One book, dozens of therapy opportunities: What speech therapy really looks like

As speech and language therapists, some of the most effective moments in therapy don’t come from flashcards, worksheets, or even drilling sounds (though to be fair I do drill quite a lot too! needs must…😊).

By and large they happen in natural interaction — during shared attention, laughter, storytelling, and connection.

This short video clip captures that.

In under two minutes, while simply reading a book together with a three-year-old child, we naturally work on:

  • Speech sounds
  • Vowel production
  • Early phonological patterns
  • Motor planning
  • Signing and total communication
  • Visual cueing
  • Repetition and practice
  • Confidence building
  • And engagement through play

To many people, it may just look like ‘reading a book’.

But underneath that moment are years of specialist training, clinical decision-making, preparation, and therapeutic skill.

Therapy hidden inside play

One of the most important parts of paediatric speech therapy is knowing how to embed targets into meaningful interaction.

Books are one of my favourite therapy tools! Why: because as speech therapists we need to prepare for our child and our sessions. And having a book gives me the structure to know beforehand what kind of sounds or words might be coming up. Then I can be prepared for providing extra support for them. As you can see in this clip, I had the sound cards just there because I had anticipated what might be coming up!

A single story can provide opportunities for:

  • Speech sound practice
  • Vocabulary development
  • Sentence building
  • Turn-taking
  • Symbolic understanding
  • Attention and listening
  • Gesture and signing
  • Motor speech cueing
  • And social communication

In this clip, I follow my little one’s interests while carefully weaving in her individual therapy targets.

It looks relaxed and spontaneous — and it is — but it is also highly intentional.

Catching opportunities in the moment

One lovely example in the clip is when she says ‘yes’.

She is now starting to say the final /S/ sound, so I immediately model and draw attention to it using the ‘snake sound’ visual cue, giving her positive feedback that she can now also try using this sound at the start of words.

My gently shaping the word ‘yeSSSS.’ gives her:

  • Auditory feedback
  • Visual support
  • And an achievable opportunity to try again

A few seconds later, we naturally practise it again.

That’s responsive therapy.

Speech therapists are constantly listening, analysing, adapting, and deciding:

  • When should I model?
  • When should I pause?
  • When should I repeat?
  • When should I let it go?
  • How can I keep confidence high while still targeting speech?

These decisions happen in seconds.

Working on speech without ‘stopping the play’

Another moment in the clip focuses on the word ‘out’, where the vowel sound is one of her speech targets.

Then we move into practising the word ‘open’, a word she has previously found difficult.

Within this one word, we can support:

  • Sequencing
  • Motor planning
  • Lip shape
  • Vowel production
  • And speech sound accuracy

We also briefly practise the /K/ sound — a sound produced at the back of the mouth which can be particularly tricky to produce.

Instead of explaining it verbally (which is often too abstract for young children), I use:

  • Visual demonstration
  • Exaggerated mouth movements
  • Gesture/sign support
  • And playful modelling

Children learn through seeing, hearing, doing, and experiencing.

That is why Speech Therapists use multiple layers of cueing simultaneously.

Why I use signs alongside speech

Throughout the clip, I also use signs such as ‘book’ and ‘pig’.

Using signs does not stop children talking.

In fact, for many children, signs:

  • Reduce frustration
  • Support understanding
  • Increase participation
  • Reinforce vocabulary
  • And help bridge the gap while speech is developing

Communication always comes first.

Speech is only one part of communication.

When children feel successful communicating, they are far more likely to keep trying.

The skill behind ‘natural’ therapy

One thing I often hear from parents is:

‘You make it look so easy.’

That is actually one of the biggest compliments a therapist can receive. (Though we also often feel we need to justify our very existence with these thoughts because we don’t just play/just read but we know it can look like that!) 😊 this is the reason for this blog…

High-quality paediatric therapy should feel warm, playful, responsive, and natural.

