Principles of motor learning in childhood apraxia of speech: A guide for parents and therapists

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Childhood Apraxia of Speech (CAS) is a complex neurological disorder that affects a child’s ability to plan and coordinate the movements necessary for speech production. Children with CAS often have difficulty with articulation, prosody, and fluency, making it challenging for them to communicate effectively. While there is no cure for CAS, speech and language therapy can significantly improve a child’s communication skills and overall quality of life. Understanding the principles of motor learning is crucial for both parents and speech therapists to support children with CAS on their speech journey.

What is MOTOR LEARNING?

Motor learning refers to the process of acquiring and refining new skills through practice and experience. This applies to all aspects of movement, including speech production. The brain constantly receives sensory information about the movements being made and adjusts them based on the desired outcome. A breakdown or interruption of this process can make it difficult for children to plan, sequence, and coordinate the intricate movements involved in speech.

What key principles do we use in speech and language therapy for motor learning?

  • Task Specificity: Speech Therapy activities that directly target the specific speech sounds or skills your child is working on. For example, if your child is struggling with /p/, practising isolated /p/ sounds, words with /p/, and phrases with /p/ would be most beneficial.
  • Massed vs. Distributed Practice: We consider the optimal amount and distribution of practice sessions throughout the day. Massed practice involves concentrated practice in a single session, while distributed practice spreads practice sessions throughout the day. The best approach depends on the individual child’s learning style and attention span.
  • Feedback: We provide clear and immediate feedback to help your child understand the accuracy and effectiveness of their attempts. This feedback can be auditory, visual, or touch based.
  • Error Correction: We aim to gently correct errors so that we can help your child refine their movements and avoid developing bad habits. The focus is on providing specific cues and guidance rather than simply pointing out mistakes.
  • Variety and Progression: We gradually introduce new challenges and variations in speech therapy activities to prevent plateaus and maintain motivation.
  • Motivation and Engagement: A big part of our work is to make therapy sessions fun and engaging to keep your child motivated and actively participating. We use games, songs, and activities that your child enjoys while incorporating targeted practice opportunities.

What about home work?

Yes we need your help and here are some examples of how this could look:

  • Task Specificity: During story time, focus on practising target sounds present in the story. Have your child repeat words or phrases containing the sound and encourage them to identify the sound in other words.
  • Massed vs. Distributed Practice: Instead of one long practice session, try shorter, more frequent sessions throughout the day. This can help maintain focus and prevent fatigue. It is recommended to go for 100 repetitions of the target sound per day, every day in between the sessions. We can decide together how you can best do that through either massed or distributed practice. We can decide after the session.
  • Feedback: Use a mirror to provide visual feedback on lip and tongue placement during sound production. Record the child’s speech and play it back to help them self-monitor their accuracy.

I quite like this mirror below but any table top mirror will work as long as it is not too small. Your child should see their whole face easily.

tabletop mirror
  • Error Correction: If the child makes an error, gently model the correct sound or movement without shaming or criticising. Provide specific cues such as ‘lips together’ for /p/ or ‘tongue up’ for /t/.
  • Variety and Progression: We will guide you on exactly what words to practise so this is something you need not worry about.
  • Motivation and Engagement: Use games, songs, and activities that your child enjoys. Play a game of ‘I Spy’ focusing on words with the target sound or create silly sentences with the sound to make practice fun.

Let’s work together!

It is crucial for parents, therapists, and other caregivers to work collaboratively to ensure a consistent and comprehensive approach to supporting your child’s speech development. Speech and Language Therapists can provide guidance and resources on implementing these principles at home, while parents can share observations and progress updates to inform therapy sessions.

Remember, every child with CAS learns at their own pace. By understanding and applying the principles of motor learning, parents and speech therapists can create a supportive and stimulating environment that empowers children with CAS to reach their full communication potential.

Do get in touch if you would like some in-person or on-line 1:1 support with this. It can be overwhelming to figure it all out alone.

Find a speech and language therapist for your child in London. Are you concerned about your child’s speech, feeding or communication skills and don’t know where to turn? Please contact me and we can discuss how I can help you or visit my services page.

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    Feeding therapy: A guide for parents and caregivers

    ByLondon Speech and Feeding
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    Feeding therapy is a specialised form of therapy and support that helps children develop healthy eating habits and overcome challenges related to food. It’s often used for children with picky eating, feeding disorders, or sensory processing issues.

    What is feeding therapy?

