Your child’s communication journey

ByLondon Speech and Feeding January 7, 2026January 5, 2026

Understanding our neurodiversity-affirming, child-led approach

Welcome to a different kind of therapy!

The start of a new year often brings fresh hope, and sometimes fresh worries, for parents supporting their child’s communication. I am always genuinely excited to begin a new journey with children and their families, and I know that, for many parents, this kind of therapy may look very different from what they were expecting.

Parents (and children!) are often surprised to discover that our sessions are playful, joyful, and intentionally low-pressure. You won’t see demands for eye contact, sitting still, or being told to ‘do it this way’ or ‘put the red square there’. Instead, you’ll see your child being met exactly where they are.

For families who have previously experienced more adult-led or behaviour-based approaches including Applied Behaviour Therapy, this difference can feel unfamiliar at first. Because of that, I want to take a moment to prepare you for what child-led, neurodiversity-affirming therapy looks like, so you can feel confident, comfortable, and reassured from day one.

Why doesn’t child-led therapy look like ‘traditional’ therapy?

Many people picture speech and language therapy as sitting at a table, using flashcards, or practising words through repetition. While those approaches can work well for some children, they are often not effective or appropriate for many neurodivergent children—including children with autistic profiles, ADHD, or demand-sensitive nervous systems.

Our approach is grounded in a simple and powerful truth:

Children learn best when they feel safe, motivated, and emotionally connected.

When a child’s nervous system feels calm and secure, learning becomes possible. When a child feels pressured or controlled, communication often shuts down, even if they can speak.

🎯 Our purpose: Communication through connection

Our goal is not simply to help your child say more words. Our goals go deeper and are built on strong foundations:

Trust and regulation: We focus on building a trusting relationship where your child feels safe, understood, and emotionally regulated. A calm nervous system is the starting point for all communication.
Motivation: We follow your child’s intrinsic motivation, the things they naturally enjoy to make communication meaningful, joyful, and purposeful.
Spontaneous communication: We create opportunities for your child to communicate because they want to, not because they are asked or instructed to.

🧸 What to expect in a session

Our sessions are intentionally child-led and often look very much like play.

Feature	What it looks like	Why we do this
Minimal toys	We usually offer just 3–4 carefully chosen activities (such as bubbles, blocks, or sensory play).	Less is more. Fewer choices reduce overwhelm and help children focus on what genuinely interests them.
Child chooses	Your child decides what to play with and how to engage.	This immediately establishes us as a safe, non-demanding partner and increases motivation.
The therapist’s role	We join your child’s play, observing closely and responding naturally.	We model language, share attention, and reflect your child’s experiences in a way that feels natural and supportive.
No pressure or demands	There are no ‘must-do’ tasks. If your child wants to spin, crash, line up toys, or repeat an activity, we follow.	Reducing demands lowers anxiety and supports communication, particularly for children with demand-sensitive profiles.

Is this really effective?

It’s completely natural to wonder, ‘Are they just playing?’ The answer is yes, and very intentionally so.

Our sessions are guided by nearly 30 years of speech and language therapy experience, alongside clear, achievable goals tailored to each individual child. Play is a child’s natural language and their most powerful learning tool.

Within play, we are constantly creating opportunities to:

Build joint attention (sharing focus and interest)
Model language at the right level
Encourage back-and-forth communication
Develop a deep, authentic connection

If your child has struggled to engage or communicate in more structured or demand-heavy settings, this child-led approach is often the key to unlocking their potential.

💛 What this might look like at home

You may notice that when pressure is reduced:

Your child begins communicating more during everyday routines
Language emerges through play, movement, or shared enjoyment
Communication feels more natural and less forced

Small moments could be a shared smile, a look, a sound, a gesture. All matter. These are the building blocks of meaningful communication.