But underneath that natural interaction is:

  • Clinical knowledge
  • Phonological analysis
  • Motor speech understanding
  • Language development expertise
  • Sensory awareness
  • Relationship-building
  • And careful session planning

Before this session even began, I already knew:

  • Which speech patterns to target
  • Which words would likely appear in the book
  • What visual cues might help
  • Which signs to model
  • And how to adapt depending on the child’s responses

That preparation allows therapy to stay child-led without losing therapeutic focus.

Following the child while leading the therapy

The best therapy is rarely rigid.

Children do not learn communication through pressure or endless correction. They learn through interaction.

That is exactly what this short clip demonstrates.

One book.
One conversation.
Hundreds of tiny therapeutic decisions.

And all within a joyful moment shared together.

Because good speech therapy should never feel like hard work for a child.

It should feel like connection, confidence, success — and fun.

If you’re concerned about your child’s speech and language or wondering whether they might benefit from speech therapy, feel free to get in touch.

Sonja McGeachie

Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.


Health Professions Council registered
Royal College of Speech & Language Therapists Member
Member of ASLTIP

Find a speech and language therapist for your child in London. Are you concerned about your child’s speech, feeding or communication skills and don’t know where to turn? Please contact me and we can discuss how I can help you or visit my services page.

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    The quiet power: Why silence and responsiveness boost communication in children with delays

    The quiet power: Why silence and responsiveness boost communication in children with delays
    Supplied by Sonja McGeachie, Practice Owner

    As parents and caregivers, our natural instinct when interacting with a child, especially one who struggles with communication, is often to fill every silence. We might ask lots of questions, offer constant commentary, or try to prompt him or her to speak. Our hearts are in the right place. We want to help him or her communicate! However, for children with language delays or those on the autism spectrum, this well-intentioned approach can sometimes inadvertently create more pressure and fewer opportunities for them to truly initiate and develop their own communication skills.

    What if I told you that one of the most powerful tools in your communication toolkit is often silence? And that responding to your child, rather than always initiating, can unlock incredible potential?

    Let’s explore why these seemingly simple strategies are so profoundly beneficial.

    The unspoken benefits of silence

    In our fast-paced world, silence can feel awkward, but for a child who is processing language differently, it’s a gift:

    1. Time to process: Children with language delays often need more time to process what they hear and to formulate their own thoughts or responses. When we bombard them with words, we don’t give their brains the crucial milliseconds they need to catch up. A pause of 5–10 seconds can make all the difference.
    2. Reduces pressure: Constant questioning or prompting can feel like a test. Silence removes this pressure, creating a more relaxed environment where the child feels safe to communicate without fear of being ‘wrong’ or rushed.
    3. Creates opportunity to initiate: If you’re always talking, when does your child get a turn to start the conversation? Silence opens up a space for him or her to initiate, whether it’s through a sound, a gesture, eye contact, or a word. This is vital for developing spontaneous communication.
    4. Encourages independent thinking: When a child is given space, he or she is more likely to try to figure things out himself or herself. This fosters problem-solving skills and reduces reliance on adult prompts.
    5. Prevents overwhelm (especially for ASD): Many children on the autism spectrum can be sensitive to auditory input. A constant stream of language can be overwhelming, leading to withdrawal or challenging behaviours. Strategic pauses can help them regulate and engage more effectively.

    The power of responding (not just initiating)

    Think of a tennis match: if only one person serves, it’s not a game. Communication is a rally, a back-and-forth exchange. When you primarily respond to your child’s communication attempts, you’re teaching him or her the rhythm of conversation:

    1. Follow the child’s lead: This is a cornerstone of effective language intervention, famously championed by programs like Hanen’s ‘It Takes Two to Talk’. When you respond to what your child is already interested in or doing, the interaction becomes immediately relevant and motivating for him or her.
    2. Validates his or her attempts: Every sound, gesture, glance, or partial word your child offers is a communication attempt. By responding to it, you’re telling him or her, ‘I see you. I hear you. Your communication matters.’ This builds immense confidence and encourages him or her to try again.
    3. Builds confidence and motivation: When a child feels understood and successful in his or her communication, he or she are more likely to communicate more often. It’s a positive feedback loop.
    4. Teaches turn-taking naturally: By taking your turn after his or hers, you model the natural flow of conversation. He or she learns that communication is a shared activity, not a one-sided lecture.
    5. Makes interactions meaningful: When you respond to his or her interests, you’re talking about things that are inherently motivating to him or her. This makes the language you use more easily understood and remembered.