    Feeding therapy involves a series of techniques designed to improve a child’s eating skills and attitudes towards food. In the UK it’s typically provided by speech and language therapists and dietitians. These professionals work closely with parents and caregivers to create a personalised treatment plan tailored to each child’s unique needs.

    How does feeding therapy work?

    Feeding therapy sessions are typically 30–60 minutes long and involve a variety of techniques, including:

    • Family counselling: Providing support and guidance to parents and caregivers. This can help address any practical, behavioural and emotional issues that may be impacting the child’s eating.
    • Play-based activities: Engaging children in fun activities while introducing new foods or textures. This can help alleviate anxiety and make mealtimes more enjoyable.
    • Sensory exploration: Helping children become more comfortable with different tastes, smells, and textures. This can be achieved through activities like touching, smelling, and tasting various foods.
    • Oral motor exercises: Improving chewing, swallowing, and lip coordination. These exercises can help children develop the necessary skills for eating independently.
    • Behavioural techniques: Using positive reinforcement to encourage healthy eating habits. This can involve rewarding children for trying new foods or eating a variety of meals.

    When is feeding therapy needed?

    Feeding therapy may be beneficial for children who:

    • Are picky eaters: Refuse to eat a variety of foods or have strong preferences.
    • Have feeding disorders: Experience difficulties with eating, such as swallowing or chewing.
    • Have sensory processing issues: Are sensitive to certain textures, smells, or tastes.
    • Have medical conditions: Such as autism, cerebral palsy, or gastrointestinal disorders.

    Feeding therapy strategies you can try at home

    While professional feeding therapy can be invaluable, there are several techniques you can try at home to support your child’s eating development:

    • Create a positive mealtime environment: Make mealtimes enjoyable and stress-free by avoiding distractions, limiting screen time, and creating a calm atmosphere.
    • Create regular mealtimes and mealtime routines: Introduce set ways of announcing meal times, including songs or short nursery rhymes, try and involve your child with table setting, even just carrying their spoon to the table and putting the beaker next to the plate and ensure that meal time finishes after about 30 minutes, again with a set routine so that the child always knows: this is how we do it in our home, now I am finished and meal time is over.
    • Introduce new foods gradually: Start with small amounts and gradually increase exposure. This can help reduce anxiety and make new foods less overwhelming.
    • Model healthy eating: Show your child how to enjoy a variety of foods by eating a balanced diet yourself.
    • Avoid forcing food: Allow your child to choose and explore foods at their own pace. Forcing them to eat can create negative associations with food.

    Seek professional help

    If you’re concerned about your child’s eating habits, consult with a feeding therapist. We can provide guidance and support.

    Remember, feeding therapy is a collaborative process between parents, caregivers, and professionals. With patience, understanding, and the right strategies, you can help your child develop healthy eating habits and enjoy meals.

    Would you like to know more about specific techniques or have any other questions about feeding therapy?

    Please feel free to contact me.

    Sonja McGeachie

    Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

    Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

    The London Speech and Feeding Practice

    Find a speech and language therapist for your child in London. Are you concerned about your child’s speech, feeding or communication skills and don’t know where to turn? Please contact me and we can discuss how I can help you or visit my services page.

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    When AAC modelling doesn’t feel natural yet: Helping parents learn to use their chosen AAC system

    ByLondon Speech and Feeding

    One of the most common pieces of advice parents hear when their child starts using AAC is: ‘Just model the words naturally.’

    And, yes, natural modelling is an important part of AAC support.

    But there is something we don’t always talk about: How on earth is a parent supposed to model a word naturally when they are still trying to work out where the word is themselves?

    Using a robust AAC system such as LAMP Words for Life can feel a little like learning a new language.

    The parent is learning the language at the same time as the child they are hoping to teach it to.

    So, although I absolutely want AAC to become part of everyday life, I often begin with something much more structured.

    And I have found that this can make the transition to natural, everyday modelling much easier for families.

    Learning the system first

    In my first video clip, I am using a very simple farm animal sticker activity with LAMP Words for Life.

    The activity gives us the opportunity to practise some useful, functional words:

    • OFF: taking the sticker off
    • FARM ANIMALS: finding the animal category
    • HORSE
    • SHEEP
    • CHICK
    • ON: putting the sticker onto the book

    At first, I am quite explicit about what I am doing.

    I might draw attention to the relevant button, help the child navigate to it, talk through what we are looking for and practise finding the word several times.