📚 Resources for parents

If you’d like to explore these ideas further, you may find the following helpful:

Book: Uniquely Human by Dr Barry Prizant
Approaches: The Hanen Program and DIR/Floortime Model
Further reading: Searching ‘Neurodiversity-affirming speech therapy’ or ‘Child-led therapy’

I look forward to meeting you and your child. Please bring any questions, uncertainties, or curiosities to our first session, there is no such thing as a silly question. This is a journey we take together. Contact me via my contact form.

Sonja McGeachie

Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.

Royal College of Speech & Language Therapists Member

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Speech and Language Therapy · Top tips

Principles of motor learning in childhood apraxia of speech: A guide for parents and therapists
ByLondon Speech and Feeding March 22, 2024March 22, 2024
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Childhood Apraxia of Speech (CAS) is a complex neurological disorder that affects a child’s ability to plan and coordinate the movements necessary for speech production. Children with CAS often have difficulty with articulation, prosody, and fluency, making it challenging for them to communicate effectively. While there is no cure for CAS, speech and language therapy can significantly improve a child’s communication skills and overall quality of life. Understanding the principles of motor learning is crucial for both parents and speech therapists to support children with CAS on their speech journey.

What is MOTOR LEARNING?

Motor learning refers to the process of acquiring and refining new skills through practice and experience. This applies to all aspects of movement, including speech production. The brain constantly receives sensory information about the movements being made and adjusts them based on the desired outcome. A breakdown or interruption of this process can make it difficult for children to plan, sequence, and coordinate the intricate movements involved in speech.

What key principles do we use in speech and language therapy for motor learning?
- Task Specificity: Speech Therapy activities that directly target the specific speech sounds or skills your child is working on. For example, if your child is struggling with /p/, practising isolated /p/ sounds, words with /p/, and phrases with /p/ would be most beneficial.
- Massed vs. Distributed Practice: We consider the optimal amount and distribution of practice sessions throughout the day. Massed practice involves concentrated practice in a single session, while distributed practice spreads practice sessions throughout the day. The best approach depends on the individual child’s learning style and attention span.
- Feedback: We provide clear and immediate feedback to help your child understand the accuracy and effectiveness of their attempts. This feedback can be auditory, visual, or touch based.
- Error Correction: We aim to gently correct errors so that we can help your child refine their movements and avoid developing bad habits. The focus is on providing specific cues and guidance rather than simply pointing out mistakes.
- Variety and Progression: We gradually introduce new challenges and variations in speech therapy activities to prevent plateaus and maintain motivation.
- Motivation and Engagement: A big part of our work is to make therapy sessions fun and engaging to keep your child motivated and actively participating. We use games, songs, and activities that your child enjoys while incorporating targeted practice opportunities.
What about home work?

Yes we need your help and here are some examples of how this could look:
- Task Specificity: During story time, focus on practising target sounds present in the story. Have your child repeat words or phrases containing the sound and encourage them to identify the sound in other words.
- Massed vs. Distributed Practice: Instead of one long practice session, try shorter, more frequent sessions throughout the day. This can help maintain focus and prevent fatigue. It is recommended to go for 100 repetitions of the target sound per day, every day in between the sessions. We can decide together how you can best do that through either massed or distributed practice. We can decide after the session.
- Feedback: Use a mirror to provide visual feedback on lip and tongue placement during sound production. Record the child’s speech and play it back to help them self-monitor their accuracy.
I quite like this mirror below but any table top mirror will work as long as it is not too small. Your child should see their whole face easily.
- Error Correction: If the child makes an error, gently model the correct sound or movement without shaming or criticising. Provide specific cues such as ‘lips together’ for /p/ or ‘tongue up’ for /t/.
- Variety and Progression: We will guide you on exactly what words to practise so this is something you need not worry about.
- Motivation and Engagement: Use games, songs, and activities that your child enjoys. Play a game of ‘I Spy’ focusing on words with the target sound or create silly sentences with the sound to make practice fun.
Let’s work together!

It is crucial for parents, therapists, and other caregivers to work collaboratively to ensure a consistent and comprehensive approach to supporting your child’s speech development. Speech and Language Therapists can provide guidance and resources on implementing these principles at home, while parents can share observations and progress updates to inform therapy sessions.