    Practical strategies for parents: Observe, Wait, Listen (OWL)

    The Hanen Centre’s ‘Observe, Wait, Listen’ (OWL) strategy perfectly encapsulates these principles:

    • Observe: Watch your child closely. What is he or she looking at? What is he or she doing? What sounds is he or she making? What gestures is he or she using?
    • Wait: After you’ve observed, wait. Give him or her time. Resist the urge to jump in with a question or comment immediately. Count to five (or even ten) in your head. This silence is an invitation for him or her to communicate.
    • Listen: When he or she does communicate (in any way!), listen intently. Try to understand his or her message or intent.

    Beyond OWL – More tips:

    • Reduce questions, increase comments: Instead of ‘What’s that?’ try ‘Oh, a big red ball!’ or ‘The car is going fast!’ Comments provide language models without demanding a verbal response.
    • Expand, don’t just prompt: If your child says ‘Car’, you could respond with ‘Yes, That’s a big car!’ or ‘It’s really fast!’ You’re building on his or her communication with a slightly richer language model.
    • Create opportunities for communication: Place desired items slightly out of reach. This creates a natural reason for your child to communicate his or her wants (e.g., reaching, pointing, vocalising).
    • Respond to all communication: Don’t just wait for words. If your child points, look where he or she is pointing and comment. If he or she makes a sound, imitate it or respond with a related word.

    In summary

    Embracing silence and prioritising responsiveness might feel counterintuitive at first, especially when you’re eager for your child to talk. However, these powerful strategies create a nurturing, low-pressure environment that encourages spontaneous communication, builds confidence, and truly meets your child where he or she is. By giving your child the space and the meaningful responses he or she needs, you’re laying a strong foundation for his or her communication journey.

    Try incorporating these ‘quiet powers’ into your daily interactions and watch your child’s communication blossom.

    Sonja McGeachie

    Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

    Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.


    Health Professions Council registered
    Royal College of Speech & Language Therapists Member
    Member of ASLTIP

    Find a speech and language therapist for your child in London. Are you concerned about your child’s speech, feeding or communication skills and don’t know where to turn? Please contact me and we can discuss how I can help you or visit my services page.

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  • Could mouth breathing be affecting your child’s speech, sleep and development?

    Could mouth breathing be affecting your child's speech, sleep and development?

    Understanding Orofacial Myofunctional Disorders (OMDs)

    Many parents contact me at London Speech and Feeding because they are worried about their child’s speech. Perhaps their child is difficult to understand, has a persistent lisp, struggles with feeding, snores at night, or always seems to have their mouth open.

    What many families don’t realise is that these concerns may all be connected.

    Increasingly, research and clinical experience are highlighting the important role of Orofacial Myofunctional Health, the way the muscles of the face, mouth, tongue and airway work together to support breathing, eating, sleeping and communication.

    When these muscles are not functioning optimally, children may develop what are known as Orofacial Myofunctional Disorders (OMDs).

    What Is Orofacial Myofunctional Health?

    Orofacial Myofunctional Health refers to the healthy function and coordination of the:

    • lips
    • tongue
    • jaw
    • cheeks
    • facial muscles
    • airway.

    These structures play a vital role in:

    • breathing
    • swallowing
    • chewing
    • speaking
    • facial growth
    • dental development
    • sleep quality.

    When everything is working well, the lips remain gently closed at rest, breathing occurs through the nose, and the tongue rests against the roof of the mouth.

    This seemingly simple posture has a profound influence on how a child’s face, teeth and airway develop.

