Using AAC in daily life

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Communication is a fundamental human right, a bridge that connects us to the world and each other. For many, spoken language is the primary mode, but for individuals with complex communication needs, Augmentative and Alternative Communication (AAC) offers a powerful pathway to expression and connection. This guide will demystify AAC, highlight the crucial role of modelling, and provide practical examples of how low-tech AAC can be seamlessly integrated into everyday activities.

What is AAC in a nutshell?

AAC encompasses a wide range of tools and strategies that supplement or replace spoken language. It’s not about replacing speech, but rather about providing additional ways for individuals to communicate effectively. Think of it as a spectrum:

  • Unaided AAC: This involves using only your body, such as gestures, facial expressions, body language, and sign language.
  • Aided AAC: This involves external tools or devices. These can range from low-tech options like picture boards and communication books to high-tech speech-generating devices (SGDs) and apps on tablets.

The beauty of AAC lies in its flexibility and personalisation. It empowers individuals to express their wants, needs, thoughts, and feelings, fostering independence and participation in all aspects of life.

Modelling is KEY: Showing, not just telling

Imagine trying to learn a new language without ever hearing it spoken. It would be incredibly difficult, right? The same principle applies to AAC. Modelling is the single most important strategy for teaching and supporting AAC users. It means actively using the AAC system yourself while talking, demonstrating how to navigate the system and express messages.

Here’s why modelling is so vital:

  • It’s how we learn language: Typically developing children learn language by hearing it constantly around them. AAC users need the same immersion.
  • It reduces pressure: When you model, you’re not asking the individual to communicate, you’re just showing them how it’s done. This takes the pressure off and makes learning more enjoyable.
  • It expands vocabulary and concepts: By modelling a variety of words and phrases, you introduce new vocabulary and demonstrate how to combine symbols to create more complex messages.
  • It demonstrates purpose: Modelling shows that AAC is a functional and effective way to communicate, not just a set of pictures.

So, how do you model? It’s simple: point to the symbols on the communication board or device as you speak the words. For example, if you say, ‘Time to eat breakfast,’ you might point to ‘time’, ‘eat’, and ‘breakfast’ on the board.

Low-tech AAC in action: Everyday activities

Low-tech AAC, such as communication boards, books, or single-page displays, is incredibly versatile and can be easily incorporated into daily routines. These can be as simple as printed pages with symbols, laminated for durability.

Let’s explore how low-tech AAC can be used throughout a typical day, with examples of symbols:

1. Getting ready for nursery

Mornings can be busy, but they also offer rich communication opportunities. A ‘Getting Ready’ communication board can help sequence activities and offer choices.

Activity example:

‘Time to get up!’ (point to GET UP). ‘What do you want to wear today, the blue shirt or the red shirt?’ (point to GET DRESSED) ‘Then, we brush teeth’ (point to TOOTHBRUSH) and so on.

AAC mornings symbol examples

2. Breakfast Time

Mealtimes are perfect for making choices, expressing preferences, and commenting. A ‘Breakfast’ communication board can focus on food items, actions, and social comments.

Example symbols:

AAC meal times symbol examples

Activity example:

‘What do you want to eat for breakfast?’ (point to EAT). ‘Do you want cereal or toast?’ (point to CEREAL or TOAST). If they finish their milk, you could say, ‘Are you ALL DONE or do you want MORE MILK?’ (point to symbols).

3. Catching the Bus

Even routine transitions like catching the bus can be communication rich. A small, portable ‘Travel’ board can be useful.

Example symbols:

AAC catching the bus symbol examples

3. Being on the playground

The playground is a dynamic environment perfect for commenting, requesting actions, and engaging in social play.

AAC playground symbol examples

Activity example:

‘Let’s PLAY!’ (point to PLAY). ‘Do you want to go on the SWING or the SLIDE?’ (point to symbols). If they are on the swing, you can say, ‘Do you want to go FAST or SLOW?’ (point to symbols) and ‘Push AGAIN!’ (point to PUSH) You can also model social language like ‘It’s MY TURN.’

Beyond the symbols: Key takeaways

  • Consistency is key: Use AAC consistently across all environments and with all communication partners.
  • Be patient: Learning a new language takes time. Celebrate small successes.
  • Make it fun: Integrate AAC into play and enjoyable activities.
  • Follow the individual’s lead: Respond to all communication attempts, even if they are imperfect.

In the video below I model how to integrate AAC into everyday activities with a few more examples and I discuss the difference between AAC and PECS.

If you need some inspiration with using AAC or would like your child assessed for the right type of AAC then please get in touch.

Sonja McGeachie

Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.

Health Professions Council registered
Royal College of Speech & Language Therapists Member
Member of ASLTIP

Find a speech and language therapist for your child in London. Are you concerned about your child’s speech, feeding or communication skills and don’t know where to turn? Please contact me and we can discuss how I can help you or visit my services page.

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