Remember, every child with CAS learns at their own pace. By understanding and applying the principles of motor learning, parents and speech therapists can create a supportive and stimulating environment that empowers children with CAS to reach their full communication potential.

Do get in touch if you would like some in-person or on-line 1:1 support with this. It can be overwhelming to figure it all out alone.

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Autism Therapy · Speech and Language Therapy · Top tips

Why pointing matters: Unpacking the power of this simple gesture
ByLondon Speech and Feeding March 26, 2025March 26, 2025
As a speech and language therapist, I’m often asked about the significance of seemingly simple gestures in child development. One question that comes up frequently is, ‘Why is pointing so important?’ It might seem like a trivial action, but pointing is a powerful communication tool and a critical milestone in a child’s development.

Why is pointing so important?

Let’s delve into the theory behind why pointing matters:

1. Pointing as pre verbal communication:

Before children can use words, they use gestures to communicate their needs and interests. Pointing is one of the earliest and most important gestures. It allows children to:
- Request: ‘I want that!’
- Protest: ‘No, not that!’
- Direct attention: ‘Look at that!’
- Share interest: ‘Wow, cool!’
2. Pointing and language development:

Pointing is not just about communicating in the here and now; it also plays a crucial role in language development. Research shows that:
- Early pointing predicts later language skills: Children who point more often tend to have larger vocabularies and better grammar later on.
- Pointing helps children learn new words: When children point at something, adults tend to label it, providing valuable language input.
- Pointing supports joint attention: Joint attention, or the shared focus of two individuals on an object or event, is essential for language learning. Pointing helps establish joint attention, creating opportunities for communication and learning.
3. Pointing and social-emotional development:

Pointing is not just about language; it’s also about social interaction. It allows children to:
- Engage with others: Pointing invites others to share their focus and participate in their world.
- Express emotions: Pointing can convey excitement, curiosity, or concern.
- Develop social understanding: By observing how others respond to their pointing, children learn about social cues and communication.
4. Pointing and cognitive development:

Pointing is linked to cognitive skills, such as:
- Understanding object permanence: The ability to know that objects exist even when they are out of sight.
- Categorisation: The ability to group similar objects together.
- Problem-solving: Pointing can be used to ask for help or to indicate a problem.
5. Types of Pointing:

It’s important to note that there are different types of pointing, each with its own significance:
- Imperative pointing: To request something.
- Declarative pointing: To share interest or direct attention.
- Informative pointing: To provide information.
If you have concerns about your child’s pointing or overall communication development, don’t hesitate to seek professional guidance from a speech-language therapist. Early intervention can make a significant difference in supporting your child’s communication journey.

How can we create opportunities for pointing?
- ‘Where’s the…?’ games:
  
  Play games like ‘Where’s the doggy?’ or ‘Where’s the ball?’ and encourage your toddler to point to the object.
  
  Start with familiar objects and gradually introduce new ones.
- Reading together:
  
  When reading picture books, ask your toddler to point to specific objects or characters on the page.
  
  Use phrases like, ‘Can you point to the puppy?’
- Everyday activities:
  
  During daily routines, ask your toddler to point to things they want or need.
  
  For example, ‘Do you want the apple or the banana?’
  
  When walking outside say ‘LOOK’ and encourage pointing.
- Use of toys:
  
  Use toys that have buttons or points of interest that when pressed make a noise. Encourage your toddler to point to the area that makes the noise.
  
  Use toys that have many different parts, and ask the toddler to point to a specific part.
Model pointing:
- Point yourself:
  
  When you see something interesting, point to it and say the name of the object.
  
  For example, ‘Look! A bird!’
- Point to show choices:
  
  When offering choices, point to each item as you name it.
  
  For example, ‘Do you want the blue cup or the red cup?’ (Point to each cup).
- Point to indicate direction:
  
  When giving directions, point in the direction you want your toddler to go.
  
