First up try and get down at eye level or Face-to-Face with your child
Try to sit so that your child can see you easily, i. e. your child does not have to look up to make eye contact with you. We call that Face to Face: try and sit opposite your child. This makes it easier for you to see facial expressions and therefore pick up nonverbal /pre-verbal communication. Now you can connect and share the moment with your child.
OWL (Observe, Wait and Listen)
Never skip this step as it prepares us for what happens next !
Observe
First, try and simply watch your child quietly and listen and observe what he/she says or does; you need to know what your little one is interested in. For example with this toy (pictured below) we could observe that your child loves the actual spinning of the marble, perhaps more than that noisy click-clacking down the run. Or perhaps he loves collecting the marble at the end and feeling it in his hand.
You could start off with showing once how the marble goes down and say:“ look it goes round and round !” Then hold back and observe, without speaking, so that your child has time to explore the toy.
Wait
Just sit and avoid telling or showing your child what he or she could do with the toy. This gives your child an opportunity to explore and experiment.
Listen
Listen to what your child says, or look at your child’s non-verbal communication without interrupting. Your child will now feel and know that you are really present and that what they have to say is important. It’s best to avoid questions like, “What are you doing or “What’s this?” as that might be a lot of pressure when they don’t know what to say about that yet.
Respond immediately by showing interest
Once you have all the information from OWLing you can respond in the right way, for example: if she catches the marble at the end of the run and looks up with a smile or a sound you could respond with: you’ve got it! One marble in your hand! Nice playing!
Now how to join in the play:
First you can copy what your child is doing
If your child puts the first marble at the top of the run you can take a turn and do exactly the same once his marble is done. Ideally you might have another marble run, perhaps a similar one, it does not have to be exactly the same! Once your child has put the first marble in you can do the exact same with your own marble on your run. Your child is likely to look at what you are doing and you might well see a smile on their face or perhaps she might say: look at mine!
Next you can build on that
You can respond with simple comments like: “Wow! Yes I am looking at yours now! It’s spinning on the red one lots! I love the noise!” Now wait once more to see what your child says or does.
To summarise
We are signalling to our child that we are really interested in what they are doing and saying so we can “collect” our child, i.e. bring him/her back into a joint interaction.
Important
We want to try and not direct our child but respond with interest and fun! This creates a lovely stage for interaction and joint play! And this leads in turn to practising conversation and ever more opportunities for great speech and language skills to emerge.
Great activities we use in Speech and Language Therapy:
Any cause and effect toys like this Marble Run
Creative activities, such as mark making with crayons
Train tracks (building and running the trains)
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Many parents contact me at London Speech and Feeding because they are worried about their child’s speech. Perhaps their child is difficult to understand, has a persistent lisp, struggles with feeding, snores at night, or always seems to have their mouth open.
What many families don’t realise is that these concerns may all be connected.
Increasingly, research and clinical experience are highlighting the important role of Orofacial Myofunctional Health, the way the muscles of the face, mouth, tongue and airway work together to support breathing, eating, sleeping and communication.
When these muscles are not functioning optimally, children may develop what are known as Orofacial Myofunctional Disorders (OMDs).
What Is Orofacial Myofunctional Health?
Orofacial Myofunctional Health refers to the healthy function and coordination of the:
lips
tongue
jaw
cheeks
facial muscles
airway.
These structures play a vital role in:
breathing
swallowing
chewing
speaking
facial growth
dental development
sleep quality.
When everything is working well, the lips remain gently closed at rest, breathing occurs through the nose, and the tongue rests against the roof of the mouth.
This seemingly simple posture has a profound influence on how a child’s face, teeth and airway develop.
What is an Orofacial Myofunctional Disorder?
An Orofacial Myofunctional Disorder occurs when there is an abnormal pattern of muscle function involving the face, mouth, tongue or airway.
Children with OMDs may experience difficulties with:
speech
feeding
swallowing
sleep
breathing
dental development
facial growth.
In many cases, these difficulties are linked to chronic mouth breathing.
Signs your child may have an Orofacial Myofunctional Disorder
Breathing and sleep signs
mouth open at rest
mouth breathing during the day
snoring
noisy breathing
restless sleep
frequent waking
dark circles under the eyes
chronic congestion
fatigue despite a full night’s sleep.
Speech signs
lisping
unclear speech
distorted speech sounds
difficulty producing certain sounds
persistent articulation difficulties
reduced speech intelligibility.