    What is an Orofacial Myofunctional Disorder?

    An Orofacial Myofunctional Disorder occurs when there is an abnormal pattern of muscle function involving the face, mouth, tongue or airway.

    Children with OMDs may experience difficulties with:

    • speech
    • feeding
    • swallowing
    • sleep
    • breathing
    • dental development
    • facial growth.

    In many cases, these difficulties are linked to chronic mouth breathing.

    Signs your child may have an Orofacial Myofunctional Disorder

    Breathing and sleep signs

    • mouth open at rest
    • mouth breathing during the day
    • snoring
    • noisy breathing
    • restless sleep
    • frequent waking
    • dark circles under the eyes
    • chronic congestion
    • fatigue despite a full night’s sleep.

    Speech signs

    • lisping
    • unclear speech
    • distorted speech sounds
    • difficulty producing certain sounds
    • persistent articulation difficulties
    • reduced speech intelligibility.

    Feeding and swallowing signs

    • picky eating
    • messy eating
    • food remaining in the cheeks
    • gagging easily
    • difficulty chewing
    • long mealtimes
    • tongue thrust swallowing.

    Facial and dental signs

    • narrow palate
    • crowded teeth
    • open bite
    • overbite
    • underbite
    • long face appearance
    • receding chin
    • poor lip seal.

    If several of these signs sound familiar, a comprehensive assessment may be worthwhile.

    Why does mouth breathing matter?

    Many parents assume mouth breathing is simply a habit.

    In reality, mouth breathing is often a symptom that something is preventing efficient nasal breathing.

    Common causes include:

    • enlarged tonsils
    • enlarged adenoids
    • allergies
    • chronic nasal congestion
    • recurrent infections
    • structural airway differences
    • tongue tie
    • prolonged dummy use
    • thumb sucking
    • poor oral posture.

    When nasal breathing becomes difficult, children naturally begin breathing through their mouths.

    Over time, this can affect how the face, jaws and airway develop.

    What does healthy oral posture look like?

    Healthy oral posture is surprisingly simple:

    • lips
      • gently closed
    • tongue
      • resting against the roof of the mouth
    • teeth
      • slightly apart
    • breathing
      • through the nose.

    This posture helps guide healthy jaw growth, facial development and airway formation.

    Think of the tongue as a natural orthodontic support system. When it rests in the correct position, it helps shape the upper jaw and supports healthy facial growth.

    The consequences of chronic mouth breathing

    1. Speech difficulties

    Children who breathe through their mouths often have altered tongue posture and reduced oral stability.

    This can contribute to:

    • lisping
    • distorted sounds
    • reduced speech clarity
    • difficulty learning new speech sounds.

    2. Feeding and swallowing difficulties

    A low tongue posture may affect:

    • chewing efficiency
    • swallowing patterns
    • food management
    • oral motor coordination.

    Many children develop a tongue thrust swallow, where the tongue pushes forward instead of moving efficiently during swallowing.

    3. Poor sleep quality

    Mouth breathing can contribute to:

    • snoring
    • restless sleep
    • frequent waking
    • daytime fatigue
    • reduced concentration.

    Poor sleep can have a significant impact on learning, behaviour and emotional regulation.

    4. Changes to facial growth

    Over time, chronic mouth breathing may influence:

    • jaw development
    • facial proportions
    • dental alignment
    • airway size.

    This can result in:

    • narrow palates
    • crowded teeth
    • long facial appearance
    • increased orthodontic needs.

    5. Oral health concerns

    The nose acts as a natural filter and humidifier.

    When children breathe through their mouths:

    • The mouth becomes dry.
    • Saliva protection is reduced.
    • Risk of tooth decay increases.
    • Gum health may be affected.

    Why this matters for speech therapy

    Speech does not develop in isolation.

    The tongue, lips, jaw and airway work together to support clear communication.

    At London Speech and Feeding, we look beyond speech sounds alone.