  For example, ‘Let’s go that way!’ (Point).
Make it rewarding:
- Respond to pointing:
  
  When your toddler points, immediately respond to their communication.
  
  Give them the object they want, or acknowledge what they are pointing at.
- Use positive reinforcement:
  
  Praise and encourage your toddler when they point.
  
  Say things like, ‘Good pointing!’ or ‘You showed me the car!’
- Show excitement:
  
  When they point to something, show excitement, this will encourage them to point again.
Use specific techniques:
- Use gestures and verbal cues:
  
  Combine pointing with verbal cues and other gestures.
  
  For example, say ‘Look!’ while pointing and nodding your head.
- Simplify the environment:
  
  Reduce distractions to help your toddler focus on the object you want them to point to.
- Use exaggerated movements:
  
  Use large, exaggerated pointing movements to draw your toddler’s attention.
Consider developmental factors:
- Age-appropriate expectations:
  
  Remember that pointing develops at different rates for different children.
  
  Be patient and supportive.
- Underlying issues:
  
  If your toddler is not pointing by 18 months, or if you have any concerns about their development, consult with a speech and language therapist.
  
  There may be underlying sensory or motor issues.
Key points:
- Consistency is key. Practise these strategies regularly.
- Make it fun and engaging for your toddler.
- Celebrate every success, no matter how small.
- If you have any concerns about your child’s development, contact your local health services.
Great toys and items for pointing

1. Interactive books:
- Touch-and-feel books: Books with different textures, flaps to lift, and sounds encourage interaction and pointing. ‘Where’s the…?’ questions prompt pointing to specific features.
- Books with simple pictures: Clear, uncluttered pictures make it easier for toddlers to focus and point to objects or characters.
2. Cause-and-effect toys:
- Activity cubes: These often have buttons, dials, and levers that produce sounds or actions when manipulated, prompting pointing and exploration.
- Pop-up toys: Toys where figures pop up or things happen when a button is pressed encourage anticipation and pointing to the action.
- Simple musical instruments: A toy piano, drum, or xylophone encourages pointing to the keys/surfaces to make sounds.
3. Toys with parts to manipulate:
- Shape sorters: Encourage pointing to the shapes and the matching holes.
- Stacking cups or rings: Nesting cups or stacking rings invite pointing to select the correct size or order.
- Puzzles with knobs: Simple puzzles with large knobs are easier for toddlers to grasp and point to the pieces.
4. Toys that encourage joint attention:
- Bubbles: Blowing bubbles and following them with your eyes and pointing encourages joint attention (shared focus).
- Balls: Rolling a ball back and forth and pointing to where it’s going can promote joint attention and turn-taking.
- Wind-Up Toys: Wind-up toys that move across the floor can be exciting to follow with pointing.
5. Pretend play toys:
- Toy telephones: Encourage pointing to the buttons and pretending to dial.
- Dolls and stuffed animals: Pointing to the doll’s eyes, nose, mouth, etc., or asking the child to point to these features on themselves.
- Toy food and dishes: Pretend play with food and dishes can involve pointing to request items or indicate actions (e.g., ‘Can I have the apple?’).
Tips for using toys to encourage pointing:
- Get involved: Play alongside your toddler, modelling pointing and using language to describe what you’re doing.
- Follow their lead: Observe what your child is interested in and use that to encourage pointing.
- Limit distractions: Reduce background noise and visual clutter to help your child focus.
- Use gestures and words: Combine pointing with words and other gestures (e.g., ‘Look!’ while pointing).
- Be patient and positive: Celebrate all attempts at pointing and provide lots of encouragement.
Remember, the most important factor is the interaction you have with your child while playing. Use these toys as tools to create opportunities for communication and joint attention, and your toddler will be well on their way to mastering pointing!