Feeding and swallowing signs
picky eating
messy eating
food remaining in the cheeks
gagging easily
difficulty chewing
long mealtimes
tongue thrust swallowing.
Facial and dental signs
narrow palate
crowded teeth
open bite
overbite
underbite
long face appearance
receding chin
poor lip seal.
If several of these signs sound familiar, a comprehensive assessment may be worthwhile.
Why does mouth breathing matter?
Many parents assume mouth breathing is simply a habit.
In reality, mouth breathing is often a symptom that something is preventing efficient nasal breathing.
Common causes include:
enlarged tonsils
enlarged adenoids
allergies
chronic nasal congestion
recurrent infections
structural airway differences
tongue tie
prolonged dummy use
thumb sucking
poor oral posture.
When nasal breathing becomes difficult, children naturally begin breathing through their mouths.
Over time, this can affect how the face, jaws and airway develop.
What does healthy oral posture look like?
Healthy oral posture is surprisingly simple:
lips
gently closed
tongue
resting against the roof of the mouth
teeth
slightly apart
breathing
through the nose.
This posture helps guide healthy jaw growth, facial development and airway formation.
Think of the tongue as a natural orthodontic support system. When it rests in the correct position, it helps shape the upper jaw and supports healthy facial growth.
The consequences of chronic mouth breathing
1. Speech difficulties
Children who breathe through their mouths often have altered tongue posture and reduced oral stability.
This can contribute to:
lisping
distorted sounds
reduced speech clarity
difficulty learning new speech sounds.
2. Feeding and swallowing difficulties
A low tongue posture may affect:
chewing efficiency
swallowing patterns
food management
oral motor coordination.
Many children develop a tongue thrust swallow, where the tongue pushes forward instead of moving efficiently during swallowing.
3. Poor sleep quality
Mouth breathing can contribute to:
snoring
restless sleep
frequent waking
daytime fatigue
reduced concentration.
Poor sleep can have a significant impact on learning, behaviour and emotional regulation.
4. Changes to facial growth
Over time, chronic mouth breathing may influence:
jaw development
facial proportions
dental alignment
airway size.
This can result in:
narrow palates
crowded teeth
long facial appearance
increased orthodontic needs.
5. Oral health concerns
The nose acts as a natural filter and humidifier.
When children breathe through their mouths:
The mouth becomes dry.
Saliva protection is reduced.
Risk of tooth decay increases.
Gum health may be affected.
Why this matters for speech therapy
Speech does not develop in isolation.
The tongue, lips, jaw and airway work together to support clear communication.
At London Speech and Feeding, we look beyond speech sounds alone.
A child who presents with:
persistent speech difficulties
lisping
feeding challenges
open mouth posture
snoring
poor sleep
may benefit from an assessment that explores underlying orofacial myofunctional factors.
Addressing these foundations can often support more effective progress in speech and feeding therapy.
How London Speech and Feeding can help
A comprehensive assessment may include observation of:
breathing patterns
lip posture
tongue posture
swallowing function
feeding skills
speech sound development
sleep concerns
oral structures.
Where appropriate, recommendations may include:
orofacial myofunctional therapy
speech therapy
feeding therapy
home programmes
ENT referral
orthodontic referral
collaborative multidisciplinary support.
The good news
Orofacial Myofunctional Disorders are often highly treatable when identified early.
Supporting healthy breathing, tongue posture and oral muscle function can positively influence:
If your child regularly breathes through their mouth, snores, struggles with speech clarity or has feeding difficulties, a specialist assessment may help identify the underlying cause.
speech clarity
feeding skills
sleep quality
facial growth
dental development
overall wellbeing.
At London Speech and Feeding, we are passionate about looking beyond symptoms and understanding the whole child. Contact me!
Sometimes the key to clearer speech starts with a simple question:
‘Is my child breathing through their nose?’
Sonja McGeachie
Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist
Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can mouth breathing cause speech problems?
Yes. Mouth breathing can alter tongue posture, lip strength and oral stability, which may contribute to articulation difficulties and lisps.
Should I be worried if my child snores?
Regular snoring is not considered normal in children and may indicate airway obstruction or sleep-disordered breathing.
Can enlarged tonsils affect speech?
Yes. Enlarged tonsils may affect resonance, tongue positioning, swallowing and breathing patterns.
What age can children be assessed?
Children of all ages can be assessed if parents have concerns about speech, feeding, breathing or oral development.
What is Orofacial Myofunctional Therapy?
Orofacial Myofunctional Therapy focuses on improving breathing patterns, tongue posture, lip seal and oral muscle function to support overall health and development.