    A child who presents with:

    • persistent speech difficulties
    • lisping
    • feeding challenges
    • open mouth posture
    • snoring
    • poor sleep

    may benefit from an assessment that explores underlying orofacial myofunctional factors.

    Addressing these foundations can often support more effective progress in speech and feeding therapy.

    How London Speech and Feeding can help

    A comprehensive assessment may include observation of:

    • breathing patterns
    • lip posture
    • tongue posture
    • swallowing function
    • feeding skills
    • speech sound development
    • sleep concerns
    • oral structures.

    Where appropriate, recommendations may include:

    • orofacial myofunctional therapy
    • speech therapy
    • feeding therapy
    • home programmes
    • ENT referral
    • orthodontic referral
    • collaborative multidisciplinary support.

    The good news

    Orofacial Myofunctional Disorders are often highly treatable when identified early.

    Supporting healthy breathing, tongue posture and oral muscle function can positively influence:

    If your child regularly breathes through their mouth, snores, struggles with speech clarity or has feeding difficulties, a specialist assessment may help identify the underlying cause.

    • speech clarity
    • feeding skills
    • sleep quality
    • facial growth
    • dental development
    • overall wellbeing.

    At London Speech and Feeding, we are passionate about looking beyond symptoms and understanding the whole child. Contact me!

    Sometimes the key to clearer speech starts with a simple question:

    ‘Is my child breathing through their nose?’

    Sonja McGeachie

    Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

    Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.

    Frequently Asked Questions

    Can mouth breathing cause speech problems?

    Yes. Mouth breathing can alter tongue posture, lip strength and oral stability, which may contribute to articulation difficulties and lisps.

    Should I be worried if my child snores?

    Regular snoring is not considered normal in children and may indicate airway obstruction or sleep-disordered breathing.

    Can enlarged tonsils affect speech?

    Yes. Enlarged tonsils may affect resonance, tongue positioning, swallowing and breathing patterns.

    What age can children be assessed?

    Children of all ages can be assessed if parents have concerns about speech, feeding, breathing or oral development.

    What is Orofacial Myofunctional Therapy?

    Orofacial Myofunctional Therapy focuses on improving breathing patterns, tongue posture, lip seal and oral muscle function to support overall health and development.


    Health Professions Council registered
    Royal College of Speech & Language Therapists Member
    Member of ASLTIP

    Find a speech and language therapist for your child in London. Are you concerned about your child’s speech, feeding or communication skills and don’t know where to turn? Please contact me and we can discuss how I can help you or visit my services page.

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    Holiday disruptions & New Year routines: How to support your child’s feeding, communication and regulation over the festive season

    Holiday disruptions & New Year routines

    The festive season is a wonderful time for many families, but for children with feeding challenges, sensory differences, or autism traits, December can feel overwhelming. Changes in routine, busier environments, travel, new foods, disrupted sleep, and well-meaning relatives giving ‘advice’ can all affect a child’s feeding, communication and overall regulation.

    As a speech and language therapist specialising in Early Years, I see the same pattern each year: children often make progress during the term, only to struggle in late December when everything becomes unpredictable. The good news? With a bit of preparation, children can not only cope better, but they can actually make significant developmental gains during the holidays.

    This blog will help you feel confident, supported and prepared for the transition from ‘festive mode’ to a smoother, regulated start in January.

    1. Why routines matter so much. Especially now

    Young children thrive on predictability. For neurodivergent children or those with sensory, feeding or communication needs, routine isn’t just helpful: it’s the backbone of emotional regulation.

    In December, typical patterns change:

    • Mealtimes shift or become irregular
    • Bedtime slides
    • New foods appear
    • Loud social gatherings overwhelm
    • Travel disrupts naps and comfort routines
    • Therapies pause
    • Childcare closes

    Any one of these can lead to feeding refusals, more meltdowns, increased stimming, reduced communication attempts or regression in speech sounds.

    It’s simply the nervous system responding to too much change.