Get in touch with me via my contact form if you need support

Sonja McGeachie

Early Intervention Speech and Language Therapist

Feeding and Dysphagia (Swallowing) Specialist The London Speech and Feeding Practice

The London Speech and Feeding Practice

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Autism Therapy · Neurodiversity · Speech and Language Therapy

Neurodiversity affirming Speech and Language Therapy
ByLondon Speech and Feeding November 24, 2023November 24, 2023

Introduction

I am a neurodiversity affirming therapist and I love and endorse play-based therapy. I use it alongside a strengths-focused approach in all my sessions. Find out why we should use these transformative therapy methodologies in all our work and play with our children.

I always have a range of different toys and activities up my sleeve so that when one toy is no longer interesting, that’s fine. ‘Look here’s a new one, how about we try this one?’ When therapy feels like play, children are more likely to be engaged and attentive, which leads to better outcomes.

By using play as a context for Speech and Language Therapy we can create opportunities for children to use and practise their communication skills in a natural, real-life setting. This helps bridge the gap between the therapy room and everyday life.

Goals and targets

What about goals and targets I hear you say? Of course, as Speech and Language Therapists we always have our goals for any particular child. They can be speech goals (we want Bobbi to produce a ‘k’ sound at the end of words) or communication goals (we want Fatima to ask for something by pointing to it rather than grabbing it). And these goals can be achieved where there is a reciprocation and a positive, playful relationship between the adult and the child. That relationship comes through play and fun.

Play and fun

Play is how a child interacts and learns. If it’s fun, interesting, exciting or pleasurable then that is where the magic happens. And that is what we need to return to repeatedly and then see if we can fold our targets into the activity as we go.

As soon as we expect our child to do something and we try and shape their behaviours towards a certain outcome we no longer ‘play’. We are now in teaching mode, where we direct and where we are ‘in charge’. As a neurodiversity affirming therapist, I believe that all play is valid. We must not get into the trap of thinking that only functional play is valid, that there is only one way to play with that car ramp/puzzle/potato head. Our autistic children often need to play in a particular way to navigate their world and we must not try and stop that.

When we affirm and validate our child’s play and copy their play with enthusiasm and respect then, in my experience, all children regardless where they are on the neurodiversity spectrum will begin to engage with us, copy us, and learn how to communicate effectively about things that matter to them.

Play-based therapy allows therapists to tailor interventions to each child’s unique interests and abilities. This individualised approach increases the likelihood of success and progress.

Strengths-Focused Speech Therapy

Strengths-focused therapy emphasizes a child’s strengths and abilities rather than their deficits. It recognises that every person has unique strengths that can be harnessed to overcome challenges.

Focusing on strengths helps us build a positive self-image. This is especially important for children with communication disorders, as it can boost their confidence and self-esteem.

When we encourage children to play in ways that they enjoy and are good at they feel empowered and more in control of their lives and play. This can lead to increased motivation and a sense of ownership over their progress.

Now, imagine the powerful impact that can be achieved by combining play-based therapy and strengths-focused therapy in speech therapy sessions. This dynamic combination brings out the best of both worlds. It creates a therapeutic environment that is not only effective but also enjoyable for children and their families.

As Speech Therapists we can use the child’s strengths and interests as a foundation for play-based activities. This personalisation not only makes therapy more engaging but also more effective.

An example

Charlie, a 3-year-old with social communication challenges, had a deep interest in anything that spins. We used this strength and interest to create a variety of spinning activities. As he is allowed to engage in his spinners, we can practise lots of speech and language and provide great phrases alongside his interest and activities: Ready steady go! Stop! ‘another one’ ‘the red one’ ‘again again’ ‘I love it’ ‘it’s a spinner’ ‘Charlie loves this toy’ ‘it’s going fast’ ‘it’s so fun’ etc..

Over time Charlie started to copy some of these word models and then used them to create his own little phrases, such as ‘the blue one again’. When this occurred, we felt like celebrating because it had come naturally and appropriately to the situation without any coercion or direction. That is what communication is about! Well done Charlie!

Conclusion

Play-based and strengths-focused speech therapy approaches are powerful tools and by combining these approaches, we create a therapeutic environment that is not only effective but also enjoyable and empowering for our clients.