    This is more didactic and structured than the idealised picture some people have of AAC modelling.

    And I am completely comfortable with that at the beginning.

    Why start so explicitly?

    Imagine that you are given a brand-new device containing hundreds or thousands of words.

    Someone tells you: ‘Don’t worry. Just use it naturally.’

    You might manage to find a few obvious words.

    But when you are suddenly standing in the kitchen taking your child’s coat off and want to say ‘OFFS, you may have absolutely no idea where to look.

    That is exactly why I think parents sometimes need permission to learn the system in a supported way.

    The structured activity creates a safe environment where we can stop and think:

    • Where is that word?
    • How do I get there?
    • What does this word do?
    • What happens when I press it?

    We can practise it more than once.

    We can repeat it.

    And gradually, the route to that word becomes familiar.

    AAC systems are not simply devices that children need to learn. Communication partners need to learn them too. All the AAC research highlights partner training as an important part of AAC intervention and notes that intervention initially includes helping the individual and their family or carers develop operational competence with the system.

    From structured practice to everyday life

    And this is where the useful transfer can happen.

    Take the word OFF.

    In our sticker activity, we may practise:

    ‘OFFS

    ‘OFFS

    ‘OFF’

    We take the sticker off.

    We find the button again.

    We use the word again.

    After several opportunities, the parent has not only seen their child use the word, the parent now knows where the word lives too.

    Then later that day, they are taking their child’s coat off.

    Suddenly:

    ‘OFF!’

    And they know exactly where to find it.

    The same thing might happen with ON.

    Once the parent has practised finding ON several times during play, it becomes much easier to spot opportunities for it during the day:

    ‘Shoes ON.’

    ‘Lights ON.’

    ‘Music ON.’

    ‘Hat ON.’

    ‘Tap ON.’

    This is one of the reasons I like structured AAC activities. They are not necessarily the final goal.

    They can be the rehearsal space that gives parents and children enough confidence to use AAC in real life.

    Natural modelling is still the goal

    This doesn’t mean that I want parents spending their whole day sitting beside their child and directing them towards buttons.

    Quite the opposite.

    The aim is to gradually move towards a much more natural style of AAC use.

    Once parents know their way around the system, they can begin to model words spontaneously as they occur in everyday interactions.

    Research into aided AAC modelling describes adults using AAC alongside speech within meaningful activities, and evidence supports the use of aided input as part of AAC intervention.

    But getting there may take teaching, repetition, practice and coaching.

    And that’s okay.

    It is not about making the child press the button

    There is another important distinction here.

    When I say that I may initially be more explicit or ‘direct’ during an activity, I do not mean that I am trying to make a child perform the correct response.

    I am not interested in turning AAC into a test.

    I am not continually asking:

    ‘Where’s HORSE?’

    ‘Find SHEEP.’

    ‘Show me CHICK.’

    Instead, I am helping the child and parent become familiar with the system.

    I might point, gesture, navigate, model the word and repeat it within a meaningful activity.

    As confidence grows, the support can be reduced so that the child has increasing opportunity to locate and use the language themselves.

    My second video clip shows a child using their own LAMP Words for Life system at home, accessing a category they have chosen which is FOOD.

    This is what I love about AAC.

    The device isn’t just being used in the therapy room.

    It becomes part of the child’s own life.

    And the child is using it around their own interests and choices.

    That is the direction I want families to move towards:

    From ‘I don’t know where anything is!’ to ‘I know where some useful words are.’

    Then ‘I can use those words during our everyday routines.’

    And eventually: ‘This is my communication system, and I can use it to tell you what I think, want, notice, enjoy, reject and choose.’

    Parents don’t have to get it perfect

    This is perhaps the biggest message I would like parents to take away.

    You do not have to become an AAC expert overnight.

    You are learning too.

    It is completely reasonable for a parent to need time to become familiar with the layout, vocabulary and navigation of their child’s system.

    Learn it. Practise it. Model it. Then take it into real life.

    Any questions please contact me via my contact form.

    Sonja McGeachie

    Sonja McGeachie

    Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

    Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.

    Health Professions Council registered
    Royal College of Speech & Language Therapists Member
    Member of ASLTIP

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    Four struggles parents face when out and about with children with speech, language, and communication difficulties

    ByLondon Speech and Feeding
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    You (as parents) often describe yourselves as being under constant pressure and stress when looking after your children and young people with Special Educational Needs and Disabilities (SEND). You may find going out to do the simplest of tasks a challenge. And you will try to avoid social situations out of fear and anxiety. One of the most important factors to you is having like-minded people who understand your position as a parent with a young person with additional needs. Let’s look at some of the challenges you face and how I can support you and your family.