    2. Protecting feeding progress during holiday mealtimes

    My last blog and insta post have a nice social story on festive meals. They are often the trickiest part of the season for families I support. Children with sensory-based feeding challenges, or ARFID traits may find holiday foods completely unfamiliar and challenging.

    What helps:

    • Offer one ‘safe food’ at every meal
    • Keep portion sizes tiny
    • Use the ‘buffet rule’
    • Rehearse tricky moments

    3. Supporting communication when routines are disrupted

    Holiday time actually offers more opportunities for communication, just in different ways.

    Strategies:

    • Slow down and follow your child’s lead
    • Use everyday routines as language opportunities
    • Keep AAC going even if casually

    4. Understanding holiday ‘regressions’ and know they’re temporary

    This is almost always due to nervous system overload. Children don’t truly ‘lose’ skills; they temporarily prioritise regulation over learning.

    5. A gentle January reset: How to start the New Year smoothly

    • Re-establish predictability early
    • Return to preferred foods
    • Book early support if needed
    • Focus on regulation first

    Sonja McGeachie

    Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

    Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.


    Health Professions Council registered
    Royal College of Speech & Language Therapists Member
    Member of ASLTIP

    Find a speech and language therapist for your child in London. Are you concerned about your child’s speech, feeding or communication skills and don’t know where to turn? Please contact me and we can discuss how I can help you or visit my services page.

    Reference:

    Bronson, M. (2000). Self-regulation in early childhood. Guilford Press.

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    Explaining pronoun reversal: A window into gestalt language processing

    Explaining pronoun reversal: A window into gestalt language processing

    Have you noticed your child referring to themselves as ‘you’, or calling you ‘me’? This seemingly confusing mix-up of pronouns, known as pronoun reversal, often raises concerns for parents. Below I outline why your child does this and want to reassure you that it is to do with his or her unique language learning style.

    Gestalt language processing: Learning in chunks

    Many children, particularly those on the autism spectrum, use a gestalt language processing approach. Unlike analytic language processors who learn individual words and build sentences, gestalt language processors learn language in whole ‘chunks’ or ‘gestalts’. Think of these gestalts as pre-packaged scripts they pick up from their environment — phrases, sentences, even snippets of songs or movie lines.

    As Marge Blanc, author of Natural language acquisition on the autism spectrum, explains, ‘When a child picks up an entire gestalt (script), he’s got the pronoun of the original speaker. So ‘pronoun reversal’ is nothing more than that.’

    So your child is simply repeating what they’ve heard, without yet understanding the individual word meanings or grammatical functions.

    Imagine your child hearing ‘You want a rice cake?’ repeated frequently. They might then use this phrase to express their own desire for a rice cake, even though it doesn’t grammatically fit. So they are thinking and saying ‘You want a rice cake?’ and the meaning of this phrase is: ‘I want a rice cake’. This isn’t a sign of confusion, but a natural step in their language development. They’re working with the tools they have: the scripts they’ve acquired.

    How can we support their natural language journey

    Instead of trying to ‘correct’ pronoun usage, our role as caregivers and speech therapists is to support the child’s natural language progression. Here’s how we can do this:

    1. Learn about their gestalt stage and run with it: In the early stages (1–3) of gestalt language development, correcting pronouns can be counterproductive. These children are still processing language as whole units, not individual words. Direct corrections can lead to frustration and hinder their natural language exploration.
    2. Patience and trust: Gestalt language processing follows a predictable, albeit sometimes non-linear, path. By understanding their current stage, we can provide targeted support. Language sampling and scoring, guided by the Natural Language Acquisition framework, help us pinpoint their stage and tailor our approach.
    3. Model language strategically: In the early stages, avoid using pronouns like ‘you’ and ‘you’re’. Instead, model language from the child’s perspective or use joint perspectives. For example, instead of ‘Are you thirsty?’, try ‘I’m thirsty!’ or ‘Let’s get some water’,

    The big picture: Language unfolds naturally

    Pronoun reversal is a stepping stone, not a stumbling block. As gestalt language processors progress, they begin to break down these gestalts into smaller units and develop their own self-generated language. This is when their understanding and use of pronouns naturally emerge.