Contact me if you would like your child to have neurodiversity affirming speech and language therapy.

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Autism Therapy · Top tips

Joint attention for children with autism
ByLondon Speech and Feeding August 19, 2021March 28, 2025
Why is joint engagement important for communication development?

It has been well-documented that the development of joint attention is impaired in children who have social communication difficulties or autism. It is, in fact, this impairment which distinguishes children with ASD from children who have other developmental delays.

A lack of joint attention in very young children is an early sign of autism as it is a signal that there is a disruption in the motivation to connect socially with others. Since this is a crucial element, I thought I would outline what we mean by Joint Attention as supported by the research undertaken at Hanen.org.

In typically developing children, the ability to shift attention between a person and an object for the purposes of connecting socially or for requesting develops around the same time. However, for children with ASD, these components emerge one at a time and in a linear fashion. Children with ASD usually start with requesting something and later they may learn to share attention for social sharing. (see pattern below as a general guide).

As with typical development, there is variation in the order that these skills emerge but the following patterns of development is commonly seen:
- Reaching, taking adult’s arm/hand or pointing to ask for something — but without looking at the adult
- Gradually alternating looking between person and object of desire
- Then learning to follow the point of another — which is responding to joint attention initiated by another
- Directing attention to share interests — without looking at the adult: pointing to a truck on the road/ helicopter circling above
- Then directing attention to share interest by alternating gaze shift between person and object — here the child is now initiating joint attention.
What is important to note is that in order to fulfil the criteria for true joint attention, the purpose of directing the attention of another person must be social in nature. In other words, it must not be exclusively to obtain a desirable object or event/action. True Joint Attention is seen verbally or non-verbally; we want to share a thought with another person and direct them to something we are interested or excited or spooked by.

For example: we can see an amazing firework display in the distance and we want to quickly direct our friend’s attention to this. In order to do this we might be tugging their sleeve/arm whilst pointing to the display in the distance, and perhaps we might add “wow look over there!” We are doing so simply to share an interest without obtaining anything, we are just being social with each other. So True Joint Attention is not just looking at what we want to have, then look at the person who can get this for us and then point to the item. We can say that this is the precursor to true joint attention, which is purely social in nature.

Because true joint attention is an essential precursor to typical language development, the absence of joint attention in children with ASD contributes to difficulties with language learning. Beuker, K., Rommelse, N., Donders, R. & Buitelaar, J. (2013).

The Hanen programme for Parent Child Interaction teaches parents of children with Social Communication Difficulties step by step how to enable their children to learn to pay attention to an object and the parent at the same time.

We learn how to enable a child to:
- engage take turns
- shift eye gaze between toy and adult
- copy adult’s actions, gestures and then words
- play with toys in different, new ways
- interact and for longer periods of time
- have fun whilst playing
If you would like to know more about the Hanen programme please get in touch. I look forward to exploring the topic with you and help guide you forward if this is something your child is struggling with.

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Feeding · Reviews

Transforming Mealtimes
ByLondon Speech and Feeding June 1, 2022January 31, 2023

Transforming Mealtimes

Below are two reviews I got from grateful clients over the past 4-6 weeks; this blog is more about how Feeding Therapy can help you than blowing my own trumpet…. though that said, it is always so nice and gratifying to hear when parents are happy and hopeful about their little one’s feeding journey. Feeding Therapy is a substantial part of my work as a Children’s Speech and Language Therapist. One of my specialist subjects is Autism and we find that many children on the Autism Spectrum are very specific about eating, and will often refuse a range of typical family foods in favour of a narrow range of foods/snacks.

Mostly, feeding difficulties are a combination and complex cocktail of factors that have contributed to the current status quo: sure, there may have been some physical problems to start off with, such as reflux causing the baby discomfort, constipation, a very tight tongue tie or a swallowing problem caused by neurological difficulties and of course sensory processing difficulties are also very physical experiences. We always begin with a very thorough case history taking and information gathering, followed by an oral assessment and observation of the actual swallow to establish what might have been – or still might be – the cause for the feeding difficulties.