    1. Challenging behaviour and going out to the shops

    When your child displays challenging behaviour and won’t go into a shop without buying a toy that they insist on having, it can be tough on your family. You see people around you staring as you try to manage the situation. They do not understand the pressures you face, or that the simplest of tasks are a huge challenge.

    I can support you by giving strategies to use when out and about. I know that using visuals is important for your child. They may not understand or take in language when they are in a heightened state of anxiety or feeling overwhelmed. You could print pictures of the places you’re going to and put them on an easily accessible chain. Then you could use that chain when out and about at the shops. You may want to introduce a visual timetable at home. That way your child or young person understands where they are going. This may lessen their anxiety and subsequent behaviour.

    2. Your child is not able to communicate their needs to an unfamiliar communication partner

    When your child has difficulty communicating to an unfamiliar person it can be hard to manage. You feel yourself explaining your situation repeatedly. I can provide your child with individualised strategies or communication aids which support your child to communicate with both familiar and unfamiliar communication partners. We’ll work together to find which communication methods work in different situations and how your child will use these to help their independence.

    3. Being overwhelmed

    Your child or young person may easily be overwhelmed which may contribute to behaviour changes. I’ll work with your family to understand what the behaviour means, looking at what happened before and what happened afterwards. We’ll not only look at the behaviour but at the environment as well. This can inform how you can support your child or young person in the future, to reduce sensory stimuli (if needed) and for them to feel emotionally regulated.

    4. People avoid engaging with you

    One of the hardest things as a parent is for others to avoid you. You see them crossing the street because they don’t know what to say to you. All you want is them to accept you, to maintain your identity as a person and not as a SEND parent. I can support you emotionally. I can give you advice on local support networks where you can find other parents in a similar situation.

    We know the stresses that being a parent with a child with SEND comes with. Please know I am always here to support you, to find solutions so that when you’re next out and about. Your experience will be a little easier and you’ll feel less isolated.

    Improve your child’s communication, confidence, reduce overwhelm and feel supported here.

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  • Quick Overview Of How To Implement Those Early Hanen Speech And Language Strategies

    ByLondon Speech and Feeding
    Quick Overview Of How To Implement Those Early Hanen Speech And Language Strategies

    First up try and get down at eye level or Face-to-Face with your child

    Try to sit so that your child can see you easily, i. e. your child does not have to look up to make eye contact with you. We call that Face to Face: try and sit opposite your child. This makes it easier for you to see facial expressions and therefore pick up nonverbal /pre-verbal communication. Now you can connect and share the moment with your child.

    OWL (Observe, Wait and Listen)

    Never skip this step as it prepares us for what happens next !

    Observe

    First, try and simply watch your child quietly and listen and observe what he/she says or does; you need to know what your little one is interested in. For example with this toy (pictured below) we could observe that your child loves the actual spinning of the marble, perhaps more than that noisy click-clacking down the run. Or perhaps he loves collecting the marble at the end and feeling it in his hand.

    You could start off with showing once how the marble goes down and say:“ look it goes round and round !” Then hold back and observe, without speaking, so that your child has time to explore the toy.

    Wait

    Just sit and avoid telling or showing your child what he or she could do with the toy. This gives your child an opportunity to explore and experiment.

    Listen

    Listen to what your child says, or look at your child’s non-verbal communication without interrupting. Your child will now feel and know that you are really present and that what they have to say is important. It’s best to avoid questions like, “What are you doing or “What’s this?” as that might be a lot of pressure when they don’t know what to say about that yet.

    Respond immediately by showing interest

    Once you have all the information from OWLing you can respond in the right way, for example: if she catches the marble at the end of the run and looks up with a smile or a sound you could respond with: you’ve got it! One marble in your hand! Nice playing!

    Now how to join in the play:

    First you can copy what your child is doing

    If your child puts the first marble at the top of the run you can take a turn and do exactly the same once his marble is done. Ideally you might have another marble run, perhaps a similar one, it does not have to be exactly the same! Once your child has put the first marble in you can do the exact same with your own marble on your run. Your child is likely to look at what you are doing and you might well see a smile on their face or perhaps she might say: look at mine!

