructions to follow (e.g., ‘First, get your shoes. Then, put on your coat. Next, go to the door.’).
    • Sequencing during play: Integrate sequencing into everyday play. For example, while building with blocks, talk about the steps: ‘First, we put this block here. Next, we add this one…’
    • Daily routines: Create visual schedules for daily routines, like getting ready for school or bedtime, to help children understand the sequence of events.
    • In the video clip below I am using an on-line language activity which is often fun for children as they can use their finger to swipe the pictures effortlessly into the right place and, if we realise at the end of the story that we have made a little error, we can then easily re-jig the pictures into their correct place.

    In conclusion

    Sequencing activities offer a powerful way to support children’s language development and enhance their executive functioning skills. By helping children understand and create order, we equip them with essential tools for communicating, learning, and navigating the world around them.

    Do get in touch via my contact form if you are concerned about your child’s development.

    Sonja McGeachie

    Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

    Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.


    Health Professions Council registered
    Royal College of Speech & Language Therapists Member
    Member of ASLTIP

    Find a speech and language therapist for your child in London. Are you concerned about your child’s speech, feeding or communication skills and don’t know where to turn? Please contact me and we can discuss how I can help you or visit my services page.

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    Ten games to support communication in primary school aged children

    When parents visit me with their child, their stress is palpable. Often parents don’t relish or even expect to be asked to practise strategies at home with their child between sessions. Let alone to practise whilst on holiday. I understand that you don’t necessarily want anything extra added to your daily ‘to do’ lists. This is why we try our best to incorporate all speech and language therapy practice into children’s daily activities.

    For example:

    1. during bath time;
    2. mealtimes;
    3. getting ready for bedtime;
    4. story time
    5. yes, playtime!

    These are activities that all parents will engage with anyway, so it seems to make sense to incorporate both. This is to avoid adding extra pressure on parents’ already stressful and time-poor daily lives. I am hoping my blog will come in handy, especially for the summer holidays.

    On holiday you are unlikely to have your usual games and toys with you – so here is a nice little list of things you can use instead of traditional games and toys:

    If you can think of any other alternatives on holiday and would like to tell me about them, I would love to see your comments below. We can never have too many holiday games!!

    If you are at home over the summer and you do have some games in the cupboard you might want to dust these ones down or buy one or two new ones (if you want to).

    Most games have multiple uses, and it’s always best to adapt a game to match your child’s interests and what motivates them.

    So let’s start…

    1. Pop up pirate: pop a sword into the barrel and watch the pirate pop up randomly. Practise social skills, speech sounds, expressive language (e.g., put a sword on a picture, say the word/sentence then pick up the sword and push it into the barrel).
    2. Word games such as ‘ISpy’, ‘I went to the shop and I bought…’, ‘describe a person and guess who they are’: perfect for when you’re on the move, whether travelling or walking. You can play this anywhere and still support speech, language and communication. You could play ISpy using your child’s special sound, or ‘I went to the shop and bought all things beginning with [insert special sound here]’.
    3. Shopping list: Orchard game is a game to practise categorising. We explain the analogy of the brain being like a filing cabinet. If information is all in the correct place, it’s easier to find, retrieve and use. You can also practise specific speech sounds in this activity. You could also put the words in a sentence to add more of an expressive language element.
    4. Wiggly worms: this Orchard game is all about phonological (awareness of sounds) awareness. Matching a letter with the word. You can also practise the sounds in the words (e.g, g-o-l-d = gold; m-a-ke = make). Talk about the elements, e.g., ‘g-o-l-d’ has 4 sounds, 1 syllable; ‘m-a-ke has 3 sounds, one syllable. You can talk about what words rhyme with the different words and what makes a rhyming word (i.e., the middle and end sounds remain the same).
    5. Sound detectives: this Orchard game allows children to identify sounds. It also has an app (if your child prefers a tech-way of learning). Children identify the sound then they can add the picture card to their path and become closer to being a successful detective. This game can also support memory skills.
    6. Conversation cubes: throw the dice and start building a story. You can also create and use ‘colourful semantics’ sentence strips to support expressive (spoken) language as support to build the narrative.
    7. Think words: ‘name it, press it, pass it’. A great game to expand word knowledge. You can talk about the words at the end of each round exploring semantic (meanings) and phonemic (sounds) links. Your child can also develop social skills (such as attention, listening and turn-taking).
    8. Poo bingo: this is perfectly disgusting but equally fun for kids of about 3.5 years plus – if your child’s target is to practise /p/ sound this is the one for you. You can also learn all about the different animal’s poo, which I am sure you have always wanted to do!! The more we know about a word, the easier it is to store, retrieve and use. Yes, even talking about poo can help!! Also, it’s great for our visual learners.
    9. Simon says: a game that can be played indoors or outdoors. Parents can take turns being “Simon” and give various commands that your child must follow. This means that your child can practise their receptive (understanding of) language as well as their expressive language, speech sounds and social skills (such as turn-taking and initiating).
    10. Ker-plunk: this is perfect for practising your child’s special sound. Repetition is very important, but also can be monotonous, so finding a game that they enjoy is vital. Take turns to pull out a stick. Next, your child can either say their special sound or word (depending on what stage they are at) or hear a good model from other players.

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