    By shifting our perspective from ‘error correction’ to ‘developmental support’, we create a nurturing environment for these children to thrive. We empower them to navigate their unique language journey, ultimately leading to more meaningful and independent communication.

    So, to summarise:

    • Pronoun reversal is a typical characteristic of early-stage gestalt language processing.
    • Focus on modelling language from the child’s perspective or a joint perspective.
    • Avoid correcting pronouns in the early stages.
    • Trust the process and support the child’s natural language development.

    Let’s celebrate the diverse ways our children learn to communicate and empower them to find their unique voice!

    If you have any questions or would like some help with understanding your little gestalt language learner, please get in touch with me via my contact form.

    Sonja McGeachie

    Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

    Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.


    Health Professions Council registered
    Royal College of Speech & Language Therapists Member
    Member of ASLTIP

    Find a speech and language therapist for your child in London. Are you concerned about your child’s speech, feeding or communication skills and don’t know where to turn? Please contact me and we can discuss how I can help you or visit my services page.

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    Following your child’s lead: A playful path to AAC success

    Unlocking playtime: A guide to child-led learning

    Does your child struggle to focus on toys or activities? Do they dart away as soon as you approach? You’re not alone!

    The key to unlocking your child’s potential lies in following their lead. Let them guide the play session, and watch their engagement and focus soar.

    Why Child-Led Play Works:

    • Empowerment: Children feel in control, sparking their curiosity and motivation.
    • Focused attention: They’ll stay engaged with activities for longer periods.
    • Reduced frustration: By stepping back and observing, you eliminate the pressure and stress that often comes with directed play.

    How to Implement Child-Led Play:

    1. Prepare the environment: Set out a limited selection of engaging toys.
    2. Observe and wait: Sit back, watch, and listen to your child’s interests.
    3. Embrace the moment: Resist the urge to direct or question; simply enjoy the process.

    Remember: This simple approach can transform playtime and support your child’s development. Give it a try for a week and see the difference!

    #OWLing #hanenmorethanwords

    Observe, Wait, Listen. It’s a powerful formula for unlocking your child’s potential.

    You will likely see:

    • Your child will stay put with any toy for longer whilst you are near them.
    • Your child will tolerate you being nearby and he/she won’t move away.
    • Your child will start giving you brief glances of enjoyment, or perhaps they will hand things to you, or they might take your hand and lead it to something that needs opening etc.
    • In other words, you will see that there suddenly is JOINT PLAY. Yes, granted it may not be according to your adult agenda, but there will be more togetherness than there was before. And this is the START of communication and social engagement.

    USE Core words and a coreboard — to help your child understand the power of words

    Core words are the building blocks of communication. Try using a coreboard like the one below, they are versatile and can be used in countless ways. By modelling these words naturally during play, you expose your child to their meaning and function in context. This approach is far more effective than isolated drill and practice, more powerful than flashcards!

    Using AAC coreboard
    Photo by lemonlenz

    A Winning Combination

    Combining child-led play and AAC modelling creates a magic effect. To summarise:

    • Increased engagement: When you follow your child’s lead, they are more likely to be engaged and receptive to learning. This creates optimal conditions for introducing AAC core words.
    • Natural learning: By modelling AAC core words in the context of play, you help your child understand their meaning and purpose naturally. This fosters generalisation and spontaneous use.
    • Building relationships: Shared play experiences strengthen the bond between you and your child. This trust and connection are essential for successful communication.
    • Reduced pressure: Modelling AAC core words without expectation removes the pressure to produce language. This allows your child to explore communication at their own pace.
    • Expanded vocabulary: As your child becomes more comfortable with AAC, they will begin to incorporate core words into their own communication. This leads to vocabulary growth and increased independence.