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Have you noticed your child referring to themselves as ‘you’, or calling you ‘me’? This seemingly confusing mix-up of pronouns, known as pronoun reversal, often raises concerns for parents. Below I outline why your child does this and want to reassure you that it is to do with his or her unique language learning style.
Gestalt language processing: Learning in chunks
Many children, particularly those on the autism spectrum, use a gestalt language processing approach. Unlike analytic language processors who learn individual words and build sentences, gestalt language processors learn language in whole ‘chunks’ or ‘gestalts’. Think of these gestalts as pre-packaged scripts they pick up from their environment — phrases, sentences, even snippets of songs or movie lines.
As Marge Blanc, author of Natural language acquisition on the autism spectrum, explains, ‘When a child picks up an entire gestalt (script), he’s got the pronoun of the original speaker. So ‘pronoun reversal’ is nothing more than that.’
So your child is simply repeating what they’ve heard, without yet understanding the individual word meanings or grammatical functions.
Imagine your child hearing ‘You want a rice cake?’ repeated frequently. They might then use this phrase to express their own desire for a rice cake, even though it doesn’t grammatically fit. So they are thinking and saying ‘You want a rice cake?’ and the meaning of this phrase is: ‘I want a rice cake’. This isn’t a sign of confusion, but a natural step in their language development. They’re working with the tools they have: the scripts they’ve acquired.
How can we support their natural language journey
Instead of trying to ‘correct’ pronoun usage, our role as caregivers and speech therapists is to support the child’s natural language progression. Here’s how we can do this:
Learn about their gestalt stage and run with it: In the early stages (1–3) of gestalt language development, correcting pronouns can be counterproductive. These children are still processing language as whole units, not individual words. Direct corrections can lead to frustration and hinder their natural language exploration.
Patience and trust: Gestalt language processing follows a predictable, albeit sometimes non-linear, path. By understanding their current stage, we can provide targeted support. Language sampling and scoring, guided by the Natural Language Acquisition framework, help us pinpoint their stage and tailor our approach.
Model language strategically: In the early stages, avoid using pronouns like ‘you’ and ‘you’re’. Instead, model language from the child’s perspective or use joint perspectives. For example, instead of ‘Are you thirsty?’, try ‘I’m thirsty!’ or ‘Let’s get some water’,
The big picture: Language unfolds naturally
Pronoun reversal is a stepping stone, not a stumbling block. As gestalt language processors progress, they begin to break down these gestalts into smaller units and develop their own self-generated language. This is when their understanding and use of pronouns naturally emerge.
By shifting our perspective from ‘error correction’ to ‘developmental support’, we create a nurturing environment for these children to thrive. We empower them to navigate their unique language journey, ultimately leading to more meaningful and independent communication.
So, to summarise:
Pronoun reversal is a typical characteristic of early-stage gestalt language processing.
Focus on modelling language from the child’s perspective or a joint perspective.
Avoid correcting pronouns in the early stages.
Trust the process and support the child’s natural language development.
Let’s celebrate the diverse ways our children learn to communicate and empower them to find their unique voice!
If you have any questions or would like some help with understanding your little gestalt language learner, please get in touch with me via my contact form.
Sonja McGeachie
Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist
Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.
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As an AAC speech and language therapist who uses the Saltillo 88 Core board every day, I can tell you it’s more than just a communication tool. It’s a doorway to independence, connection, and expressing my students’ unique voice.
What is the Saltillo 88 and why do I use this one?
In this blog post, I want to share practical, real-world examples of how I integrate the Saltillo 88 into various daily activities, empowering my students and parents to learn to communicate.
There are literally hundreds of core boards out there and I have tried many different ones over the years. Which one should I use with this particular client? Should I make up my own? (I have made up tons!) or should I use a ready-made one like the one below which is what this blog is about.
For me the best ones are boards with a good number of core words (at least 60) so that the board is versatile and can be used across a range of activities. The board needs to have a range of pronouns, verbs, descriptors, prepositions and question words to be useful and to stimulate not just requesting but commenting and asking questions. Another consideration is: can the board easily be transferred to a more robust AAC system. Once my student is used to the symbols and where they are could we move to an electronic talker/device. And if this answer is ’yes’ then we have a great board to get started with.
It has 88 words and I find it really does suit most activities. The same board and design is also then found on the TOUCHCHAT AAC device which can be a seamless transition for our learner.