    Next you can build on that

    You can respond with simple comments like: “Wow! Yes I am looking at yours now! It’s spinning on the red one lots! I love the noise!” Now wait once more to see what your child says or does.

    To summarise

    We are signalling to our child that we are really interested in what they are doing and saying so we can “collect” our child, i.e. bring him/her back into a joint interaction.

    Important

    We want to try and not direct our child but respond with interest and fun! This creates a lovely stage for interaction and joint play! And this leads in turn to practising conversation and ever more opportunities for great speech and language skills to emerge.

    Great activities we use in Speech and Language Therapy:

    • Any cause and effect toys like this Marble Run
    • Creative activities, such as mark making with crayons
    • Train tracks (building and running the trains)

    Find a speech and language therapist for your child in London. Are you concerned about your child’s speech, feeding or communication skills and don’t know where to turn? Please contact me and we can discuss how I can help you or visit my services page.

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    A bite-sized guide to Speech and Language Therapy: feeding and swallowing

    ByLondon Speech and Feeding

    What is a Speech and Language – Feeding Therapist?

    You’ve probably heard of speech therapists helping people who stutter or struggle to pronounce words. But did you know that they also work with children and adults who have problems with eating and swallowing? This specialised area is called Speech and Language Therapy: Feeding and Swallowing, or Dysphagia Therapy.

    Why does a Speech Therapist help with eating and swallowing?

    The mouth, tongue, and throat are all involved in both speech and swallowing. When there’s a problem with any of these parts, it can affect both your ability to talk and to eat. For example:

    • Weak tongue muscles: Can make it hard to chew food and to form sounds.
    • Difficulty coordinating swallowing: Can lead to choking or aspiration (when food or liquid goes into the lungs).
    • Sensory issues: Can make certain textures or tastes feel unpleasant or overwhelming.
    • Communication: If we are not able to express ourselves we are likely to have difficulties during daily mealtimes: how do we ask for ‘more’ of something, how do we say we have had enough or we don’t like a particular food?

    How does a Speech and Language Therapist help?

    Our work involves a combination of assessment and therapy. We carefully observe how your child feeds, eats and swallows, and we look into your child’s mouth to help us see what the cause of the difficulties are: could be a very highly-arched palate, it could be a very flaccid/low tone tongue, it could be poor dentition. Then, we create a personalised treatment plan to address your specific needs.

    Here are some of the things we might do:

    • Teach swallowing techniques: We can help your child learn strategies to improve or facilitate a safe swallow.
    • Recommend dietary modifications: We may suggest changes to your child’s diet to make it easier to eat and swallow.
    • Provide sensory therapy: If your child has sensory needs we can help your child become more comfortable with different textures, tastes, and smells.
    • Work on oral motor skills: We can help to encourage more effective chewing, or drinking skills, or we can help your child to close his/her mouth more during chewing or drinking from a straw.
    • Collaborate with other professionals: We often work closely with doctors, nurses, occupational therapists, and dietitians to provide comprehensive care.

    What kinds of problems do Speech and Language Therapists help with?

    We see a wide range of feeding and swallowing difficulties, including:

    • Delayed feeding: Children who are slow to develop feeding skills or who have difficulty transitioning to solid foods.
    • Tongue-ties: Babies can have significant difficulties with feeding when the tongue is very tightly tethered to the floor of the mouth.
    • Refusal to eat: Children who refuse to eat certain foods or textures.
    • Aspiration: When food or liquid goes into the lungs, which can lead to pneumonia and other serious complications.
    • Chewing difficulties: Problems with chewing food, such as difficulty breaking down food or keeping food in the mouth.
    • Swallowing difficulties: Problems with swallowing, such as feeling like food is stuck or choking.
    • Neurological conditions: Conditions like cerebral palsy, down syndrome or other genetic syndromes can affect feeding and swallowing.
    • Developmental delays: Children with developmental delays may have difficulties with feeding and swallowing.

    Is there hope?

    If your child is struggling with feeding or swallowing, know that there is help available. Speech and Language Therapy can make a significant difference in your and your child’s quality of life. We’re here to support you every step of the way.

    Remember, you don’t have to suffer in silence. If you’re concerned about your child feeding or swallowing, please reach out. You can find a Speech and Language Therapist with a Feeding/dysphagia qualification near you via www.asltip.co.uk or contact me.

    Sonja McGeachie

    Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

    Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

    The London Speech and Feeding Practice

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    Unlocking connection: Why the Hanen ‘More Than Words®’ approach works (BEST online!!)