In most of the cases I see in my practice, the original obvious cause is no longer present, especially with older children. So, if the swallowing is fine, the reflux is no longer present, the tongue was divided (twice!) why are they still not eating much, refusing to try new foods, only accept certain textures etc.

The answer is extremely complex and multi-faceted and this little blog is not covering any factors in detail (we would be here all night) -I mentioned sensory processing difficulties earlier on. These are mostly still present but often not acknowledged or recognised by parents. And it is certainly the case that one of the contributors is parental anxiety; this tends to run very high and has been for many months, sometimes years. This in turn often leads to very tense and unpleasant, endlessly long meal times and many times children are force-fed several times a day in order to “get something down there” as otherwise they would probably starve themselves.

Additionally, parents end up only offering a very narrow range of foods because that is all their child will eat. This ends up in a vicious cycle of children being fed porridge-style food for all meal times and of course they won’t progress to more mature foods if these mature foods are never on offer.

In order to help address and disentangle some of the issues I often introduce the “Division of Responsibility in Feeding” as researched and recommended by Ellyn Satter (The Satter Feeding Dynamics Model)

Here are the main points of her approach:

Children have a natural ability with eating, they eat as much as they need and they grow in the way that is right for them and they learn to eat what their parents eat. (E Satter). The parent is responsible for WHAT the child eats, WHERE and WHEN the child eats. The child is responsible for HOW MUCH they eat or WHETHER to eat. Satter proposes that parents should guide their child’s transition from nipple feeding through semi-solids, then thick and lumpy foods to finger foods and then on to normal family meals.

Please note: this model is only appropriate for children where the original physical cause is no longer present!

Of course it’s not easy! It requires a huge shift in thinking about feeding and it requires to trust our children to know what is best for them. This is very big for most parents, as it is not how we were brought up and it is not commonly known that babies and children know what is good for them!

However, it is certainly true that parents who follow this particular approach and make small, steady changes in the way the offer foods, and in the way they create family meal times differently, children make very nice, pleasing progress and over some months we often see remarkable positive changes.

I like to work in a team and especially for this type of problem it is essential to have a multi-disciplinary approach. A knowledgeable dietician is an enormous plus in any feeding team as is of course a

Paediatrician and/ or a Gastroenterologist and the most important people in the team are the parents!

Feeding Therapy is all about collaboration and a ‘team around the child” approach. When we have this in place and there is trust amongst the team members then we make fantastic progress.

Do get in touch with me if you would like some help with your tricky feeder.

Lovely Reviews

I visited London Speech and Feeding a couple of days ago with my 8-month-old granddaughter and her mother. Sonja made us feel comfortable and at ease from our first introductions. She was able to pinpoint my granddaughter’s mum’s anxiety around weaning very quickly. She not only gave her the tools to do this successfully, but also really encouraged my granddaughter’s mum and instilled confidence that she had everything she needed to make this sometimes-difficult transition without further anxiety.

Sonja was very thorough in her initial assessment of my granddaughter’s physical milestones and her developing speech. My granddaughter felt very comfortable with Sonja and happily played along with her. Then came the big moment – trying out various foods! We were amazed to see just how easily my granddaughter, with Sonja’s expert encouragement, took to sampling the wonderful array of different delicious morsels Sonja had prepared for the session. My granddaughter even drank from a cup for the first time! Wonderful!

Sonja then emailed a summary of the session and an extensive array of resources with suggestions for my granddaughter’s mum which she has now put into action. My granddaughter’s mum couldn’t thank Sonja enough for her caring attitude, extensive knowledge, and warm professionalism. I have no hesitation in recommending Sonja, she’s a fantastic Feeding Therapist!