Let me dive into how core words/board or AAC can be used daily:
1. Getting dressed
Whilst choosing clothes for your little one and getting them ready for the day you can use the following words: want, like, get, finish. Always pack the words into little phrases you can speak naturally when using a board. I have tried to show you phrases that you could use below.
The words in bold are the core words on the board and the other words are just words you say whilst pointing to the core word.
Goal: Express choices, needs, and preferences about clothing.
Ideas:
‘I want this one [specific item of clothing: ‘shirt’, ‘pants’]’
‘I like that one [colour/type of clothing]’
‘Help me [put/get it on/take off]’
‘let’s get your socks now’
‘finished let’s go’ (when dressed)
2. Having a shower/bath
Goal: Bath time tends to happen daily and so it lends itself to using the same useful phrases and words to chat about temperature preferences, to ask for toys or for washing routines.
Ideas:
‘let’s go have a bath/shower’
‘let’s turn on the tap/water’
‘now turn it off’
‘let’s get/have more toys/water/bubbles/tickles’
‘all gone, what’s next?’
‘how about washing your hands/feet’
‘let’s do that again’
‘need some help?’
‘Stop it now, let’s do something different’
3. Mealtimes
Goal: Mealtimes can be (or should be) enjoyable and motivating to ask for specific things we like, and commenting about our eating experiences.
Ideas:
‘I want/give me [food item: ‘apple’, ‘bread’]/[drink item: ‘water’, ‘juice’]’
‘More foods/drinks/snacks’
‘All done’
‘that’s messy we like that (not)’
‘Like’/‘Don’t like’
‘Big’/‘Little’
‘this is so nice!’
4. Playing
Goal: This is where it’s at for children of course and we can use our core words to chat and engage with our little learners.
Ideas:
‘I want play’
‘Go’/‘Stop’
‘More/again’
‘not it’s my My turn’/’it’s Your turn’
‘that’s a Big one!’/‘let’s do Little bubbles’ (describing toys)
‘let me Open it for you’ (for boxes, doors in play)
‘I See it’ (to draw attention)
‘Help me’ (with a tricky toy)
5. Opening boxes/doors/etc
Goal: Most kids love opening boxes, doors and cabinets to see what there is to play with. Help your child to ask for what they want.
Ideas:
‘let’s Open that box/bag/zip/door’
‘get me a (toy) out of here’
‘Let’s Take it out and see what it is?’
‘finished’ (when finished with the task)
‘I want [what’s inside]’
‘What’s next? Let’s see’
Tips for using AAC effectively
Consistency is key: Emphasise using it regularly, even for small things.
Modelling: this is crucial, the adults need to use the board for all situations first and foremost before we can expect our child to be interested.
Patience: Communication takes time and practice.
Celebrate successes: Acknowledge every communicative attempt.
Make it accessible: Keep the board within easy reach at all times.
Conclusion
If you’re considering the Saltillo 88, or TouchChat, or are already using it, I hope these examples inspire you. It’s a journey of discovery, and every word communicated is a step towards a more connected and independent life. What are your favourite ways to use the Saltillo 88 or which core board do you love using? I would love to hear your comments and stories.
Sonja McGeachie
Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist
Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.
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The start of a new year often brings fresh hope, and sometimes fresh worries, for parents supporting their child’s communication. I am always genuinely excited to begin a new journey with children and their families, and I know that, for many parents, this kind of therapy may look very different from what they were expecting.
Parents (and children!) are often surprised to discover that our sessions are playful, joyful, and intentionally low-pressure. You won’t see demands for eye contact, sitting still, or being told to ‘do it this way’ or ‘put the red square there’. Instead, you’ll see your child being met exactly where they are.
For families who have previously experienced more adult-led or behaviour-based approaches including Applied Behaviour Therapy, this difference can feel unfamiliar at first. Because of that, I want to take a moment to prepare you for what child-led, neurodiversity-affirming therapy looks like, so you can feel confident, comfortable, and reassured from day one.
Why doesn’t child-led therapy look like ‘traditional’ therapy?
Many people picture speech and language therapy as sitting at a table, using flashcards, or practising words through repetition. While those approaches can work well for some children, they are often not effective or appropriate for many neurodivergent children—including children with autistic profiles, ADHD, or demand-sensitive nervous systems.
Our approach is grounded in a simple and powerful truth:
Children learn best when they feel safe, motivated, and emotionally connected.
When a child’s nervous system feels calm and secure, learning becomes possible. When a child feels pressured or controlled, communication often shuts down, even if they can speak.