    ByLondon Speech and Feeding

    As a Speech and Language Therapist, one of the most rewarding parts of my job isn’t just working on speech sounds or vocabulary lists. It’s helping parents truly connect with their autistic children.

    Recently, I had a 1-hour initial online session with the parent of a 7-year-old boy. In just 75 minutes, we achieved a massive breakthrough in perspective, all without parents setting foot into my traditional clinic setting or me visiting them at home.

    I had been sent some video footage of their child along with detailed parent questionnaire and both gave me so much information from which I then worked online with the parent.

    Here is a glimpse into what the Hanen More Than Words® approach is, how I structure my initial sessions, and why doing this work online with parents is often far more powerful than traditional therapy.

    What is the Hanen More Than Words® approach?

    The Hanen More Than Words® programme is an evidence-based framework designed specifically for parents of autistic children or children with social communication difficulties. Rather than treating communication as a clinical ‘lesson’ taught by a therapist, Hanen empowers parents to become their child’s primary communication partner. It focuses on turning everyday interactions, routines, and play into natural opportunities for a child to build connection, express themselves, and initiate communication at their own pace.

    How I structure the first session: Reframing expectations

    When parents first come to speech therapy, they often arrive with understandable anxiety and big, sometimes overwhelming, expectations. My primary goal in session one is to take those expectations, reframe them into realistic, hopeful goals, and establish a clear baseline of where we are right now.

    To do this, I use the Hanen Social Communication Checklist.

    In my session with any parent this tool is always a game-changer. Today, for example, it allowed us to celebrate every single achievement our child has already made, while highlighting the specific micro-skills we want to consolidate next. Instead of focusing on ‘fixing’ speech, our baseline focused on three functional social goals:

    • Responding to comments from others.
    • Initiating his own comments, requests, or questions (in whatever way he can).
    • Taking a single, natural conversational turn, even if that turn takes time to come.

    Why online therapy for Hanen works so well

    People often ask me: ‘Can speech therapy really be effective over Zoom?’

    My answer is an emphatic yes. And for Hanen, online is often superior to a clinic.

    In a clinic, a child is in an unfamiliar environment with a new adult, which can feel demanding or artificial. Online, the child stays in their safe, natural home environment. I get to coach the parent directly in real time, giving them immediate tools they can use every single day. In just one hour online today with one parent, for example, we got a massive amount of foundational work done without causing a single moment of stress for the child.

    Key takeaways: The power of silence, OWL, and agenda-free fun

    If you are looking to support an autistic child’s social communication at home, here are the core principles we put into home practice after our first session:

    1. Embrace the power of O.W.L. (Observe, Wait, Listen)

    We live in a fast-paced world where adults feel compelled to fill every quiet moment with questions (‘What’s that?’, ‘What colour is the car?’). Hanen flips this script.

    • Observe: Step back and see what truly captures your child’s interest.
    • Wait: Be comfortable with silence. Give your child the extra time they need to process their thoughts and formulate a response.
    • Listen: Pay attention to every sound, gesture, or attempt at communication.

    2. Become a buddy, not a teacher

    Try to play alongside your child the way another 5-to-7-year-old peer would. A peer doesn’t quiz, direct, or lecture; they do their own thing nearby, make occasional fun comments, and signal that they simply enjoy being together. Shift your role from communication director to play buddy.

    3. Comment naturally. Don’t ‘state the obvious’

    Once you master silence, narration should feel natural, spontaneous, and genuine.

    • Avoid: Pointing out things they already know just to test them (e.g., ‘That’s a blue car!’).
    • Try: Generic, enthusiastic reactions that invite connection without demanding a answer (e.g., ‘Whoa, look at that!’, ‘Goodness!’, ‘Hey, that’s cool!’).

    4. Have fun with no agenda

    School and daily routines carry a lot of demands for a 7-year-old. Take time every day to simply join your child’s world and have fun with zero clinical agenda. Laughter and genuine connection are the ultimate foundations for all communication.

    Interested in learning how the Hanen programme can support your family? Get in touch today to learn more about our online parent coaching sessions.

    Sonja McGeachie

    Sonja McGeachie

    Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

    Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.

    Health Professions Council registered
    Royal College of Speech & Language Therapists Member
    Member of ASLTIP

    Find a speech and language therapist for your child in London. Are you concerned about your child’s speech, feeding or communication skills and don’t know where to turn? Please contact me and we can discuss how I can help you or visit my services page.

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