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Sonja (and her lovely colleague, Sandra) were stupendous. I had brought my one-year-old son to see them as I was concerned that he wasn’t eating enough. They looked at his history and we ate together to make sure they had all the information they needed to give an accurate diagnosis. Whilst our outcome was that Henry was in fact doing brilliantly (and I just needed to chill out a bit!), I would imagine if there was something more serious going on, Sonja would make you feel just as supported and empowered as she did with us. Excellent follow-ups too. Money well spent for a bit of reassurance for a stressed out mama. Thank you, Sonja!

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How can I incorporate AAC into my speech therapy sessions?
ByLondon Speech and Feeding March 2, 2026February 26, 2026
Many parents are surprised when I bring AAC into a session, especially if they’ve come to see me primarily for speech sound work.

They might wonder: ‘If we’re working on pronunciation, why are we using a communication device?’

The simple answer is this: speech therapy is about communication first, and speech sounds second. Supporting a child’s ability to express themselves clearly and confidently is always the priority, and AAC can be a powerful tool alongside spoken speech.

What do we mean by AAC?

AAC stands for Augmentative and Alternative Communication.

This can include:
- A speech-generating device (such as LAMP Words for Life or GRID as I used in the photo below)
- A communication app on a tablet
- A symbol board or communication book
- Gestures, signs, or visual supports
AAC does not replace speech. Instead, it supports language development, reduces frustration, and builds communication success while speech skills are developing.

Pretend Play using Speech and AAC in my clinic room

But I mainly work on speech sounds… So how does AAC fit?

Most of the children I see are working on:
- Articulation difficulties
- Phonological delay
- Motor planning challenges (including apraxia/dyspraxia)
- Unclear speech affecting confidence
For these children, AAC isn’t a separate therapy. It’s simply woven naturally into what we are already doing.

If a child brings their device to sessions, I actively include it. If they don’t yet use AAC but could benefit from visual or symbolic support, I may introduce simple options within activities.

Using AAC to support speech practice

Let’s say we are working on early speech targets like: ‘GO’.

We might practise:
- Saying the word verbally
- Listening for the target sound
- Using play (TOY TRAIN GOING ROUND A TRACK)
Now we can extend this using AAC.

On the device or communication board, we might model: ‘LET’S GO’ or ‘IT’s GOING up the hill’.

This allows the child to:
- Practise their speech sound target
- Build a simple sentence
- Experience successful communication even if speech is not fully clear yet
All responses are valid and supported.

AAC helps children communicate more than they can say

Many children can understand and think in longer phrases than they can physically say.

For example:
- A child who verbally says single words may build longer phrases on AAC.
- A child who struggles to plan speech movements may use AAC to communicate smoothly while still practising verbal attempts.
- A child who becomes frustrated when misunderstood gains a reliable backup system.
Rather than slowing speech progress, AAC often:
- Reduces communication pressure
- Increases participation in therapy
- Encourages more attempts at speech
- Supports language growth
When children feel understood, they usually become more motivated to try speaking.

There are no ‘prerequisites’ for AAC

One of the biggest myths I hear is: ‘My child isn’t ready for AAC yet.’

In reality, children do not need to:
- Reach a certain speech level
- Use pictures first
- Prove they understand everything
- Show immediate interest
Instead, we presume competence and introduce AAC in meaningful, playful ways.

That means:
- Modelling words while blowing bubbles
- Commenting during playdough activities
- Choosing words during games
- Building simple phrases in shared reading
AAC should never feel like extra ‘work’. It’s simply another way to join in communication.

My goal is always the same: to help each child communicate as clearly, confidently, and successfully as possible, using every helpful tool available.

If your child uses AAC (or might benefit from it)

Please feel free to:
- Bring the device to sessions
- Show me how your child currently uses it
- Share advice from school or other therapists
I am very happy to incorporate AAC into our work together so that speech practice, language development, and real communication all move forward hand-in-hand. Because ultimately, therapy isn’t just about producing perfect sounds. It’s about helping your child be heard and understood.

If you’d like support or advice, please contact me and I can help guide the next steps.

Sonja McGeachie

Highly Specialist Speech and Language Therapist

Owner of The London Speech and Feeding Practice.
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