🎯 Our purpose: Communication through connection
Our goal is not simply to help your child say more words. Our goals go deeper and are built on strong foundations:
Trust and regulation: We focus on building a trusting relationship where your child feels safe, understood, and emotionally regulated. A calm nervous system is the starting point for all communication.
Motivation: We follow your child’s intrinsic motivation, the things they naturally enjoy to make communication meaningful, joyful, and purposeful.
Spontaneous communication: We create opportunities for your child to communicate because they want to, not because they are asked or instructed to.
🧸 What to expect in a session
Our sessions are intentionally child-led and often look very much like play.
Feature
What it looks like
Why we do this
Minimal toys
We usually offer just 3–4 carefully chosen activities (such as bubbles, blocks, or sensory play).
Less is more. Fewer choices reduce overwhelm and help children focus on what genuinely interests them.
Child chooses
Your child decides what to play with and how to engage.
This immediately establishes us as a safe, non-demanding partner and increases motivation.
The therapist’s role
We join your child’s play, observing closely and responding naturally.
We model language, share attention, and reflect your child’s experiences in a way that feels natural and supportive.
No pressure or demands
There are no ‘must-do’ tasks. If your child wants to spin, crash, line up toys, or repeat an activity, we follow.
Reducing demands lowers anxiety and supports communication, particularly for children with demand-sensitive profiles.
Is this really effective?
It’s completely natural to wonder, ‘Are they just playing?’ The answer is yes, and very intentionally so.
Our sessions are guided by nearly 30 years of speech and language therapy experience, alongside clear, achievable goals tailored to each individual child. Play is a child’s natural language and their most powerful learning tool.
Within play, we are constantly creating opportunities to:
Build joint attention (sharing focus and interest)
Model language at the right level
Encourage back-and-forth communication
Develop a deep, authentic connection
If your child has struggled to engage or communicate in more structured or demand-heavy settings, this child-led approach is often the key to unlocking their potential.
💛 What this might look like at home
You may notice that when pressure is reduced:
Your child begins communicating more during everyday routines
Language emerges through play, movement, or shared enjoyment
Communication feels more natural and less forced
Small moments could be a shared smile, a look, a sound, a gesture. All matter. These are the building blocks of meaningful communication.
📚 Resources for parents
If you’d like to explore these ideas further, you may find the following helpful:
Further reading: Searching ‘Neurodiversity-affirming speech therapy’ or ‘Child-led therapy’
I look forward to meeting you and your child. Please bring any questions, uncertainties, or curiosities to our first session, there is no such thing as a silly question. This is a journey we take together. Contact me via my contact form.
Sonja McGeachie
Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist
Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.
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Communication is the essence of human interaction, allowing us to express thoughts, feelings, wants and needs. For non-speaking children and their families finding an avenue to communicate effectively can be a really challenging journey.
Augmentative and Alternative Communication (AAC) offers a solution: with AAC Core Boards as a powerful ally and tool to empower and express more than requests: ideas, comments, surprise and delight, as well as saying no to something! Very important!
“AAC is a set of tools and strategies that an individual uses to solve every day communicative challenges. Communication can take many forms such as: speech, a shared glance, text, gestures, facial expressions, touch, sign language, symbols, pictures, and speech-generating devices” (RCSLT, 2023) to name just some.
AAC Core Boards are a powerful tool to empower non-speakers to express ideas. In this blog, we’ll explore the significance of AAC Core Boards and how they can unlock the world of communication for non-speaking children.
Let’s discover and understand AAC Core Boards
Firstly, let’s look at what a Core Board looks like…
AAC Core Boards are a specific type of AAC system that employs a grid-style board. This grid contains a set of core vocabulary words or symbols, which serve as a foundation for all communicative functions (e.g., initiating, greeting, requesting, negating, commenting, asking a question, and expressing surprise).
These boards incorporate high-frequency (most used) and versatile words. They enable us to construct sentences, express emotions, and take part in conversations, fostering a sense of independence and autonomy. By enabling communication, we also remove some of the frustration (from not being able to communicate) which contributes/or often leads to behavioural difficulties.
Building literacy skills
AAC Core Boards are not only tools for immediate communication. They also play a pivotal role in language and literacy development. By using these boards, non-verbal children engage with words and symbols. It reinforces their understanding of language structure and grammar.
As they consistently play with and then use their boards, they naturally absorb language patterns, laying the foundation for improved literacy skills. This immersive learning experience paves the way for future language acquisition and communication growth.