    Practical Tips

    • Observe and respond: Pay close attention to your child’s interests and actions. Respond to their cues with enthusiasm and support.
    • Keep it simple: Start with a few core words and gradually introduce new ones as your child’s skills develop.
    • Be patient: Language learning takes time. Celebrate small successes and avoid frustration.
    • Have fun: Remember, play is supposed to be enjoyable for both you and your child. Relax and have fun together!

    Example:

    Photo by lemonlenz

    Let’s say your child is playing with a pop-up toy like you see me do in the above photograph. Here, I followed my child’s lead by waiting to see what she wanted to do with the toy. You are now OWLING! (Observe Wait and Listen)

    Once I noticed that there was repetitive opening of the flaps going on I then pointed to OPEN and MORE on the board, as I said: ‘let’s OPEN this one’ / let’s see MORE animals’ / ‘MORE cow! it says moo!’ ‘OPEN another one’ and so on.

    Important to know, we are not expecting our child to respond verbally or with AAC, but we are providing language input and demonstrating how these words can be used with enthusiasm.

    Naturally in time your child will look at the board and at your pointing and they will eventually want to copy you!

    By incorporating these strategies into your daily interactions, you can create a supportive environment that fosters language development and communication growth.  If you would like more guidance please get in touch and book in for a consultation, some individual therapy and/ or some parent coaching.

    I look forward to supporting you. Please contact me and let’s see how.

    Sonja McGeachie

    Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

    Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

    The London Speech and Feeding Practice


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    Living life with a lisp

    You may be questioning ‘will my child grow out of having a lisp?’ There are so many myths out there that it’s sometimes difficult to find your way out of a complex maze of information.

    The good news: lisps can be successfully treated by a Speech and Language Therapist and the earlier it’s resolved, the better. We know from the evidence base that some children’s lisps will resolve and, as always, it is completely age appropriate to have this speech pattern up until aged 4 ½.

    As with any speech and language targets your child will need to be motivated to practise their newly acquired techniques, at home and in other settings. They will eventually be able to generalise this skill, but it takes lots of practice. So, think carefully about if your child is ready and motivated before commencing Speech and Language Therapy.

    There are essentially two ways in which your child has acquired a lisp. It’s key here to mention that parents have no blame in this.

    1. They’ve mis-learned it and now incorrect production has become a habit
    2. Children have difficulties organising the sounds to make a clear production

    You may be surprised to realise that there are different types of lisps. But all the techniques will be the same.

    1. Interdental lisp

    When your child pushes their tongue too far forward, they will make a /th/ sound instead of /s/ and /z/

    1. Dental lisp

    This is where your child’s tongue pushes against their teeth

    1. Lateral lisp

    Air comes over the top of the tongue and down the sides

    1. Palatal lisp

    Your palate is the roof of your child’s mouth. Sometimes they will touch their palate when making certain sounds (e.g., /s/ and /z/)

    It’s useful for you to know what type of lisp your child has because you can then support them to make the correct production. You’ll be able to talk about where in the mouth their tongue is and where it needs to be to produce a clear sound. Your Speech and Language Therapist will be able to help you with this.

    Top therapy tips for lisps

    1. Awareness is key. Does your child know where their tongue and teeth are (i.e., are they behind their teeth)? Do they notice the air escaping? Use a mirror so that your child can see not only themselves but also you in the mirror.
    2. Repetition! As with most therapeutic intervention, practice makes perfect. So little and often is key!
    3. Make sessions fun, perhaps around your child’s interests or allow them to drink from a straw
    4. Comment on how the sound is produced (e.g., /z/ is like a bee, /s/ is like a snake)
    5. Use tactile cues. Your child’s vocal folds vibrate when they produce a sound like /z/ but not with /s/. You could use the words ‘loud’ and ‘quiet’ to describe this.
    6. Start with a /t/ sound and gradually elongate the sound to an /s/

    Having a lisp may not be problematic for some, but for other children, it can have a significant impact on their emotional wellbeing. Intervening at an early age can prevent this from happening. We always advocate for early intervention!

    Contact Sonja for support on resolving your child’s lisp.


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