Customisation for individual needs
Every child is unique, and their communication needs can vary significantly. AAC Core Boards are designed with this diversity in mind, allowing for customisation to suit individual preferences and abilities. The boards can be adapted to include specific vocabulary relevant to a child’s daily life, interests, and activities. This personalisation ensures that the AAC Core Board is a true reflection of your child’s personality and needs, making communication more motivating, engaging and effective.
Collaboration between AAC Core Boards and Speech Therapy
AAC Core Boards are an excellent tool but we need to know one important aspect: they only work well when used regularly by the child’s family and key people in the first place.
The board needs to be used and modelled by adults consistently and regularly across environments. This is so our children know what to expect, take an interest and begin to use the boards themselves. Modelling the use of AAC Core boards is vital. Think how long it typically takes for a child to learn their first word. Around a year! During that time the adults talk constantly to their child without hesitation or expectation! The same goes for introducing this new way of communicating.
Collaborating with your child’s Speech and Language Therapist (SLT) ensures that your child receives the right guidance in using the AAC system. SLTs can assess your child’s communication abilities, recommend appropriate boards and provide guidance on how to best put them in place, so that your child can reach their communicative potential.
For non-speaking children, AAC Core Boards are more than just tools. They are bridges to a world of communication, connection, and empowerment. These boards harness the power of visual communication, foster language development, social interaction, and personal expression. They can be tailored to individual needs with the support of skilled professionals. AAC Core Boards offer a beacon of hope, helping to break through communication barriers and thrive in a world that is waiting to hear your child’s voice.
For answers to your questions and to explore the most effective support for your child, feel free to contact us.
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If your child says ‘dar’ instead of ‘star’, you might be wondering if they will simply outgrow it or if they require specialised support. While ‘cluster reduction’—dropping one of the sounds in a blend—is a normal part of learning to talk, we typically expect these sounds to lock into place by age four years. If these errors persist as a child approaches school age, it often signals a speech sound delay that may now no longer pass without help. As a Speech and Language Therapist, I specialise in helping children bridge this gap using evidence-based techniques like backward chaining.
This isn’t about constant correction; it’s about providing the right clinical scaffolding to move a child from ‘frustrated’ to ‘fluent’ before they hit those critical early school years.
Dropping sounds from words is a common feature of speech sound difficulties, and while it can look small on the surface, it can have a big impact on how clearly a child is understood. In this short video clip, I’m working with a child on an /ST/ sound cluster, demonstrating how I use an evidence-based speech therapy technique called backward chaining to help children build clearer speech with confidence.
What’s actually happening when a child drops the ‘S’?
Clusters like /ST/, /SP/, and /SK/ are tricky. They require:
precise timing
careful airflow
and the ability to blend sounds smoothly
For many children, especially those with speech sound difficulties, this is a big ask.
So instead of hearing:
‘star’
we might hear:
‘tar’ or ‘dar’
This isn’t laziness or refusal. It’s the child simplifying the word to make it manageable.
Why I don’t start by saying ‘say star’
Telling a child to ‘just add the S’ rarely works.
Instead, I meet them where they are already successful.
In this clip, the child can already say ‘dar’ clearly. That’s our starting point.
Backward chaining: building speech from success
Backward chaining means we:
Start with the part of the word the child can already say
Gradually add the missing sound
Keep the child feeling successful at every step
So rather than jumping straight to ‘star’, we:
secure the ending
gently introduce the /S/
and blend it in a way that feels achievable
This approach reduces frustration, builds confidence, and helps the sound stick not just in the therapy room, but out in the real world.
Why this matters beyond one word
This isn’t just about saying ‘star’.
It’s about:
teaching the mouth a new movement pattern
giving the brain time to organise the sound sequence
and helping the child feel capable, not corrected
When therapy feels safe and successful, children are far more likely to generalise their new sounds into everyday speech.
Speech therapy works best when children feel supported not tested.
If your child struggles with speech clarity
If your child:
drops sounds from words
avoids longer or trickier words
or becomes frustrated when they’re not understood
This is the kind of work I do every day building speech step by step, in a way that respects each child’s pace and strengths.
Support can be gentle, effective, and empowering.
If you’d like to learn more about how speech therapy can support your child, you’re always welcome to get in touch.
Sonja McGeachie
Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist
Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.
Find a speech and language therapist for your child in London. Are you concerned about your child’s speech, feeding or communication skills and don’t know where to turn? Please contact me and we can discuss how I can help you or visit my services page.
